Zamkati
- Makhalidwe a munthu woopsa
- Kodi kukhala oopsa ndi vuto lamunthu?
- Makhalidwe a ubale woopsa
- Momwe mungachitire ndi ubale woopsa
Ubale wanu unayamba bwino. Mudakumana ndi munthu wowopsa, ndipo zonse zimawoneka kuti zikudina. Mumayembekezera nthawi yanu limodzi, adakupangitsani kuseka, kukupangitsani kudzimva kuti ndinu apadera.
Koma, miyezi ikamapita, munayamba kuwona kusintha kwamunthu wake. Kuyamika komwe adakupatsani kwakhala ngati kukudzudzulani.
M'malo mofika msanga pamasiku anu, tsopano akuwoneka mochedwa kapena nthawi zina amakulemberani mameseji kumapeto, akunena kuti sangakwanitse.
Mumayamba kuchita mantha kumapeto kwa sabata limodzi ndi iye chifukwa mumabwerera kumalo kwanu Lamlungu usiku mukumva ... chabwino, zoipa za inu nokha. Mukumva ngati mukukhazikika. Chifukwa chiyani?
Mutha kukhala kuti mumachita nawo munthu woopsa.
Makhalidwe a munthu woopsa
Anthu oopsa ndi omwe amakutsitsirani m'malo mokomera inu. Mphamvu zawo zoyipa zimawoneka kuti zikulowerera moyo wanu wabwino, kukupangitsani kuti mukhale osasangalala komanso otopa chifukwa chokhala nawo pafupi.
Zitsanzo zina za machitidwe owopsa ndi awa
- Kudzikonda. Anthu oledzeretsa amatenga, amatenga, ndipo samapereka chilichonse kwa wokondedwa wawo: osati nthawi, kusawathandiza, kuwamvera chisoni, kapena kuwamvetsera. Zonse ndi za iwo.
- Akukwera kuti akhale pafupi. Chimodzi mwazikhalidwe za anthu owopsa ndi umunthu wawo wa Debbie Downer. Amadandaula kwambiri ndipo samawona zabwino zilizonse. Thanzi lanu limavutika chifukwa kukhala mozungulira pamtunduwu kumatha kukukhudzani.
- Iwo ndi osadalirika. Kunama ndi khalidwe loopsa. Mukazindikira kuti mnzanuyo amakunamizani nthawi zonse, ichi chitha kukhala chizindikiro kuti muli pachibwenzi choopsa.
- Chikhalidwe china cha munthu wovuta ndikuti mumawamva chiweruzo chokhazikika. Anthu oledzeretsa ayenera kunyoza kapena kudzudzula anzawo. Ndi njira yoti amve bwino kuposa inu. Palibe amene akufuna kukhala pachibwenzi pomwe akumva kuti sakwanira, sichoncho?
- Alibe chifundo. Anthu oledzeretsa sangathe kudziyika m'mavuto a munthu wina. Mwakutero, alibe chisoni ndi omwe alibe mwayi ndipo amadzilola kunyoza, kudzudzula, kapena kunyoza anthu mwaufulu.
Ngati muli pachibwenzi ndi munthu woopsa, musayembekezere kuti akusamalirani, mutadwala kapena kuchotsedwa ntchito. Sangathe kukhala owolowa manja.
Komanso Penyani: Makhalidwe a mnzanu wokhazikika.
Kodi kukhala oopsa ndi vuto lamunthu?
Ena angayankhe kuti inde. Kodi mumatani ndi anthu oopsa ngati ili ndi vuto lamunthu? Njira imodzi ndikulankhulana.
Anthu oopsa ali nawo kwambiri maluso oyankhulirana oyipa. Ngati muli pachibwenzi choopsa, mwina mwawonapo momwe inu ndi mnzanu mumalankhulirana molakwika.
Mutha kumva kuti kutsegula zokambirana nthawi yomweyo kumawoneka kuti kukuwopseza munthu wanu wakupha.
