Zamkati
- Choyamba, zina
- Ponena za maphunziro, tiyeni tikambirane
- Sankhani nthawi yabwino kwa nonsenu
- Musaope kuti kuyankhula kungawalimbikitse kuti azigonana
- Kuyamba kucheza
- Momwemo, mudzakhala ndi kukambirana kosalekeza
- 1. Ziwalo zoberekera za abambo ndi amai
- 2. Kugonana
- 3. Mimba
- 4. Ufulu wodziletsa komanso kuchedwetsa kugonana
- 5. Njira zosangalalira popanda kulowa
- 6. Kulera
- 7. Kugonana
- 8. Matenda opatsirana pogonana
- 9. Lingaliro la kuvomereza
- 10. Kumwa ndi kugonana
- 11. Zotsatira zakugonana
- Mukamayang'ana nkhani zovuta izi, kumbukirani:
Kukhala kholo sikophweka konse, ndipo kukhala kholo la wachinyamata kumakhala ndi zovuta zake. Atafika pofika pauchikulire, komabe ali ndi zosowa za mwana, achinyamata amayenda pamzere wabwino pakati pa chikhumbo chofuna kudziyimira pawokha komanso kufunikira kwakanthawi kokhudzana ndi inu.
Onjezerani zidziwitso zawo zakugonana mu kusakanikaku ndipo makolo akuyenera kukonzekera madzi ena ovuta kwambiri oberekera ana kuti ayende.
Nawa maupangiri oti mupange gawo la moyo uno-ndikukambirana nawo zakugonana- bwino.
Choyamba, zina
Kodi achinyamata akugonana tsopano kuposa kale? Chikhalidwe chofala chimatipangitsa ife kukhulupirira chomwecho. Koma kwenikweni, achinyamata ambiri samachita. Kafukufuku pamutuwu akuwonetsa kuti 42% ya ophunzira aku sekondale amagonana; yerekezerani izi ndi ziwerengero zakumapeto kwa zaka za makumi asanu ndi atatu, pomwe 60% ya anyamata aku sekondale adati akugonana.
Chifukwa chake, ngakhale timaganiza kuti tikukhala mchikhalidwe chofanana, achinyamata alidi Zochepa zogonana masiku ano kuposa zaka 30 zapitazo.
Nchiyani chinapanga kusiyana? Mosakayikira maphunziro ochulukirapo okhudzana ndi matenda opatsirana pogonana, AID, ndi zovuta zina zokhudzana ndi kugonana.
Ponena za maphunziro, tiyeni tikambirane
Ngati muli ndi achinyamata, muyenera kukhazikitsa ndi kusamalira njira zolumikizirana ndi iwo, makamaka zikafika pogawana malangizo ophunzitsira za kugonana.
Ndinu gwero lawo loyamba pamaphunziro azakugonana.
Monga kholo la achinyamata, mukudziwa kale kuti nthawi zambiri amatseka mukamawapempha kuti mukhale nawo ndikulankhula nawo, chifukwa chake tiyeni tiwone njira zina zopangira malo abwino oti muzikambirana nawo zakugonana.
Sankhani nthawi yabwino kwa nonsenu
Mukufuna kuti nkhaniyi ichitike momasuka, chifukwa chake kuwafunsa ngati akugwiritsa ntchito chitetezo poyendetsa nawo mpira si njira yabwino yothetsera zokambiranazo.
Makolo ena apambana pochepetsa nkhani yovutayi powonera kanema yomwe imakamba zakugonana kwa achinyamata ndi achinyamata awo (mwachitsanzo "Blue ndi Mtundu Wotentha Kwambiri" kapena "The Spectacular Now") kenako ndikukambirana momasuka pambuyo pa kanema.
Musaope kuti kuyankhula kungawalimbikitse kuti azigonana
Maphunziro samamasulira kuchitapo kanthu. Ngati mukuda nkhawa kuti achinyamata anu azamasulira zomwe mukunena ngati chilolezo chopita kukagonana, musakhale.
Achinyamata omwe makolo awo adalankhula nawo zakugonana amagonana mochedwa kuposa pafupipafupi ndipo amatha kugwiritsa ntchito njira zakulera akagonana.
