Zamkati
- Zifukwa zambiri zomwe zimapangitsa anthu kutaya chibwenzi
- Zochitika ndizoyambitsa pafupipafupi kulekana
- Njira yosavomerezeka kwambiri - kumamatira
- Momwe mungasunthire patsogolo ndikukula
- Landirani zakale ndi kuzisiya
Akakusiyani, mumakhala ndi zisankho ziwiri zokha - kuzilola kuti zisokoneze moyo wanu, kapena kulola kuti zikule bwino!
Zotsatirazi zitha kumveka ngati cholinga chosatheka, makamaka mukakhala ndi malingaliro okonda iye ndipo mukufuna kupitiliza ndi chibwenzicho.
Komabe, mwamunayo akaganiza kuti akufuna kupita kwina, kwakukulu sikusintha malingaliro ake. Ngakhale nthawi zina pamene zinthu sizikumveka bwino, chinthu chabwino kwambiri kwa inu kuchita ndikupita patsogolo ndikuchira.
Zifukwa zambiri zomwe zimapangitsa anthu kutaya chibwenzi
Ngakhale kupatukana kapena chisudzulo “chimavomerezedwa” kukhala choyanjana, nthawi zonse amakhala bwenzi limodzi yemwe amafunitsitsa kutha. Ngakhale zili choncho, ndizovuta kuthana ndi kusintha kwakukulu kotere m'moyo wanu.
Koma, nthawi zambiri, munthu m'modzi amangotayidwa, ndipo nthawi zambiri osakhala ndi chenjezo lochuluka. Muyenera kumvetsetsa chifukwa chake zidatheka kuti mupulumuke.
Nthawi zambiri, munthu amene akusiya chibwenzicho, pazifukwa zina kapena zina, amapereka zifukwa zomwe sizikumveka kwa yemwe akumusiya. Ndipo kuti mupite patsogolo ndikutsekedwa, muyenera kudziwa chowonadi.
Ngati amuna anu sakugwirizana nawo, ganizirani zina mwanjira zotsatirazi
Zochitika ndizoyambitsa pafupipafupi kulekana
Kaya ndi mnzake wonyenga yemwe akufuna kukhala pachibwenzi ndi ena osadziimba mlandu kapena kholo lomwe labera lomwe sangakhalenso ndi chidaliro, zochitika ndichinthu chomwe mabanja ambiri amavutika kuthana nacho.
Chifukwa chachiwiri chachikulu chomwe chimalumikizidwa ndi choyamba ndi kusungulumwa. Anthu ena amangofunika chisangalalo chochuluka kuposa ena.
Nkhondo zambiri zimachepetsa ubalewo. M'kupita kwanthawi, mnzake amakhala atatopa kwathunthu ndipo amangofunika kutuluka.
Wina atha kukhalabe wokonda kupitiliza kukangana, motero, amadabwitsidwa ndi kupatukana.
Mofananamo, pali chinthu chovuta kwambiri. Zochitika zowopsa zimasiya chizindikiro chawo, ndipo ngati anzawo achita mosiyana, zimatha kuyambitsa mkangano pakati pawo.
Njira yosavomerezeka kwambiri - kumamatira
Tonsefe timakonda kugwiritsitsa zomwe tadziyika tokha.
Ndipo ubale, makamaka ukwati, ndichimodzi mwazinthu zomwe nthawi zonse timakhala osafuna kuzisiya. Zowonjezerapo pamene zinthu sizikumveka.
Kodi aganiza zobwerera kwa inu, kapena wapita konse? Titha kukhala otengeka mtima motere.
Chosangalatsa ndichakuti, pakhoza kukhala kufotokozera kwaminyewa chifukwa chomwe timamatira kwa anthu omwe amatikana.
Kukanidwa kwachikondi kumawoneka kuti kumayambitsa magawo ena aubongo wathu omwe amalumikizidwa ndi chidwi ndi mphotho, komanso kuzolowera komanso kulakalaka.
Mwanjira ina, akatisiya, timakhala ngati tamukakamira ngati momwe timamvera mankhwala osokoneza bongo. Kwa nthawi yomwe timagwiritsa ntchito limodzi, mapulani, zikumbukiro, malingaliro.
Komabe, chinthu choyipitsitsa chomwe mungachite ndikuchedwa. Ngakhale mutha kubwereranso limodzi (zomwe sizigwira ntchito kawirikawiri, tiyeni tisakulitse zinthu ndi chiyembekezo chabodza), simuyenera kuthera nthawi mukuzungulira mozungulira.
Muyenera kupeza njira zokulitsira panokha.
Momwe mungasunthire patsogolo ndikukula
Chinthu choyamba muyenera kuchita ndikudula kulumikizana. Kwa kanthawi osachepera.
Tikudziwa kuti ichi ndi chinthu chovuta kwambiri, koma mumafunikiradi kuti mupeze mawonekedwe pazinthu. Ganizirani njira yopumira ana. Amatanthauza kuti awalole kukhala kwakanthawi osadodometsedwa kulingalira zomwe achita. Mufunanso izi, muyenera kubwereranso kwa inu.
Ndiye, muyeneranso kusiya zongopeka. Mukasiyidwa ndi mnzanu, mwina mungayambe kusokoneza zikumbukiro za tad. Mutha kuyamba kukhulupirira kuti zinthu zinali zokongola kwambiri kuposa momwe zinalili komanso kuti mukusowa munthu wangwiro kwambiri padziko lapansi.
Ndikofunika kuvomereza chowonadi, choyipa ndi chabwino, kuti muthe kupitiliza.
Landirani zakale ndi kuzisiya
Pambuyo pakudodometsedwa koyambirira komanso chizolowezi chofuna kusintha zinthu, mutha kukwiya kwambiri. Kukhumudwa kumatikwiyitsa. Koma, simungapambane ngati mukumamatira kwa wakale, kapena ngati mukumamatira ku mkwiyo wanu.
Chifukwa chake, ziloleni zizipita. Pomaliza, mukamukhululukira, mudzikhululukire nokha. Ndipo kondani nokha. Dzikhulupirireni, kuti ndinu munthu woyenera, kuthekera kwanu, komanso m'tsogolo mwanu!