Zamkati
Chinthu chimodzi chomwe chimakhala chosasintha m'moyo kusintha. Koma kuvomereza kusintha sikophweka. Kusintha kumabweretsa zinthu zosayembekezereka ndi zovuta zomwe sitinakumanekopo kapena kukumana nazo kale. Komabe, sizikhala choncho nthawi zonse. Makolo athu, omwe amatisamalira komanso otiphunzitsa, ndi zomwe akumana nazo zimatithandiza kukonzekera zosintha zomwe zingatichitikire, amatiuza zoyenera kuyembekezera, zoyenera kuchita ndi zomwe sitiyenera kuchita.
Ukwati ndizodabwitsa zomwe zimachitika kamodzi m'mitima ya anthu ambiri. Ndikusintha kwakukulu komwe kungasinthe miyoyo yathu kwathunthu. Tikakwatirana, timasokoneza miyoyo yathu ndi munthu wina ndikulonjeza kuti tidzakhala nawo moyo wathu wonse munthawi zabwino komanso zoyipa.
Ukwati umatsimikizira momwe moyo wathu udzakhalire wosangalatsa kapena wovuta. Thandizo laling'ono lochokera kwa makolo athu lingatithandizire kukwatiwa ndi munthu woyenera, pazifukwa zomveka ndikukhala ndi banja losangalala komanso lokwaniritsa.
Nawa malangizo omwe bambo adapatsa mwana wawo wamwamuna za banja:
1. Pali azimayi ambiri omwe angayamikire ndikusangalala ndi mphatso zomwe mumawagulira. Koma si onse omwe angasamalire kudziwa kuchuluka kwa ndalama zomwe mwawononga pa iwo komanso kuchuluka kwa zomwe mudadzisungira nokha. Kwatirani mkazi yemwe samangokonda mphatso komanso amasamala za ndalama zanu, ndalama zomwe mwapeza movutikira.
2. Ngati mkazi ali nanu chifukwa cha chuma chanu komanso chuma chanu, musakwatiwe naye. Kwatirani mkazi yemwe ali wokonzeka kulimbana nanu, yemwe ali wokonzeka kugawana mavuto anu.
3. Chikondi chokha sichifukwa chokwanira kukwatira. Ukwati ndi mgwirizano wapamtima kwambiri komanso wovuta kwambiri. Ngakhale kuti chikondi n'chofunika, sikokwanira kuti ukwati uziyenda bwino. Kumvetsetsa, kuyanjana, kukhulupirirana, ulemu, kudzipereka, kuthandizana ndi zina mwazofunikira zina m'banja lalitali komanso losangalala.
4. Mukakhala ndi mavuto ndi akazi anu, nthawi zonse kumbukirani kuti musamakalipire, osazunza, mwakuthupi kapena mwamalingaliro. Mavuto anu adzathetsedwa koma mtima wake ukhoza kuwonongeka mpaka kalekale.
5. Ngati mkazi wanu wakuyimirani ndikukuthandizani kuti muchite zomwe mukufuna, inunso mubwezereni chimodzimodzi. Mulimbikitseni kuti azitsatira chidwi chake ndikumulimbikitsa momwe angafunire.
6. Nthawi zonse khalani patsogolo kukhala bambo kuposa kukhala bambo. Ana anu adzakula ndikupita patsogolo ndi zofuna zawo koma, mkazi wanu azikhala nanu nthawi zonse.
7. Musanadandaule za kukhala ndi mkazi wolongolola, taganizirani, kodi mumakwaniritsa udindo wanu wapabanja? Sangakukakamizeni ngati mutachita zonse zomwe mumayenera kuchita nokha.
8. Nthawi imatha kubwera pamoyo wanu pomwe mungamve kuti mkazi wanu salinso mkazi amene munakwatirana naye. Pakadali pano, lingalirani, ngati mwasintha, pali china chomwe mwasiya kumchitira.
9. Musamawononge chuma chanu pa ana anu, omwe sanadziwe momwe mumagwirira ntchito mwakhama kuti mukwaniritse izi. Zigwiritseni ntchito kwa mkazi yemwe adapirira zovuta zonse zomwe mumakumana nazo ndi inu, mkazi wanu.
10. Nthawi zonse kumbukirani, simuyenera kufananiza mkazi wanu ndi akazi ena. Akupirira china chake (inu) chomwe akazi enawo sachita. Ndipo ngati mungasankhe kumuyerekeza ndi azimayi ena onetsetsani kuti simukucheperako
11. Ngati mungadabwe kuti mwakhala mwamuna ndi bambo wabwino bwanji m'moyo wanu, musayang'ane ndalama ndi chuma chomwe mwawapangira. Yang'anani kumwetulira kwawo ndikuyang'ana kunyezimira m'maso mwawo.
12. Khalani ana anu kapena akazi anu, ayamikireni pagulu koma muzidzudzula panokha. Simungakonde atakuuzani zolakwa zanu pamaso pa anzanu ndi anzanu, sichoncho?
13. Mphatso yabwino kwambiri yomwe mungapatse ana anu ndi kukonda amayi awo. Makolo achikondi amalera ana abwino kwambiri.
14. Ngati mukufuna kuti ana anu azikusamalirani mukadzakalamba, ndiye kuti muziyang'anira makolo anu. Ana anu azitsatira chitsanzo chanu.