Zamkati
- 1. Zinthu zosatheka
- 2. Kukupangitsani kumva kuti ndinu olakwa, nthawi zonse
- 3. Amayi amasinthasintha
- 4. Kunama kwa amayi ako
- 5. Osagwirizana ndi chisankho chanu
- 6. Kuthandiza ndalama
- 7. Kukhala wopondereza
- 8. Kusalemekeza malo anu achinsinsi
Ubale uyenera kusintha pakapita nthawi.
Monga ana, amayi ndiye dziko la ana, makamaka ana amuna. Akamakula, amayesa kufufuza padziko lapansi ndikudzipatula kwa amayi. Amayi ena amavomereza mtunda womwe ana awo amapanga atakula msinkhu, ambiri amalephera kumvetsetsa izi.
Pulogalamu ya Ubale wamwamuna wamayi ndiwosakhwima, kuyambira ubwana mpaka uchikulire.
Pomwe kusintha kumachitika, anthu osiyanasiyana amalowa m'moyo wa mwana wawo wamwamuna ndipo amayi amalephera kupanga mtendere nawo.
Izi nthawi zambiri zimabweretsa ubale wopanda mwana wamwamuna womwe umasokoneza ukalamba wonse. Tiyeni tiwone zina mwazikhalidwe za mayi woopsa zomwe zimasintha ubale wapakati pa mayi ndi mwana.
1. Zinthu zosatheka
Ubwenzi wa mayi ndi mwana umasintha mayi akayamba kuyika zosayembekezereka patsogolo pa mwana.
Paubwana, munali ndiubwenzi wodalira mayi ndi mwana, koma izi sizingapitirire pamene mukukula. Mosakayikira mudzakhala ndi anzanu ndipo mumafuna kucheza nawo.
Komabe, amayi anu angakane kulandira kusintha kwadzidzidzi kumeneku ndipo angakufunseni kuti muchepetse mayendedwe anu ndikukhala nawo nthawi yayitali.
Izi, pamapeto pake, zidzabweretsa kukhumudwa ndipo ubale wamwamuna wamwamuna udzasintha kwambiri pamenepo.
2. Kukupangitsani kumva kuti ndinu olakwa, nthawi zonse
Anthu ena amadziwika kuti amasewera makhadi okhumudwitsa kuti apangitse ena kudzimva olakwa.
Ana aamuna akamakalamba ndikuyamba kukhala moyo wawo, amayi ena amatsutsa, zomwe nthawi zambiri zimayambitsa mikangano. Kuonetsetsa kuti ali ndi chonena chomaliza pazokangana, amayi samazengereza kusewera khadi yakukhudzidwa.
Palibe amene amafuna kudziona ngati wolakwa nthawi zonse akamakambirana kapena kukangana.
Komabe, ngati muzindikira kuti nthawi zonse mumalakwitsa ndipo mumadzimva kuti ndinu olakwa pamakhalidwe anu, mvetsetsani kuti mukuchita ndi mayi woopsa yemwe akufuna kuyendetsa zokambirana zanu, monga momwe adachitiranso mudakali mwana.
3. Amayi amasinthasintha
Pakukula, mwana aliyense amayang'ana kwa makolo ake.
Makolowo onse ali ndi maudindo osiyana. Ana amayembekezera kwambiri kuti amayi awo awalimbikitse. Ndi lamulo lachilengedwe kuti ubale wamwamuna wamwamuna uli pafupi kwambiri kuti ungathe kuwufotokozera.
Komabe, amayi akakhala owalamulira kwambiri ndipo amavutika ndimasinthidwe, mwana amalephera kukhazikitsa ubale wapamtima ndi amayi awo.
Pamene mwana wamwamuna akukula, amadzipatula kwa mayiyo ndipo ubale wawo umalephera kukula. Mtunda uwu, pamenepo, ndi wovuta kudzaza.
4. Kunama kwa amayi ako
Monga ana, tonsefe tinanama nthawi ina kuti tipewe kukhumudwitsa makolo athu.
Kungakhale momwe tawonera masana athu pomwe sanali kapena momwe tidayeserera modzidzimutsa.Komabe, ukadzakula, sudzafunika kunamizira amayi ako konse.
Komabe, nthawi zina ubale wamwamuna wamwamuna umakhala wofooka kwambiri kotero kuti ana, ngakhale atakula, kunama kupewa mkangano uliwonse kapena kukhumudwitsidwa.
Izi zikuwonetseratu momwe kulumikizirana pakati pa kholo ndi ana kumakhalira kofooka kapena kofooka.
5. Osagwirizana ndi chisankho chanu
Kukula kwa ubale woyipa wamwamuna wamayi kumatha kuyezedwa ndi momwe amathandizira chisankho chanu.
Amayi, nthawi zambiri, amathandizira ana awo aamuna ndikuvomereza ubale wawo.
Komabe, ngati ubale wamwamuna wamayi suli wolimba, amayi atha kusiya kuthandiza mwana wawo ndi zisankho zawo.
Amalimbikira kukupangirani zisankho ngakhale mutakula. Chikhalidwe cholamulirachi chimasokoneza ubale wapakati pa mayi ndi mwana wamwamuna.
6. Kuthandiza ndalama
Kudziyimira pawokha pazachuma ndikofunikira pamoyo wa aliyense.
Monga ana, timadalira makolo athu kuti atipatse ndalama. Komabe, mutayamba kupeza ndalama mumadziyimira pawokha.
Muli omasuka kugwiritsa ntchito ndalama momwe mukufunira. Komabe, pali azimayi omwe amafuna kuti ana awo aamuna awapatse malipiro awo. Pambuyo pake, ana amuna amapempha ndalama kwa amayi awo kuti adzagwiritse ntchito tsiku lililonse.
Ngati izi ndi zomwe zimachitika pakati pa amayi anu ndi inu, ndiye kuti mukuyenda kupita kuubwenzi wapakati wa mayi wamwamuna.
7. Kukhala wopondereza
Amayi amatha kukhala opondereza, nthawi iliyonse yomwe angafune.
Nthawi zambiri, ana amayesa kunyengerera akuluakulu kuti azitha kuyankhula. Chizolowezi ichi ndi chovomerezeka kwa ana, koma kwa amayi, chitha kuwononga ubale wamwamuna wamwamuna.
Amayi akayamba kupusitsa ana awo aamuna, amachita izi ndi cholinga chowalamulira. Amazichita mwankhanza osaganizira zamtsogolo. Ndizovuta kuwayang'anira amayi oterewa ndipo angakudzudzuleni chifukwa cha zomwe zachitika.
8. Kusalemekeza malo anu achinsinsi
Monga ana, amayi amatha kulowa m'malo achinsinsi a ana awo aamuna popanda vuto, ndipo zimawoneka ngati zabwino. Komabe, monga wamkulu, kulowerera kwachinsinsi kwa mwana wamwamuna ndiye chinthu chomaliza chomwe amayi ayenera kuchita.
Komabe, pali azimayi ena omwe salemekeza chinsinsi cha mwana wawo wamwamuna ndipo amafuna kuti awerenge zolemba zawo, maimelo komanso amafunanso kudziwa chilichonse chatsiku ndi tsiku.
Izi zimathetsa ubale wamwamuna wamayi.