Kumbukirani choyamba kuti abambo ndi amai amalumikizana mosiyanasiyana: Amayi amakonda kugwiritsa ntchito chilankhulo, kutuwa komwe kumayang'ana kwa anthu pomwe amuna amakonda kugwiritsa ntchito konkriti, chilankhulo chakuda ndi choyera chomwe chimayenderana.
Nthawi zambiri azimayi zimawavuta kufotokozera zomwe akuganiza kwa abambo chifukwa abambo akuyesera kugawa magawo kuti athe kuthana ndi vuto lomwe amayi akufuna kumvetsetsana komwe ali, mwaubwenzi. Izi zitha kuthetsedwa ndikusintha momwe amalankhulirana. Pali njira zopangira kuti mamuna wanu akumvereni ndikumvetsetsa chilankhulo chanu.
Njira zopezera mnzanu kuti amvere, azilankhula ndi kumvetsetsa chilankhulo:
- Yambitsani kukambirana
Pitani ku Gawo 1 la nkhaniyi momwe mungapangire kuti amuna anu azikumverani komanso momwe mungayambitsire zokambiranazo. Potchula izi mutha kupeza malangizo othandizira kuti amuna anu azikumverani. Koma pali zambiri zoti muchite ngati mukufuna kuti amvetse ndikukwaniritsa zomwe mukufuna kuchokera kwa iye. Pitilizani kuwerenga kuti muphunzire momwe mungamuthandizire amuna anu kuti azitha kumvetsetsa chilankhulo.
- Gwiritsani ntchito chilankhulo chosavuta
Tsatirani pamalingaliro oyambira (okondwa, achisoni, amisala / okwiya (kukhumudwa ndikusintha kwabwino), kudabwitsidwa, kunyansidwa, kunyozedwa, ndi mantha / mantha) poyambira chifukwa amatha kuwamvetsetsa onse momwe alili.
Ichi ndi chitsimikizo kuti athe kufotokoza nawo pamlingo wina wake ndikutha kuyankha pogwiritsa ntchito chilankhulo chomwecho - chomwe mungathe, ndipo muyenera kulimbikitsa.
- Gwiritsani ntchito chilankhulo cha konkriti (Black & White)
Yesetsani kuyika zomwe mukunena munjira za konkriti; zokambiranazi ndizotengeka ndipo mutha kuzimasulira kuti zikhale chilankhulo chomveka bwino momwe mungathere. Kupatula apo, mukufuna kuti mumveke komanso njira yabwino yowonetsetsa kuti ndikuyesera kulankhula chilankhulo chake ndikusakaniza ndi chanu.
Izi zimamupatsa njira yolumikizirana nanu yomwe imagwiritsa ntchito chilankhulo chanu komanso chake.
- Khazikani mtima pansi
Mukumuphunzitsa kuyankhula motengeka mtima. Izi sizikutanthauza kuti muzimuchitira ngati mwana kapena chitsiru (iye si); zimangotanthauza kuzipangitsa kukhala zosavuta komanso zazifupi (zomwe zikutanthauza ziganizo 3 mpaka 5).
- Khazikitsani malire
Ndi chizolowezi chophunzirira chamunthu kuyesa kuthetsa kapena kukonza. Pokhapokha ngati izi ndizomwe mukufuna, mufunseni kuti apewe kuthetsa ndikukonzekera. Amatha kulephera chifukwa ndizomwe anazolowera komanso zomwe amamvetsetsa bwino. Muimitseni pang'ono ndikumufunsa kuti angomvanso chifukwa ndizomwe mukufuna ndipo kuthetsa / kukonza kumakhala kopweteka kwa inu.
- Mupempheni kuti amvetsere mwachidwi
- Uwu ndi mwayi wanu kuti mumveke zomwe mukunena
- Imani ndikumufunsa kuti akuuzeni zomwe amva. Izi sizikumuchititsa manyazi, ndikuwonetsetsa kuti zomwe mukunenazo zikumveka momveka bwino ndipo sizinaseweredwe ndikusinthidwa kudzera pazosefera ndi zikhulupiriro zake (zomwe tonsefe timakonda kuchita).Kumbukirani kuti, koyambirira, sangasinthe zomwe mukunena bwino.
- Mufunseni kuti, pang'onopang'ono, ndikufunseni ngati angakuwuzeni zomwe wamvapo ukunena pano (izi zimamupatsa chilolezo osachita ngati akumvetsetsa zomwe mukunena ndikupempha kuti mumveke bwino). Ngati achita izi, apita patsogolo chifukwa, tsopano, ali wokonzeka kuvomereza kuti si wangwiro.
- Ngati atulutsa zomwe mwanenazo, kodi zomwe wanenazo ndizokwanira? Ganizirani zenizeni za izo - mukufuna kuti amve zomwe mukunena. Ngati mumadzikhululukira kapena kuvomereza "mtundu wa," ndiye kuti mukudzichotsa nokha ndi zosowa zanu. Iye angathe peza. Ino si nthawi yoti, "Chabwino, ndizokwanira."
Musaganize kuti akukumverani molondola osafufuza mayankho ake.
- Muthandizeni kukhalabe pamisonkhano
Mukamuwona akusochera m'mutu mwake, atha kupanga yankho lake kapena kuganizira zinthu zina zomwe zimakhala bwino (mwachitsanzo, ntchito, malo ochitira masewera olimbitsa thupi); moleza mtima imani kaye nthawi yayitali kuti mupeze chidwi chake ndikumupempha kuti abwerere.
- Dziwani za njira zake zodzitetezera
- Njira zodzitchinjiriza ndizosintha kwambiri - ndiye kuti mwina zingabwere.
- Zina mwazotheka:
- Zodzikhululukira ndi kuzikhululukira: Ndi chitetezo chachilengedwe tikachita cholakwika ndipo timachititsidwa manyazi / manyazi ndi zochita zathu. Dzanja lofewa padzanja lake kapena pamtima limatha kukhazika mtima pansi.
- Kukuimba mlandu: Ngati chitetezo chake chikuyimba mlandu, malire ayenera kukhazikitsidwa. Ndikofunika kunena modekha kuti mutha kuzitenga nthawi ina. Izi zimafunikira kuletsa koma kukambirana kowonjezerapo pamfundo yake sikungakhale kopanda zipatso, kapena kuyipira.
- Dzikumbutseni nthawi yonseyi
Sanakhalebe waluso pakumvetsera komanso "kumvetsetsa" momwe akumvera. Izi zidzakuthandizani kukhala oleza mtima. Izi sizophweka kwa iye koma iye angathe peza.
- Kumbukirani cholinga chanu:
Mukufuna kuti mumveke za malingaliro anu, malingaliro anu, komanso momwe mumamvera komanso kuti muwonekere kuti ndinu ndani kwenikweni.