Zamkati
- 1. Muthokozeni ndikumuuza zomwe mumamukonda
- 2. Pitani limodzi kukacheza limodzi
- 3. Gwiritsani ntchito zolemba zachikondi, zolemba ndi zomwe amakonda
- 4. Mpatseni mpata kuti asangalale ndikukhala yekha
Kodi mumapanga bwanji chibwenzi chanu mwamatsenga?
Kodi pali malingaliro osavuta, osangalatsa komanso okonda zokha omwe samakhudzana ndikuwotcha dzenje mthumba, ukulu, ndikuthandizira pakupanga moyo wachikondi wokwanira?
Tisanayambe malingaliro achikondi okuthandizani kukonza ubale wanu ndikupanga zachikondi m'moyo wanu wachikondi, tiyeni tiwone mozama momwe amuna ndi akazi amawonera chikondi.
Amuna amawona zachikondi kudzera pamagalasi osiyana poyerekeza ndi akazi.
Lingaliro lazimayi lachikondi ndikupanga ndalama ndikupanga chibwenzi pokambirana nthawi yayitali ndikukhala limodzi, koma lingaliro la amuna ndilosiyana.
Amuna amakonda kuyankha bwino akamagwira kapena kudziwonera okha.
Makanema ndi mabuku onena zaukwati wachikondi kapena maupangiri obwezeretsanso zibwenzi, kapena apanga lingaliro loti nthawi zambiri ndimwamuna yemwe amayesetsa kukondana ndi mkazi, kuti amukope ndi chithumwa chake ndikupanga zinthu zomuseketsa ndi kumugwera.
Koma chowonadi ndichakuti amuna amakonda ndikusangalala ndi chibwenzi monganso akazi.
Ngakhale sizolimbikitsidwa ndimachitidwe azimayi ngati, pali zinthu zingapo zomwe mungachite kuti akhale wachikondi.
Zomwe zatchulidwa pansipa ndi maupangiri angapo amomwe mungapangire kuti amuna anu azikhala achikondi.
Onaninso kanemayu pamalangizo okondana a amuna ndi akazi:
Izi ndi njira zabwino kwambiri zosinthira wokondedwa wanu kukhala mwamuna wokondana kwambiri komanso kuti banja lanu likhale labwino komanso labwino.
Malingaliro achikondi pakuwonjezera zachikondi m'moyo wanu watsiku ndi tsiku
1. Muthokozeni ndikumuuza zomwe mumamukonda
Simukusowa manja akulu omwe amayang'ana momwe mungamupezere kuti akhale wachikondi kwambiri.
Aliyense atha kukhala wachikondi ndi imodzi mwamalangizo achikondi.
Kudziwa momwe mungakhalire abwino ndi mawu kumatha kusintha zinthu kwambiri.
Tonsefe timafuna kukondedwa, kuyamikiridwa ndikudziwa kuti tikutanthauza dziko lapansi kwa winawake. Amuna sali osiyana ndipo amasangalala ndi matamando chimodzimodzi.
Muyenera kukumbutsa amuna anu zonse zomwe mumakonda za iye zimupangitse kuti amve kuyamikiridwa ndi kutsimikiziridwa.
Izi zitha kukhala chilichonse monga mwina kumuuza momwe mumamukondera zomwe zingakuseketseni pachilichonse kapena kuti mumakhala otetezeka kwambiri mukakhala naye ndipo ngati muli ndi ana, mutha kumuuza kuti akugwira ntchito yabwino ngati bambo.
Kwa funso lofunsidwa kawirikawiri, momwe mungapangire kuti mwamuna azikhala wachikondi, perekani mayamikiro kukhala gawo lazomwe mumachita tsiku lililonse.
Muwuzeni kuti mumakonda mawonekedwe ake atsitsi ndi nkhope kapena mwina ngakhale chakudya chomwe adakuphikirani sabata yatha chinali chabwino kwambiri chomwe mudakhalapo nacho!
Icho chikhoza kukhala chirichonse, sakanizani mawu koma chirichonse chimene inu munena, chinenani icho moona mtima.
Mwachidule, momwe mungapangire kuti mwamuna wanu akhale wachikondi, onetsetsani kuti akudziwa kuti mumamukonda ndipo mumasangalala kukhala naye.
2. Pitani limodzi kukacheza limodzi
Mukuyang'ana malingaliro okondana kwa mwamuna kapena momwe mungakhalire bwenzi ndi mwamuna?
Ndiye iyi ndi imodzi mwamalingaliro ofunikira achikondi. Limbikitsani zaluso muubwenzi wanu.
