Zamkati
- 1. Chitani kafukufuku wapachaka
- 2.Sinthani banja lanu
- 3. Khalani ochulukirapo
- 4.Limbikitsaninso
- 5.Limbikitsani
- 6. Yambitsani chidwi
- 7.Yambani kusamala za moyo wanu wogonana
- 8.Gwiritsani ntchito liwu la 'L' nthawi zambiri
- 9.Konzani malingaliro amenewo
- 10.Kukumbatira
Chaka Chatsopano chikuyimira kuyambiranso kwa mabanja. Siyani mavuto anu mu 2020 ndikukonzanso banja lanu. Yandikiraninso, pezani chikondi kachiwiri, khalani osamala, omvetsetsa ndikulandira chidwi. Mukufuna kudziwa bwanji? Pali njira khumi zochitira pansipa.
1. Chitani kafukufuku wapachaka
Kuyesedwa pachaka kumatha kuteteza mavuto ang'onoang'ono kuti asathetseke. Kuti muziwona chaka ndi chaka, onaninso ukwatiwo podziwa zomwe zimagwira ntchito, zomwe sizikugwirizana ndi zomwe sizikugwira ntchito. Kuyika zonse patebulo ndiye gawo loyamba lokonzanso ndipo kumapereka mwayi kwa mabanja kuti apeze thandizo ngati kuli kofunikira.
2.Sinthani banja lanu
Kunyumba kumayenera kukhala malo abata; malo omwe mukufuna kukhala. Kuti mukwaniritse bata lanu ndikupangitsa kuti nyumba yanu ikhale gwero, tengani chilichonse chofunikira kuti muchepetse kupsinjika. Izi zitha kuphatikizira kukhala ndi nthawi yochulukirapo limodzi, kukhala ndi zokambirana zingapo zovuta kuti muthe kupanga chisankho komanso / kapena kudzipereka kuti mupeze chisangalalo chachikulu. 2016 ndi chaka chothana ndi zovuta, kusintha ndikusinthanso banja labwino, losangalala lomwe mudali nalo kale.
3. Khalani ochulukirapo
Nthawi zina banja limangofunika nthawi. Kuphatikiza pa nthawi, pangani nthawiyo kuwerengera. Chikondi chimafuna kuchuluka komanso kuthekera.
4.Limbikitsaninso
Ukwati umatchedwa mgwirizano pazifukwa. Pambuyo paukwati, okwatirana amakhala ophatikizana koma pakapita nthawi zimasokonekera. Kuti mukonzenso, muyenera kulumikizana. Chitani izi potenga nawo mbali kwambiri m'miyoyo ya wina ndi mnzake. Zachidziwikire kuti mumakhudzidwa popeza mumakhala limodzi koma muziyang'ana kwambiri pazinthu zakunja zomwe zili zofunika kwa ena. Kusonyeza kuti mumasamala kumatanthauzanso chikondi.
5.Limbikitsani
Chithandizo chimalimbikitsa ubale wabwino. Tengani mphindi zochepa kuchokera tsiku lanu kuti mumuuze chikondi chanu mawu olimbikitsa ndikumubweza. Chilimbikitso ndi chithandizo zimachita zodabwitsa.
6. Yambitsani chidwi
Kuti mulimbitse banja lanu, yesetsani kuchita chidwi ndi chidwi cha mnzanu. Woneke bwino kwa iye, valani mafuta onunkhira omwe mkazi kapena mwamuna wanu amakonda, gwiritsani ntchito kukhudzika pafupipafupi ndikusungitsa mawu anu. Zonsezi ziwonjezera kukopa kwanu zomwe zingamupatse chidwi. Zomwe mumachita ndi chidwi chanu zili ndi inu.
7.Yambani kusamala za moyo wanu wogonana
Zomwe muyenera kukumbukira ndikupanga nthawi yake, muzisangalala nazo ndipo musachite mantha kuyesa zinthu zatsopano.
8.Gwiritsani ntchito liwu la 'L' nthawi zambiri
Kukonzanso ukwati ndi nkhani ya chikondi choncho uzani mnzanu kuti mumamukonda pafupipafupi. Kumva, "Ndimakukondani" ndizofunika.
9.Konzani malingaliro amenewo
Tiyeni tikhale owona mtima, tonsefe timakhala ndi malingaliro tikakhumudwitsidwa kapena kukhumudwitsidwa koma kusakhulupirika ndichinthu chomwe tonsefe tikhoza kukhala nacho chochepa. Gwiritsani ntchito njira yolankhulirana poyang'anizana ndi zokhumudwitsa ngakhale pang'ono. Zimatengera kuchita koma mutha kuzichita.
10.Kukumbatira
M'malo mothetsa mikangano ndi mawu olakwika, muzikumbatira. Khalani ndi kusamvana kwanu, kambiranani pamene nonse mumakhazikika kenako nkukumbatirana kumapeto. Chikondi chotsatira mkangano chimati, "Ndimakukondani ngakhale sitigwirizana" ndipo zimathandiza kupewa kukwiya.