Zamkati
- Njira zisanu zolimbitsira kulumikizana kwabwino tsiku lililonse lotanganidwa:
- 1. Sinthani zinthu zomwe muyenera kuchita tsiku lililonse, kukhala mwayi wolumikizana
- 2. Musanyoze mphamvu yakukhudza
- 3. Zolemba zazing'ono kulikonse
- 4. Lolani thupi ndi zolinga zanu kuti zizilankhula
- 5. Nenani kuti Lamlungu ndiye tsiku lanu labanja lokhalo
Makhalidwe athu otangwanika, otanganidwa, amakono okhala ndi ukadaulo, zizolowezi zopanda thanzi, maola ochulukirapo ogwira ntchito, ndi maudindo athu onse osatha, nthawi zambiri amatha kutisiya ndi malo ogulitsa magetsi. Ndi munthawi izi pomwe mumayamba kulakalaka kwa mphindi zochepa zokha kuti mutseke maso anu kwa masekondi ochepa ndikupuma. Tiyeni tiwonetse zochitika za tsiku ndi tsiku, m'banja wamba. Mukuvutikira kudzuka pabedi, mumalandila khofi kwakanthawi, komwe kumakupatsani zomwe mumachita m'mawa. Mukasiya ana kusukulu, mumayimilira mwachangu pamalo aliwonse ogulitsira omwe mumakonda kumwa zakumwa zomwe mumakonda, zomwe mumamwa masana, kuti musayang'anire, ndikusunga zomwe sizikuwoneka mulingo wamagetsi. Pobwerera kwanu, mukuyamba kukhumudwa, chifukwa mukudziwa kuti gawo lanu lachiwiri likuyembekezerani mwachidwi. Mukazindikira kuti ntchito zanu zonse zapakhomo tsikuli zachitika, mwadzidzidzi mumayimitsidwa mwadzidzidzi. Tsopano, mukakhala wokonda kugwira ntchito, ndipo mukufunikirabe kumaliza ntchito, zinthu zimaipiraipira. Inu ndi bwenzi lanu mutha kukhala limodzi ndipo mutha kugawana kapena kukambirana nkhani zofunika kwambiri, koma simungayitane kuyesayesa kulumikizana, njira yanu yoyesereradi kulumikizana ndi mnzanu. Mukudzikakamiza kuti mumalize ntchito yomwe idatchulidwayi, pomwe mnzanu akugona, zomwe zikutanthauza kuti mudzawonana ndikulankhulana m'mawa mwake.
Chifukwa chakuti watopa kale ndipo watopa, ndili ndi chitsimikizo kuti sudzadumpha pakama 5 koloko m'mawa, maso ako owala bwino komanso wopindika kuti upite kukathamanga mwachangu, koma kotsitsimutsa limodzi mnzake. Simudzayesetsa kudzuka m'mawa kwambiri kuti mukhale ndi njira iliyonse yolumikizirana ngakhale mukudziwa kuti simungapeze nthawi yake usiku, ngakhale mutayesadi ndi zolinga zabwino. tikufunika kupanga njira zazifupi zophatikizira ndi nthawi kuti tizilumikizana ndi mnzathu.
Njira zisanu zolimbitsira kulumikizana kwabwino tsiku lililonse lotanganidwa:
1. Sinthani zinthu zomwe muyenera kuchita tsiku lililonse, kukhala mwayi wolumikizana
Muyenera kuphika kapena kuphika chakudya tsiku lililonse, pemphani wokondedwa wanu kuphika nanu, katatu pamlungu. Komanso, muyenera kudya. Mukudziwa lingaliro lakale laku sukulu, lomwe limafuna kuti banja lonse lizidyera limodzi patebulo, popanda zosokoneza zilizonse? Limbikirani kuti mubweretse sukulu yakale, kunyumba kwanu. Kudya limodzi monga banja, komwe kumabweretsa nthawi yamtengo wapatali komanso yolumikizira, kumawonjezera banja lanu
ubale wabwino, wamaganizidwe, komanso chikhalidwe.
2. Musanyoze mphamvu yakukhudza
Ndikukutsimikizirani; Mwayi ndiwabwino kuti inu ndi mnzanu mupitebe moyandikana. M'malo mongothamangira kuchipinda china, kumbukirani mwayi uliwonse wofika ndi kukhudza mnzanu. Izi zitha kuphatikizira chilichonse kuchokera pakumenyedwa mbama, kukumbatirana mwachangu, kupsompsonana, kubedwa, ndi zina zambiri.Ndikukhulupirira kuti mudzatha kulingalira za malingaliro owonjezera ochepa, "okhudza mwachangu" kuti muwonjezere pamndandanda wanu.
3. Zolemba zazing'ono kulikonse
Muyenera kusamba tsiku ndi tsiku kapena kusamba, zomwe zimapangitsa kuti magalasi ndi magalasi azipota. Gwiritsani ntchito mwayi uwu kusiya chala chojambula chala kapena mawu ofunikira kuti musangalatse tsiku la mnzanu. Ana anu adzasangalalanso kuwululidwa kwa zolemba zanu zachinsinsi kwa wina ndi mnzake, ndipo adzatsimikizidwanso kuti makolo awo amakondana. Mukanyamula mabokosi azakudya zamasana tsiku lotsatira, lembani kalata mwachangu ndikuyiyika m'bokosi lake lamasana, azikonda zodabwitsa zomwe sanayembekezere. Mukayimilira mwachangu kuti mugule zakumwa zamagetsi, mugule chakudya chochepa kwa mnzanu ndikubisa pansi pamiyendo yawo, mwachitsanzo. Muthanso kutumiza mnzanu uthenga wachangu wonena zonga izi, "ndikuganiza za inu", "kodi ndakuwuzani posachedwapa kuti ndimakukondani?", "Ndakusowani!", Ndi zina zambiri.
4. Lolani thupi ndi zolinga zanu kuti zizilankhula
Mukapeza nthawi yowonera kanema kapena zochitika limodzi, yesetsani kupikisana kapena kumugwira wokondedwa wanu, simuyenera kunena kapena kuchita chilichonse; mutha basi Khazikani mtima pansi ndipo khalani pamodzi.
5. Nenani kuti Lamlungu ndiye tsiku lanu labanja lokhalo
Malinga ndi asayansi, anthu okwatirana omwe ali ndi banja losangalala ayenera kukhala ndi nthawi yolankhula yocheperako kwa maola 5 kuti akhale ndi banja losangalala komanso losangalala. Konzani zochitika zingapo zosangalatsa ndi zosangalatsa za banja lanu lokha. Sichiyenera kukhala chopitilira muyeso komanso chachikulu, pikisitiki mwachilengedwe, kungoyenda paki, kapena kujambula zithunzi zanu zakale ndikukumbukiranso zomwe mukukumbukira limodzi, zidzakhala zokwanira. Kumbukirani kuti sizokhudza zomwe mumachita, koma ndimomwe zimapangira aliyense kumva.
Chonde fotokozerani zomwe mwakumana nazo mukatha kugwiritsa ntchito njirazi. Tili othokoza ndemanga zanu ndipo nthawi zonse timayamika ndi mwayi wokondwerera zosintha m'moyo wanu ndiukwati wanu ndi inu.