Kuchita china chatsopano komanso kulenga kumapangitsanso ubale wanu kukhala watsopano.
Kuthera nthawi limodzi ndi kusangalala ndi kukhala limodzi ndi njira yabwino yotsitsimutsira lamoto muubwenzi wanu.
Ngati pali china chake chomwe amuna anu akhala akufuna kuyeserera monga kutsetsereka kapena kuyesa malo odyera atsopano mtawuni, konzekerani ndikupita limodzi.
Siyani ana kumbuyo ndi wosamalira ana ndikusiya zokambirana zonse zapakhomo mukamathawa usiku kapena kuthawa kumapeto kwa sabata.
Pitani ku picnic, maulendo ataliatali, kuyendetsa, kukwera mapiri kapena kumanga msasa, yesani zatsopano nthawi iliyonse.
Pa zochitika zapadera monga masiku okumbukira kubadwa ndi tsiku lokumbukira kubadwa, konzekerani pasadakhale maulendo opita kutchuthi kumalo osowa, kwinakwake yomwe ndi njira yabwino kwambiri yopezera amuna anu kuti azikondana kwambiri kapena kuti azikondana ndi amuna anu.
3. Gwiritsani ntchito zolemba zachikondi, zolemba ndi zomwe amakonda
Momwe mungakhalire achikondi, iyi ndi nkhokwe yagolide pamndandanda wamalangizo achikondi.
Ichi ndi chimodzi mwazinthu zoyambirira zomwe zimabwera m'maganizo mwanu mukaganiza zamomwe mungapangire kuti amuna anu azikhala achikondi.
Ndizosangalatsa komanso zosamvera.
- Mutha kumutumizira thukuta la saucy kuntchito kapena kumulembera kalata yachikondi mthumba lamkati la jekete yake.
- Yandikirani pafupi naye ndikunong'oneza mawu okoma mukakhala pagulu
- Lembani china choseketsa kapena chovoteledwa pa chopukutira musanachiperekere kwa iye mukamadya chakudya chamadzulo.
Malingaliro onse achikondi awa adzaika kumwetulira pankhope pake. Kuphatikiza apo, chitani zambiri pazomwe mukudziwa kuti amakonda.
- Ngati mnzanu amakonda chakudya, mumuphikire chakudya chomwe amakonda.
- Ngati amakonda kuyenda, konzekerani maulendo osangalatsa.
- Ngakhale atakukonda diresi inayake, valani nthawi ina mukadzatuluka.
Adzazindikira kuti mumamuganizira ndipo mumakumana ndi mavuto onse kuti mumusangalatse.
Tikukhulupirira, izi zikuyankhanso momwe mungakondere amuna anu komanso osayika pachibwenzi chifukwa chakucheperachepera.
4. Mpatseni mpata kuti asangalale ndikukhala yekha
Nthawi zina, tonsefe timalakalaka pakadakhala wina yemwe angachite gawo lathu pantchitoyo kuti tizikhala pansi ndikupumula.
Sitingachitire mwina koma kupembedzera kuti winawake yemwe amatithandiza kuchita ntchito zapakhomo amatithandizira pazonse zomwe timachita.
Chifukwa chake, nayi malangizo abwino kwambiri okondana.
Patsani mwamuna wanu nthawi yopumula akabwerera kunyumba pambuyo pa tsiku lonse kuntchito kapena ali ndi nkhawa chifukwa chantchito.
M'bwezeretseni zopaka kapena kutikita minofu ndikupanga zinthu zina zapakhomo monga kuchotsa zinyalala zomwe amachita bwino.
Komanso, Nthawi ya anyamata ndiyofunikanso kwa amuna anu monga nthawi ya atsikana inunso.
Mulimbikitseni kuti apite kunja ndi abwenzi ake kukamwa zakumwa kapena kupita kukawonera gulu lomwe amakonda kwambiri mukamayang'anira ana ndi nyumba pomwe iye palibe.
Adzakondani kuti mumathandizira ufulu wake wopulumuka kwakanthawi kochepa kuti mukasangalale ndi abwenzi ake.
Ndi malingaliro achikondi awa kwa iye, mutha kuwonjezera kukondana muukwati wanu, chinthu chofunikira kwambiri chomwe chimapangitsa kuti ubale upite patsogolo.
Mwa kuyamikira amuna anu, mutha kumamupangitsa kuti akhale wachikondi.
Pangani zina zanu zofunika kuti muzimukonda ndi malingaliro omwe agawidwa pamwambapa komanso malingaliro osavuta okondana, ndipo ubale wanu umakhala wabwino komanso watsopano.