Zamkati
- Maganizo anu sali chimodzimodzi
- Muphunzira kuti chikondi chimakwezedwa
- Wokondedwa wanu sakumvetsetsani
- Mukuphwanya nthawi zambiri kuposa momwe mungawerengere
- Mutaya anzanu ofunika
Padzakhala nthawi zomwe mumayamba kufunsa kufunikira, kutsimikizika, komanso cholinga chaubwenzi wanu ndi mnzanu ndikudabwa; Kodi izi ndi zoona? Kodi ichi ndiye pachimake paubwenzi wathu? Kodi moyo wanga uzikhala motere? Bwanji ngati ndikufuna zochulukira, nanga bwanji ngati zonse zikadakhala zosiyana ndikadamvanso chonchi.
Izi ndi zitsanzo chabe za zomwe malingaliro anu angakupangitseni kukayikira kufunikira kwa ubale wanu ndikukupangitsani kuzindikira kuti simukusangalala kwenikweni ndipo simukukhutira.
Zinthu zimangokhala zosokoneza, zokhumudwitsa, zosasangalatsa komanso zosasangalatsa kuyambira pano kupita kunja ndipo mumamva ngati mukuyenera kuthawa zonsezi, mnzanu nyumba yanu, ndikubwezeretsani dzina lanu ndikuyambiranso.
Koma musanachite izi perekani nkhaniyi kuwerenga, kenako sankhani.
Maganizo anu sali chimodzimodzi
Kodi mumadzimva wopanda kanthu mkati?
Monga simukudziwa kuti zidachitika liti, koma momwe mumakondera wokondedwa wanu zatha tsopano.
Inu muli mu mphwayi; ma quirks ang'onoang'ono omwe mudakonda ena anu ofunika, kuthamanga kwamkati kwachisangalalo chosalamulirika chomwe mudamva mukakukhudzani, mutayang'ana m'maso mwawo ndikumva chifundo, komanso momwe mumaganizira tsiku lonse; onse ataya tanthauzo lake kwa inu; zilibe kanthu kwa inu panonso.
Ngati zichitika, musadzilimbitse mtima, mukudutsa gawo, koma osapanga zisankho mwachangu; kambiranani ndi anzanu apabanja kapena abale ndikuthana ndi nthawi ino.
Ingokumbukirani izi kuti chilichonse chomwe mumamva ndichopanda chilengedwe ndipo simukumana nacho chokha.
Muphunzira kuti chikondi chimakwezedwa
Chikondi ndichofunikira kwambiri muubwenzi uliwonse, koma chikondi chimadzichotsa mopanda chilungamo, ndipo chimangokhala lingaliro loposa kungotengeka.
Ngati zichoka kwakanthawi, ndiye kuti sizabwino.
Maganizo nthawi zambiri amasintha, ndipo palibe kutengeka komwe kumatha; sungakhale wokwiya kapena wokondwa kapena wokhumudwa nthawi zonse, ndipo ndi chikondi, zimagwiranso ntchito chimodzimodzi; sungakhale mchikondi nthawi 100%.
Sizitanthauza kuti kupezeka kwake kwatha konse, kungoti kupuma kwakanthawi; dziwani izi kuti maziko aubwenzi wanu amafotokozedwa ndi mabungwe ena ambiri kupatula chikondi chokha.
Chiyanjano chimakhazikika pa ulemu, chifundo, kukhulupirika, kukhululuka, kulumikizana, kunyengerera ndi zina zambiri.
Chikondi chokha sichingalimbikitse banja lanu mumafunikira zinthu zina zambiri, ndipo momwe chikondi chimafikira malingaliro ake ndipo zenizeni zake zimatha kusiyanasiyana, ingophunzirani kuyesetsa.
Wokondedwa wanu sakumvetsetsani
Chifukwa chake popeza mwapeza mnzanu, zonse zitha kukhazikika, sichoncho?
Ayi, sichingatero.
Wokondedwa wanu sangamvetsere zomwe zikuchitika mkati mwanu, nthawi zonse samatha kukumvetsani monga munthu pachimake, ndipo mumadzimva osakwanira komanso osamvetsedwa nthawi zina monga sizili choncho kukudziwani ndipo mwina simudzatero.
Muyenera kuchotsa chinyengo ichi cha mnzanu yemwe akulowerera mu ulusi wamzimu wanu ndikudziwa zidutswa zonse zomwe zimakupangitsani kukhala omwe muli; adzakudziwani bwino koma amatha kumvetsetsa zambiri, ndipo ndichoncho.
Mutha kulankhulana zakukhosi kwanu koma osayembekezera kuti munthu wina angadziwe momwe inu mulili momwe mumadziwira.
Mukuphwanya nthawi zambiri kuposa momwe mungawerengere
Makoma omwe mwawaleketsawo amakuwonetsani zowawa zambiri; mtima wanu udzasweka kambirimbiri, mudzawonongeka ndikusweka nthawi zambiri, ndipo mobwerezabwereza mumachira.
Kukangana ndi ndewu zidzakupangitsani kuvutika mumtima, koma kutha kwake kumakulimbikitsani monga munthu; ubale wanu nawonso kulimba.
Kutha ndi kubwera kumabwera ndi phukusi lonse, ndipo likhala gawo lovuta kwambiri pachibwenzi chanu, koma ndizosapeweka; kumagwa mvula, chimvula chamkuntho, ndipo sichiwala palibe chokhazikika kapena changwiro.
Koma phunzirani kukhala okhululuka, omvetsetsa zikafika kwa wokondedwa wanu ndimunthu yekha yemwe amalakwitsa, osalora mkwiyo kukugonjetsani. Nonse awiri mukadutsa izi, mudzangotuluka mwamphamvu.
Mutaya anzanu ofunika
Omwe mumawakonda kwambiri komanso omwe mumawakonda nthawi imodzi adzacheperanso kumbuyo, ndipo chikondi chomwe mudagawana ndi anzanu apamtima chidzangokhala maubwenzi osasunthika pomwe zofunika zanu zimasintha mukangolowa m'banja ndipo mosalephera moyo umatenga njira ina kwa inu ndi aliyense.
Mutha kuthana nazo pamapeto pake; zidzakhala zabwino kwambiri.