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Kodi mukudziwa chilichonse Njira zodziwira ngati mwamuna ali wokwatirana kuchokera kutali? Nanga bwanji mukadzuka pafupi ndikukhala nokha?
M'masiku amasiku ano, ndizovuta kudziwa ngati munthu amene mwangokumana naye kumene ndipo akufuna kukumana naye zovuta kuti akhale mnzake wokhalitsa.
Kodi mumayang'ana mbiri ya chibwenzi chake? Ngati amangokhala ndi zibwenzi zazitali, kodi zikutanthauza kuti saopa kuchita? Bwanji ngati zikutanthauza kuti akufuna kukhala ndi moyo pang'ono ndikuyesa china chake kuti asinthe? Kodi mukudziwa kuti muli ndi mwamuna yemwe muyenera kukwatira?
Pankhani ya chibwenzi chokwatirana, pali ma engles ambiri oti ngati mungayese kuwadziwa onse, mudzangodzipweteketsa mutu ndipo simudzafika patali. Ndicho chifukwa chake taganiza zogawa nsonga 3 zosavuta zomwe zimagwira bwino kwambiri 99% ya nthawiyo.
Nawa maupangiri apamwamba atatu momwe mungadziwire ngati ali munthu woyenera kukwatiwa kapena momwe mungadziwire ngati ali wokwatirana.
1. Onani M'badwo Wake Wachikhalidwe
Malangizo oyambira kumvetsetsa momwe angadziwire kuti ndi amene ayenera kukwatira ndi kudziwa momwe amakhalira bwino.
Chiphaso chake chikhoza kunena kuti ali ndi zaka 24, 35 kapena 46, koma chomwe chimafunikira kwambiri ndi msinkhu wake, womwe mungadziwe ngati mumakhala nthawi yokwanira limodzi.
Anyamata ena amamva bwino ndipo ali okonzeka kukhazikika ndikudzipereka m'ma 20s pomwe ena akumva kuti sayenera kuthamangira china chilichonse m'ma 40s.
Amuna omwe ali okhwima m'maganizo mokwanira kuti achite chilichonse chomwe chingafune kuti ubale ukhale wabwino ndi omwe amadzipereka okha komanso kwa ena.
Apa ndipomwe muyenera kukhala ndi maso ndi makutu otseguka chifukwa zochita zimalankhula mokweza kwambiri kuposa mawu. Atha kukuwuzani kuti akufuna akwatire posachedwa ndikuyamba banja koma moyo wake uli bwino?
Kodi ndiwolemekezedwa pakati pa abwenzi kapena okondedwa chifukwa ndiwowopsa kapena moyo wachisangalalo?
Zachidziwikire, mukufuna wakale chifukwa ngati ndi gulugufe wokonda kucheza yemwe amapita kumapeto sabata iliyonse ndikumwa yekha osayiwalika, onetsetsani kuti sanakonzekere, ndipo sangakhalepo.
2. Moyo Wake
Musayembekezere kuti munthu angasinthe kwambiri. Wabwera mpaka pano ndipo ngakhale asintha pakapita nthawi chifukwa amangofunika kusintha njira zina m'moyo mwanjira ina, sakusinthani njira zanu.
Kodi ali ndi ntchito yabwino yomwe imabweretsa chitetezo komanso kukhazikika? Kodi ndi mtundu wa ntchito yomwe mukufuna kukambirana ndi inu makolo za chakudya chamadzulo? Kapena kodi ndizotheka kusangalatsa mlongo wanu wazaka 22?
Amuna omwe ali okonzeka kukhazikika amathera nthawi yawo yambiri akumanga china chake chomwe amanyadira. Samasuntha pafupipafupi, amasintha ntchito miyezi ingapo kapena kusintha anzawo.
Wokondedwa wanu watsopano ali ndiukwati m'maganizo mwake ngati akupangitsani kuti muzimva kukhala otetezeka pamaso pake monga momwe mungamukhulupirire zivute zitani. Kodi amakupangitsani kumva ngati kuti mutha kuyika dzanja lanu, ndikumulola kuti akutengeni nthawi iliyonse akafuna? Ngati yankho lanu ndi inde, ndiye kuti mwadzipezera woyang'anira.
3. Onani Anzake
Ambiri opanga ukwati amakuwuzani kuti muyang'ane ubale wake ndi amayi ake, koma chomwe chimafunikira kwambiri pano ndi amene amacheza nawo. Kodi abwenzi ake makamaka ndianthu osakwatira omwe amakonda kupita kumadzulo?
Kodi ali okwatirana ndi ana angapo? Kodi ndi a msinkhu wake kapena mukuwona kusiyana komwe kuli kovuta kufotokoza, monga momwe amacheza ndi gulu laling'ono kwambiri?
Makhalidwe athu, zikhulupiliro zathu, zikhulupiriro zathu, ndi zolinga zathu nthawi zambiri zimawonetsedwa mwa anzathu, bola ngati tili ndi gawo lamkati mwamphamvu.
Ichi ndichifukwa chake simuyenera kunyalanyaza anzanu posankha ngati kufinya kwanu kwaposachedwa kuli ndi mwayi wosandukira china chachikulu. Ngati akhazikika, ali ndi mwayi woti nawonso ayende pamsewupo.
Ngati ali ma DJ, nyama za phwando limodzi kapena ma weirdoes akusewera masewera apakanema tsiku lonse ndikusiya nyumbayo chifukwa miyoyo yawo imadalira, mwina ali chimodzimodzi.