Zamkati
- Zaka zoyambirira zaukwati
- Mitundu yosiyanasiyana yamavuto am'banja
- Vuto: Mukakhala kuti mulibe nthawi yocheza
- Njira
- Vuto: Mavuto azachuma
- Njira
- Vuto: Kusunga chinsinsi ndi kusakhulupirika
- Njira
- Vuto: Nkhani zaumoyo
- Njira
- Vuto: Kugwa m'chikondi
- Njira
- Chinsinsi chaukwati wokhalitsa
Momwe tikufunira, palibe banja lomwe ndilabwino. Banja lililonse lidzakumana ndi mayesero ndi zovuta zake - ndiwo moyo. Tsopano, zili ndi inu ndi mnzanu momwe mungathetsere mavutowa ndikukhalabe olimba. Mavuto am'banja ndi abwinobwino koma mukakhala kale munthawi imeneyi, nthawi zina, mumayenera kudzifunsa kuti, "Mumatha bwanji mavuto m'banja?"
Kodi mukukumbukirabe malumbiro anu okwatirana komanso momwe mumamvera mukamanena izi kwa mnzanu? Malumbirowa akadaphatikizira lonjezo loti tidzakhalira limodzi pamavuto kapena munthawi yayitali, kukhala olemera, kapena osauka, zabwino kapena zoyipa - mpaka mutagawana. Mwinamwake mwasankha mawu ena kapena mawu ena koma malumbiro aukwati onse amaloza ku chinthu chimodzi.
Ngakhale zitakhala bwanji, ngakhale banja litakhala lovuta, inu ndi mnzanuyo mudzakumana nazo mwamphamvu.
Zaka zoyambirira zaukwati
Akuti m'zaka zoyambirira muukwati, nonse mudzayesedwa. Ino ndi nthawi yomwe nonse muyenera kusintha osati kungokhalira kulankhulana komanso kuchitira limodzi ndi apongozi anu komanso ndi anzanu.
Kukhala pamodzi ngati banja sikophweka. Muyamba kuwona mikhalidwe yosakhala yabwino ya mnzanu ndipo izi ziyesa mayeso anu komanso kuleza mtima kwanu. Nthawi zambiri, kusagwirizana kumayamba ndipo mayesero, komanso mayesero, amayamba kuwonekera.
Pali mabanja omwe amathetsa banja pomwe ena amathera kulimba limodzi. Kodi pali kusiyana kotani? Kodi akusowa china chake kapena kodi maanjawa sanapangane wina ndi mnzake?
Ukwati umafuna kuti anthu awiri akule ndikugwirira ntchito limodzi. Sizitanthauza kuti sakukumana ndi zovuta koma kuti ali ndi mphamvu zokwanira kuti akhalebe odzipereka muubwenzi wawo.
Mitundu yosiyanasiyana yamavuto am'banja
Mavuto am'banja amafunikira anthu awiri ofunitsitsa kuthana ndi vutolo osalinyalanyaza. Pakakhala zovuta zambiri mbanja, m'modzi kapena onse mwa awiriwo atha kufunsira upangiri kapena kungonyalanyaza vutolo ndikupeza njira zosokonekera. Momwe mumayankhira pamavuto anu amtsogolo zidzatsogolera ku njira yomwe nonsenu mutenge.
Nayi mndandanda wazovuta zapaukwati komanso njira zabwino zothetsera mavutowa.
Vuto: Mukakhala kuti mulibe nthawi yocheza
Mukakhala ndi ana, kusintha kwina kuli m'njira. Kudzakhala kusowa tulo usiku mukatopa kwambiri kuposa mawu ndipo mumanyalanyaza osati inu nokha komanso mnzanu.
Izi zimachitika ndipo zitha kuchititsa kuti banja lanu lisokonezeke. Mukakhala kuti mulibe nthawi yocheza kapena kukondana, mukakhala m'nyumba imodzi koma simukuwonana monga mumachitira.
Njira
Ndikusintha kwakukulu kukhala ndi ana koma m'malo mongoyang'ana zonse nokha, yesani kugawana nawo maudindowo.
Muzisinthana posamalira mwana wanu; khalani ndi nthawi yabwino limodzi ngati pali nthawi. Ndizovuta kukonza dongosolo lanu koma ngati nonse awiri mutha kunyengerera ndikukwaniritsa theka - zithandizadi.
