Zamkati
- Kodi "Ine" Ndi Chiyani? Kodi cholinga cha mawu akuti "Ine" ndi chiyani?
- Kodi mungadziphunzitse bwanji kuti mupange ziganizo za "Ine"?
- Kodi mungatani kuti mawu oti "Ine" akhale ogwira mtima?
Aliyense kuchokera kwa agogo anu aakazi amakuuzirani kuti awa Chinsinsi cha banja losangalala ndi lolankhulana bwino ndi kulankhulana bwino. Kuyeserera maluso monga kumvetsera mwachidwi, momveka bwino, ndi ulemu kumatha kuyanjanitsa maanja.
Chida china chothandiza kwambiri pakulimbikitsa kulumikizana ndi kugwiritsa ntchito ziganizo za "Ine".
Kodi "Ine" Ndi Chiyani? Kodi cholinga cha mawu akuti "Ine" ndi chiyani?
Mawu oti "Ine" ndi njira yofotokozera zakukhosi zomwe zimayang'ana udindo kwa wokamba nkhani m'malo mwa wolandirayo. Ndizosiyana ndi mawu oti "Inu", lomwe limatanthauza kuti mlandu. Chabwino, kodi mawu oti "Ine" ndiabwino kuposa mawu oti "Inu"!
A Thomas Gordon adasanthula koyamba kulumikizana uku ngati njira ya utsogoleri wogwira bwino mzaka za 1960. Pambuyo pake a Bernard Guerney adayambitsa njirayi m'mabanja ndi upangiri wa mabanja.
Zitsanzo:
Mawu oti "Inu": Simumayimba foni chifukwa simundisamala.
Mawu oti "Ine": Sindikumva kuchokera kwa inu, ndimakhala ndi nkhawa komanso sindimakondedwa.
Poganizira momwe wokamba nkhani akumvera m'malo mochita ndi wolandirayo, wolandirayo samadzimva kuti ndi wolakwa komanso amateteza. "Zolemba" za maanja atha kuchita zodabwitsika paubwenzi wawo.
Nthawi zambiri kudzitchinjiriza kumalepheretsa maanja kuthana ndi mikangano moyenera. Kugwiritsa ntchito mawu oti "Ine" M'mabanja kungathandize wokamba nkhani kutengapo mbali momwe akumvera, zomwe zingapangitse kuti azindikire kuti zomwe akumva sizolakwika za wokondedwa wawo.
Kodi mungadziphunzitse bwanji kuti mupange ziganizo za "Ine"?
Mawu osavuta akuti "Ine" amalumikizana pakati pamalingaliro, momwe akumvera, ndimakhalidwe kapena zochitika. Poyesera kufotokoza nokha m'mawu oti "Ine", gwiritsani ntchito mtundu uwu: Ndikumva (kutengeka) pamene (khalidwe) chifukwa (ndimaganizira za chochitika kapena machitidwe).
Kumbukirani kuti kungoika mawu akuti "Ine" kapena "Ndikumva" kutsogolo kwa mawu sikungasinthe kutsindika.
Mukamagwiritsa ntchito mawu oti "Ine", mukufotokozera mnzanu momwe mukumvera osati kuwalanga pamakhalidwe ena.
Wokondedwa wanu sangadziwe momwe khalidwe lawo limakukhudzirani. Musaganize kuti akufuna kuti khalidweli liyambitse kukhumudwa. S, sikuti zimangonena za nthawi yoti mugwiritse ntchito mawu oti "Ine" komanso momwe tingazigwiritsire ntchito.
Kodi mungatani kuti mawu oti "Ine" akhale ogwira mtima?
Mawu oti "inu" amakonda kufotokozera zakukhosi kwanu ngati zenizeni, ndipo tanthauzo lake ndikuti izi sizingasinthidwe. Ndi mawu oti "Ine", wokamba nkhaniyo amavomereza kuti akumva momwe akumvera. Izi zimapereka mwayi wosintha.
Kuti mupindule kwambiri ndi mawu anu "Ine" ganizirani zonena za khalidwe osati munthu. Musamakonde kumvekera momwe amafotokozera mnzanuyo. Pangani mawu anu kukhala osavuta komanso omveka.
Mawu oti "Ine" sali malingaliro okha. M'malo mwake, ndi njira yabwino yoyambira kukambirana kolimbikitsa.
Mukakhala omasuka ndi mawu osavuta akuti "Ine", yesani kutsatira pofotokoza kusintha komwe kungasinthe malingaliro anu. Musaiwale kumvetsera mutangonena.
Nthawi zina mawu akuti "Ine" atha kupangitsa kuti mnzanuyo azidzitchinjiriza. Akabwezera, mverani, ndipo yesetsani kumvetsetsa momwe akumvera.
Bwerezani zomwe mukumva wokondedwa wanu akunena. Kungakhale bwino kusiya ndi kubwerera kukambiranako nthawi ina.
Kugwiritsa ntchito Mawu oti "Ine" akuwonetsa kudzipereka kwanu ndikukhumba kwanu kukonza kulumikizana ndi mnzanu. Iwo ndi ulemu komanso kumvera ena chisoni.
Chikhumbo chothetsa kusamvana mwachikondi ndichinthu chofunikira choyamba ku ukwati wabwino.