Zamkati
- Kugonana sikungokhala kuchita mthupi chabe
- Kukondana kwenikweni si matupi awiri okha omwe amabwera pamodzi pogonana
- Kugonana ndimayendedwe apamtima
- Kugonana posachedwa mu chibwenzi si kwabwino kwa chibwenzi
- Kukondana kwenikweni sikungogonana chabe
- Chisangalalo choyambirira chimatha nthawi ina
- Ndiye chikondi chimasiya liti?
- Kumbutsani nthawi zabwino pamene zinthu zikuipiraipira
Tonsefe timafuna kukondana, ndipo kukhudzana mthupi kumatha kuwoneka ngati kwachikondi, kwakanthawi. Ndipo ngakhale kugonana kumatanthauzidwa ngati chinthu chogonana; Popanda kuyanjana, sitingathe kuwona zonse zomwe Mulungu amafuna kuti tikumane nazo.
Musati muphonye kutimvetsa, ndife tonse a "Quickie" nthawi. Kupatula apo, baibuloli lidatinso m'buku la Mlaliki, "Kwa onsechinthu, chilipo nyengo ndi mphindi yakuchita chilichonse pansi pa thambo: ”. Chifukwa chake, mukakhala kuti mulibe nthawi yochuluka, muyenera kuchita zomwe muyenera kuchita.
Kugonana sikungokhala kuchita mthupi chabe
Sitikufuna kuti moyo wathu wogonana usinthe n’kukhala chinthu chokhacho popanda chikondi ndi chikondi. Ngakhale titakhala ndi zogonana zochuluka bwanji, ngati sitikhala ndi chikondi chenicheni komanso chibwenzi tisanachite zogonana, ndiye kuti sichidzakhalapo pambuyo pa kugonana.
Kukondana kwenikweni si matupi awiri okha omwe amabwera pamodzi pogonana
Aefeso 5:31 (KJV) Pachifukwa ichi mwamuna adzasiya atate wake ndi amake, nadzaphatikizana ndi mkazi wake, ndipo awiriwo adzakhala thupi limodzi.
Awiri kukhala m'modzi amaposa kungogonana. Ndi maanja angati omwe amagonana, kugawana matupi awo koma osati mitima yawo? Atha kukhala okwatirana, kugona limodzi, kugonana, komabe amakhala osungulumwa.
Chifukwa chiyani?
Kugonana ndimayendedwe apamtima
Monga momwe payipi wamaluwa samakhalira madzi, koma chongonena kapena galimoto yake; kotero kugonana sikoyambitsa kukondana, koma kungowonetsera.
Ngati mulibe madzi mosungiramo, ndiye kuti sipadzakhala madzi otuluka m'munda wamaluwa.
Mofananamo, ngati mulibe chikondi ndi kukondana m'mitima mwathu, ndiye kuti sipadzakhala zotuluka mchitidwe wogonana.
Mabanja ambiri amagonana asanakwatirane chifukwa amaona kuti ndi chisonyezero cha chikondi chawo kwa wina ndi mnzake. Koma nthawi zambiri, alibe ubale wapamtima. M'malo mwake, ambiri mwa mabanjawa atha kupitilizabe kugonana koma kwenikweni, amalepheretsa kukula kwawo kukhala paubwenzi wapamtima.
Kugonana posachedwa mu chibwenzi si kwabwino kwa chibwenzi
Ngakhale maanjawa atha kukhala limodzi mpaka kukwatirana, ubale wawo umangokhala wakuthupi, ndipo amasiya kugawana nzeru. Amakhala banja kapena banja lomwe likuyenda mwachikondi koma osataya chikondi; kukondana.
Zowona zake, maanja omwe nthawi yomweyo amagonana amatha kukhala ndi zisangalalo zogonana, koma nthawi zambiri samakhala pachibwenzi chifukwa amasiya kugawana nzeru. Chiyanjano chimadziwika ndi mchitidwe wogonana.
Kukondana kwenikweni sikungogonana chabe
Zowona, kugonana ndi gawo lachiwonetsero, koma siubwenzi wapamtima. Kugonana kumatha kukhala chiwonetsero chamkati kwambiri komanso chokongola cha chikondi, koma timangodzinamiza tokha tikamachita ngati kuti kugonana ndi umboni wa chikondi.