Vuto: Mavuto azachuma
Chimodzi mwamavuto omwe mabanja amakhala nacho ndi mavuto azachuma. Uwu ukhoza kukhala umodzi mwamayeso ovuta omwe banja lingakumane nawo ndipo zitha kuwononga banja. Ndizomveka kufunitsitsa kuti ugule kena kake makamaka ukakhala kuti umapeza zofunika pa moyo koma kuchita izi kuseri kwa mnzanu ndikulakwitsa.
Njira
Ganizirani izi, ndalama zitha kupezeka ndipo ngakhale zitakhala bwanji ngati nonse nkumadzipereka ndikugwirira ntchito limodzi m'malo molimbana, mutha kuthana ndi vutoli.
Yesetsani kukhala ndi moyo wosalira zambiri, dziperekeni kungoyang'ana pa zosowa zanu poyamba ndipo musasunge zinsinsi za ndalama kwa mnzanu.
Lankhulani nawo ndikunyengerera.
Vuto: Kusunga chinsinsi ndi kusakhulupirika
Kusakhulupirika, mayesero ndi zinsinsi zili ngati moto womwe ungathe kuwononga banja. Kuyambira ndi mabodza ang'onoang'ono, zomwe zimatchedwa kukopana kosavulaza, mpaka kuchitidwe kosakhulupirika kumatha ndipo nthawi zambiri kumabweretsa chisudzulo.
Njira
Banja lililonse likumana ndi mayesero kapena zochitika zosiyanasiyana pomwe wina angayese chikhulupiriro chawo m'banja lawo. Kodi mumatani ngati izi zingachitike?
Limbikitsani kuukwati. Kumbukirani malonjezo anu ndipo ingoyamikirani banja lanu.
Kodi ndinu okonzeka kutaya chifukwa cha izi?
Vuto: Nkhani zaumoyo
Matenda ndi chiyeso china chomwe mabanja ena amakumana nacho. Nanga bwanji ngati mnzanu akudwala matenda owopsa omwe angafunike kuti mumusamalire kwazaka zambiri? Kodi mungagwiritse ntchito nthawi yanu molimbika kuti musamalire kapena kusamalira wokondedwa wanu amene akudwala? Zachisoni, anthu ena, ngakhale amakonda akazi kapena amuna awo amangotaya zinthu zikafika pothina.
Njira
Izi ndizovuta ndipo nthawi zina zimatha kukhala zokhumudwitsa makamaka mukamasiya maloto anu ndi ntchito yanu kuti musamalire mnzanu. Musamangoganiza za nzeru zanu zokha komanso malumbiro anu komanso mnzanu.
Kumbukirani kuti mudalonjezana kukhala limodzi kudzera m'matenda ndi thanzi. Ngati muyenera, funani thandizo koma osataya mtima.
Vuto: Kugwa m'chikondi
Kukondana ndi mnzanu ndi chifukwa chodziwika chomwe maukwati ena amasudzulana. Ndi zovuta zonse, kulimbana kapena kungodziwa kuti mukutaya kumukonda mnzanuyo ndikwanira kuti mutaye. Ganiziraninso.
Njira
Popanda chisamaliro choyenera, ngakhale miyala yamtengo wapatali kwambiri imatha komanso ukwati wanu. Chitani ntchito musanataye mtima. Pitani pachibwenzi, lankhulani ndikumverana. Pezani china chomwe nonse mudzasangalala nacho komanso koposa zonse, thokozani zaka zonse zomwe mwakhala limodzi.
Chinsinsi chaukwati wokhalitsa
Ukwati suli wokhudzana ndi mwayi kapena wopeza mosangalala. Ndi anthu awiri abwinobwino omwe, ngakhale pali zovuta zonse zakubanja asankha kuyika zosowa zawo pambali ndikuyamba kuganiza momwe angachitire ndi banja lawo. Kumbukirani kuti pamene mudasankha kukwatira, mudapanga lonjezo ndipo mosavuta momwe mungakwaniritsire lonjezolo, palinso njira zambiri momwe mungasungire. Lemekezani mnzanu, banja lanu, ndi banja lanu.