Zamkati
Zinthu zatsopano zimabwera tsiku lililonse, ndipo zimakhudza zochitika zambiri monga mabizinesi, maphunziro, komanso momwe anthu amalumikizirana. Izi zati, pali njira zambiri zamaukadaulo komanso maubale ogwirizana. Mwachitsanzo, kugwiritsa ntchito njira zapa media kulumikiza zibwenzi.
Anthu amakhulupirira kuti ukadaulo ndi maubale ndizabwino kwambiri kuyambira buledi wodulidwa, koma kodi izi ndi zoona?
Izi ndizotsutsana chifukwa anthu ali ndi malingaliro osiyanasiyana pankhaniyi.
Zatsopano monga kutumiza maimelo, mameseji kudzera pamalemba, malo ochezera a pa Intaneti onse awunikiridwa kuti awongolere momwe anthu amalumikizirana. M'malo mwake, amayenera kupeputsa moyo wamunthu kuti asamayende kukakumana wina ndi mnzake.
Ndipo, sizosadabwitsa kuti aliyense, kuyambira mabanja kupita kwa abwenzi amatha kulumikizana tsiku lililonse osayenda maulendo ataliatali. Kodi sizabwino?
Ndi kupita patsogolo kwa ukadaulo, masamba azibwenzi adabadwa, ndipo tsopano mutha kupeza masewera abwino kudzera pa masamba azibwenzi. Angadziwe ndani? Mutha kukwatirana mutakhala pachibwenzi komanso kudziwana kwa nthawi yayitali.
Momwe teknoloji yasinthira moyo wanu, itha kukhudzanso ubale wanu m'njira zingapo.
Si chinsinsi kuti maubwenzi ambiri adasokonekera chifukwa cha kupita patsogolo kwamatekinoloje. Chifukwa chake, bwanji simukudziwa momwe ukadaulo ungakhudzire ubale wanu ndikuchepetsa nthawi?
Nazi njira zomwe ukadaulo ungakhudzire ubale wanu
1. Ubwenzi wapamtima
Si chinsinsi kuti maubwenzi apamtima amakhala ndi zovuta zambiri, ndipo ukadaulo sunganyalanyazidwe chifukwa ndi chimodzi mwazomwe zimayambitsa mikangano m'mabanja amakono.
Funso ndiloti mumagwiritsa ntchito bwanji ukadaulo?
Kodi mumagwiritsa ntchito m'njira zomwe zingayambitse mavuto pakati panu ndi wokondedwa wanu? Nthawi zambiri, momwe mungagwiritsire ntchito ukadaulo zimatha kukhudza chibwenzi chanu kapena kupangitsa kutha.
Anthu makumi awiri mphambu asanu mwa anthu omwe ali pachibwenzi kapena muukwati akuti amasokonezedwa ndi mafoni awo monga ananenera A 2014 Pew Research Center.
Lipoti lomweli likuwonetsa kuti mwa 25% ya mabanja kapena maanja omwe adasokonezedwa ndi mafoni awo, 10% adakangana chifukwa chotsatira.
Kuphatikiza apo, kafukufukuyu akuwonetsa kuti mikangano imatha kuyambika chifukwa chogwiritsa ntchito ukadaulo monga nthawi yogwiritsira ntchito foni yanu kapena nthawi yopewa.
Kuphatikiza apo, kafukufukuyu adapezanso kuti ogwiritsa ntchito achichepere omwe akukumana ndi mavuto onse komanso ubale wolimba ndi anzawo chifukwa chaukadaulo.
Pomaliza, ukadaulo wakhudza momwe maanja kapena maanja amayendetsera banja lawo.
Mwachitsanzo, achikulire ambiri tsopano akutumizirana zolaula - kutumiza anzanu mameseji azakugonana. Izi zawuka kuyambira chaka cha 2012. Zimanenedwa kuti wachisanu mwa omwe anali nawo adalandira mauthenga oterewa.
2. Kusokoneza
Chifukwa ukadaulo uli ndi zatsopano zonse, zikuyenera kukusokonezani. Kupatula apo, ndani amene safuna kudziwa zochitika zaposachedwa? Aliyense amafuna kuti adziwe zatsopano.
Zimadziwika kuti m'modzi mwa omwe amagwirizana nawo nthawi zonse amasokonezedwa ndi mafoni awo am'manja ngakhale anzawo atakhala pafupi nawo.
Chowonadi chomwe simukudziwa ndikuti maola amenewo, ngakhale angawoneke ochepa, atha kuwonjezera ndikuwonongerani nthawi yanu yambiri yomwe mukadakhala ndi mnzanu.
Chomvetsa chisoni ndichakuti kugwiritsa ntchito mafoni akuchulukirachulukira ndikusokoneza maanja ambiri kuti sangakhale ndi nthawi yocheza.
M'mbuyomu, zimawoneka ngati chizolowezi chomwa mowa mwauchidakwa. Lero, zikuwopseza ubale wanu.Nthawi zambiri, achichepere ndi omwe amagwera mumsampha uwu.
Chinthu chabwino kuchita ndikuchepetsa kugwiritsa ntchito foni yanu. Musaganize kuti intaneti kapena malo ochezera a pa Intaneti ndiye yankho la chilichonse.
Musanazindikire, simudziwa kuti mukuwononga nthawi yochuluka bwanji komanso zomwe zingawononge ubale wanu.
3. Matenda okhumudwa
Vuto lalikulu lomwe ukadaulo umatha kubweretsa m'moyo wanu ndi kukhumudwa. Zinapezeka kuti pali zizolowezi zazikulu zakukhumudwa mwa achinyamata ndi kafukufuku wopangidwa ndi University of Pittsburgh.
Nthawi zambiri, achinyamata amakhala omwe amangozitenga, makamaka akakhala osweka mtima.
Zifukwa zonse pamwambapa ndi umboni kuti ukadaulo ndi ubale sizingayendere limodzi. Chifukwa chake, chonde dziletseni kugwiritsa ntchito zida zamakono, makamaka mukakhala ndi nthawi ndi mnzanu.