Amuna ambiri amafuna kugonana monga umboni wa chikondi; azimayi ambiri agonana poganiza zokondedwa.
Tikukhala m'dziko lodzala ndi ogwiritsa ntchito komwe timachitirana nkhanza kuti tichepetse ululu wokhala tokha. Ndipo mwatsoka anthu ambiri adzagwiritsa ntchito chiwerewere ngati njira yokwaniritsira zokhumba zawo m'malo mongofotokozera zofuna za anzawo.
M'buku lathu “Chikondi Choyamba, Chikondi Chenicheni, Chikondi Chenicheni”, timakambirana momwe chikondi chomwe poyamba chidaliri, sichilinso. Ubale womwe umakhala wokondana kwambiri komanso wapamtima wachepetsedwa kwa anthu omwe amangokondana kwambiri, kapena wasanduka wankhanza komanso wowononga kapena wowopsa kwambiri.
Pafupifupi konsekonse, maubwenzi awa amayamba ndi kufanana kwachisangalalo choyambirira, chisangalalo, chisangalalo, chisangalalo, chisangalalo, ndi chisangalalo. Amakhala ndi chisangalalo chosangalatsa komanso chachisangalalo pamene amakondana kwambiri.
Chisangalalo choyambirira chimatha nthawi ina
Chomwe chimakhalanso chofala ponseponse pakati pa maubale athu, ndikuti nthawi zina kukondwa, kusangalala, chisangalalo, chisangalalo, chisangalalo, ndi chisangalalo kulibenso.
Mabanja ambiri ali ndi nkhani yayikulu yokhudza momwe adakumana koyamba ndi kukondana koma nthawi zambiri samatha kudziwa pomwe adayamba kukondana. Amatha kukumbukira mfundo zosiyanasiyana zomwe adakhumudwitsidwa kapena kukhumudwitsidwa, koma nthawi yomwe chikondi chidayamba kuzimiririka nthawi zambiri zimakhala zovuta.
Chivumbulutso 2: 4 (KJV) Komabe ndili ndi kanthu kotsutsana ndi iwe chifukwa wasiya chikondi chako choyamba.
Ndiye chikondi chimasiya liti?
Ayi, sitikulankhula zakugonana; chifukwa maanja ambiri akupitilizabe kugonana ngakhale kuti chikondi chawo chazilala.
Chikondi chimazirala tikasiya kugawana nzeru wina ndi mnzake, komanso tikasiya kuchita zinthu zapamtima zomwe timachita wina ndi mnzake.
Chivumbulutso 2: 5 (KJV) Chifukwa chake kumbukira kumene wagwerako, nulape, nuchite ntchito zoyamba; ngati sutero ndidzadza kwa iwe, ndipo ndidzachotsa choyikapo nyali chako pamalo pake, ngati sulapa.
Zomwe Mulungu akufuna kuti tichite ndikukumbukira ndi kulapa.Tikafunsa maanja kuti atiuze za nthawi yomwe adakumana koyamba, tsiku lawo loyamba, pomwe adayamba kukondana, komanso tsiku lomwe adakwatirana-amakhala akumwetulira nthawi zonse pokumbukira zokumbukira zakale. Ngakhale mphindi zochepa zapitazo popereka uphungu anali kukhosi kwa wina ndi mnzake. Winawake nthawi ina anati, "Mulungu adatipatsa kukumbukira kuti tizitha kukumbukira kununkhira komanso kukongola kwa maluwa mu Disembala.
Kumbutsani nthawi zabwino pamene zinthu zikuipiraipira
Tili munyengo ya Disembala (yovuta, yankhanza, yachisoni, komanso yamkuntho) yaubwenzi wathu, tiyenera kukumbukira nthawi zomwe zonse zinali "Coming Up Roses"!
Tsopano popeza takumbukira momwe zinthu zimakhalira, chifukwa chomwe tidakumana koyamba, cholinga ndi maloto omwe tidakhala nawo - tsopano ndi nthawi yolapa. Ndiye kuti, kubwerera kapena kubwerera kukachita zomwe timachita tikakhala achimwemwe.