Kuyamba kucheza
Njira yabwino yoyambira ndikuti “Ndikufuna tikambirane nkhani yovuta. Zokambirana izi zitha kukhala zovuta kwa tonsefe, koma ndi yofunika. Ndipo chifukwa chakuti tikulankhula za kugonana sizitanthauza kuti muyenera kupita kukayesa. Koma ngati mutero, tiyeni tione njira zoti inu ndi mnzanuyo mukhale otetezeka. ”
Momwemo, mudzakhala ndi kukambirana kosalekeza
Izi zikutanthauza kuti mwana wanu amakhala womasuka kukufunsani mafunso chilichonse chikachitika. Mudzakhala ndi zambiri zoti mukambe mu nkhani zanu choncho musayese kulongedza chilichonse usiku umodzi. Cholinga cha zokambirana zoyambirira ndikuwonetsa mwana wanu wachinyamata kuti ndinu munthu yemwe angamubwereko akafuna mayankho osaweruza, akatswiri pamafunso awo.
Nayi mitu yomwe mungafune kuyankha:
1. Ziwalo zoberekera za abambo ndi amai
Zowona momwe mwana amapangidwira, ndi magawo ati omwe akukhudzidwa. (Mutha kusiya IVF ndi mitundu ina ya pathupi pambuyo pake.)
2. Kugonana
Zonse zosangalatsa komanso kupanga ana.
3. Mimba
Kukhudza nthano yoti mtsikana sangatenge mimba nthawi yoyamba, kapena panthawi yomwe akusamba. Achinyamata ambiri amakhulupirira izi.
4. Ufulu wodziletsa komanso kuchedwetsa kugonana
Chofunika kwambiri ngati chipembedzo chanu chili ndi malamulo okhudza izi.
5. Njira zosangalalira popanda kulowa
Maliseche, kugonana m'kamwa, komanso kukumbatirana komanso kupsompsona kwakale.
6. Kulera
Pali njira zambiri zatsopano zomwe zilipo kotero onetsetsani kuti mudzidziwitse musanalankhule za izi ndi mwana wanu. Makolo ambiri amasunga makondomu kubafa kuti achinyamata azitha kugwiritsa ntchito makondomu mosavuta. Adziwitseni kuti alipo ndipo palibe amene akuwawerenga kuti asaganize kuti mukuyang'anira zomwe akuchita. Bwino kukhala otetezeka kuposa chisoni.
7. Kugonana
Achinyamata anu mwina amadziwa zilembo zonse (LGBTQ, ndi zina) choncho musalankhule za amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, koma amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, madzimadzi, ndi zina. Apanso, kuyankhula za kugonana kosagonana sikungapangitse "achinyamata kukhala achichepere.
8. Matenda opatsirana pogonana
HIV / AID, syphilis, chlamydia, herpes, maliseche, chinzonono, ndi zotsatira zina zosasangalatsa zogonana mosadziteteza.
9. Lingaliro la kuvomereza
Chofunika kwambiri nyengo yamasiku ano. Funsani mwana wanu wachinyamata zomwe akumvetsa mwa "kuvomereza". Kambiranani za kugwiriridwa, komanso chomwe chimatanthauza kugwiririra. Mutha kunena milandu munyimbo zofalitsa nkhani ndikufunsa malingaliro awo pankhani yogonana mosakondera.
10. Kumwa ndi kugonana
Momwe zinthu zosinthira malingaliro zimakhudzira kugonana komanso kuthekera kovomereza.
11. Zotsatira zakugonana
Nenani za njira zosiyanasiyana zomwe anyamata ndi atsikana amakumanirana ndi zotulukapo zogonana.
Mukamayang'ana nkhani zovuta izi, kumbukirani:
- Mfundo zanu pa nkhani yogonana
- Maganizo anu pankhani zogonana
- Momwe mukufunira kukhala owona mtima pazomwe mudakumana nazo kale komanso anzanu
Kumbukirani kuti muli ndi ufulu wonena kuti simumasuka kulankhula za zinthu zina (koma zikatero, tumizani mwana wanu kuzinthu zina; musawasiye osadziwa ngati akufuna zina.