Mwinanso amatha kuchoka mukamayesetsa kukambirana. Chifukwa chake muyenera kufikira izi motsimikiza, ndikuwonetsa kuti muyenera kuyankhula nawo momasuka komanso moona mtima.
Makhalidwe a ubale woopsa
Ngati mukudzifunsa nokha ngati muli pachibwenzi choopsa, muli ndi mwayi ngati muli:
- Mumapewa kucheza ndi mnzanu chifukwa nthawi yanu yocheza sikulimbikitsa. Bwanji kukhalabe muubwenzi wosalimbikitsa moyo?
- Nthawi zonse pamakhala sewero lomwe limachitika m'miyoyo yawo. Munthu wanu woopsa samakhala wosavuta. Nthawi zonse pamakhala wina amene akumunyenga, kapena osazindikira ukulu wake. Amamvetsedwa kuntchito (ngati ali ndi ntchito) ndipo amakutsutsani kuti simukumvetsetsa mavuto ake m'moyo. Kodi mukufuna ubale womwe umakhala nthawi zonse panyanja, osakhala ndi mphindi yamtendere ndi bata?
- Mumadzipeza nokha mukulandira zomwe anzanu amachita zomwe zikutsutsana ndi mfundo zanu. Mwachitsanzo, mnzanu adaba china m'sitolo. Mukamuuza kuti izi sizabwino, adaseka nati, “o, amatipangira ndalama zochuluka chotere; zilibe kanthu. ” Simumutsutsa. Ndipo mwa kukhala chete, mumamva kuwawa.
- Mukudziwa kuti mukukhazikika pachibwenzi ichi chifukwa simukufuna kukhala nokha. Mukudziwa mumtima mwanu kuti munthu woopsa uyu siabwino kwa inu, koma mumaopa kukhala wosakwatiwa, ndiye mumanyalanyaza umunthu wake wa poizoni mpaka moyo wanu utayamba kuwonongeka.
- Mnzanu woopsa amawononga kudziona kuti ndinu woyenera. Akukuwuzani kuti mukhala okongola kwambiri mutataya mapaundi ochepa. Sanena kuti amanyadira za inu. Amanyoza abwenzi ndi abale anu. Amayesa kukupatula. Amakuwuzani kokha kuti amadziwa momwe amakukondani, ndipo palibe wina amene angakukondeni. Mwataya dzina lanu kwa munthu woopsa uyu.
- Simukusangalala. Ubale wathanzi umalimbikitsa chisangalalo chanu cha quotient. Ubwenzi ndi munthu woopsa umachepetsa chisangalalo chanu. Sikuti mumangokhala osasangalala mukakhala ndi mnzanu waphewa, komanso kusasangalala kumeneku kukukulowa mbali zina za moyo wanu. Simumaseka kawirikawiri kapena kumangodziona ngati wopusa komanso wopepuka. Zili ngati kuti munthu woopsa uyu amapezeka nthawi zonse, mumdima wakuda.
Momwe mungachitire ndi ubale woopsa
Kodi mungatani mutapezeka kuti muli pachibwenzi ndi mikhalidwe yambiri ya poizoni?
Ngati mungazindikire chimodzi mwazizindikiro za anthu oopsawa, yesetsani kuwapewa konse., Ili ndi gawo loyambirira kuti mudzidziwitse nokha komanso thanzi lanu.
Kungakhale kothandiza kubwerera mmbuyo ndikuwonanso bwino moyo wanu. Ubwino wanu ndiwofunika kwambiri kuti ungawonongeke mwa kuchita ndi munthu woopsa.
Aloleni iwo akhale iwo, ndipo inu mukhale inu. Ndinu ofunika kwambiri kuposa momwe munthu wakupha akukupatsani. Gwiritsani ntchito nthawi yanu nokha ndikuwunika. Mukuyenera kuposa izi.