Zamkati
- 1. Pitani ndi zolinga zabwino
- 2. Musakangane pamaso pa ana anu
- 3. Khalani omasuka kukonzekera zosintha
- 4. Kumbukirani mikhalidwe yabwino yakulera
Mutasudzulana, momwe mungayang'anire mnzanu wakale zimatha kusintha kwambiri. Nthawi zambiri, omwe anali pachibwenzi amakhala ndi mkwiyo kapena kukhumudwitsana, zomwe zimapangitsa kukhala kovuta kukhala m'moyo wa wina ndi mnzake. Izi zimakhala zovuta kwambiri mukagawana mwana ndi wakale wanu.
Kulera limodzi ndi mnzanu wakale ndizovuta kwambiri. Munthu amene mungafune kuti musadzamuwonenso, apitiliza kukhala chinthu chosasinthasintha m'moyo wanu. Ndikudziwa kuti kungoganiza izi kungayambitse mutu, koma ndikofunikira kukumbukira kuti ana anu ayenera kukhala patsogolo pompano. Mwana wanu amafunikira nonse inu kuwathandiza kuwalera, kuwatsogolera, ndi kuwaphunzitsa. Ndikofunikira kuti mudziwonetse nokha ngati gulu patsogolo pawo.
Nazi njira zinayi zakulera kholo bwino.
1. Pitani ndi zolinga zabwino
Sizingatheke kuti inu ndi mnzanu wakale munakhala ndi njira zosiyanasiyana zolerera. Mutha kutsutsana kuti sukulu ndi yabwino kwambiri kwa mwana wanu, kapena chakudya chomwe ayenera kudya. Yesani ndikudzikumbutsa kuti chifukwa choti simunakwatirane, sizimawapanga kukhala mdani wanu.
M'malo mogwiritsa ntchito kusamvana uku ngati chifukwa chokangana, kumbukirani kuti inu ndi mnzanu wakale mumakhala ndi zolinga zabwino mukamauza ana anu. Kumbukirani kuti nonse mukumenyera zabwino zomwe zili zabwino kwa iwo. Muzilankhulana momasuka ndi kholo linalo, ndipo m'malo mokangana, lankhulani modekha. Osagwiritsa ntchito zisankho zakulera ngati njira yokometsera mnzanu wakale. Osangokangana chifukwa choti simukuwakondera. Kulera bwino ana kumafunikira kulola abambo kapena amayi awo kupita chitsogozo cha kalembedwe kawo. Izi sizisintha mukasudzulana.
2. Musakangane pamaso pa ana anu
Ndikumva kuti ili lingakhale funso lalikulu, komabe, ndikofunikira kuti inu ndi mnzanu wakale mukhale ogwirizana mukakhala ndi ana anu. Kulera bwino ana kumatanthauza kuti simuyenera kukambirana zinthu zomwe zingayambitse mkangano. Mwachitsanzo, ngati pali mavuto ena omwe muyenera kukambirana kukhothi, monga chisamaliro cha ana ndi kusunga ana, yesetsani kuti musakambirane izi mukamanyamula ndi kusiya ana anu. Lembani loya wazamalamulo pabanja ndikuyankhulana nawo pazomwe mukufuna komanso zomwe mukufuna. Pewani kulankhula ndi wokondedwa wanu za izi kunja kwa chipinda choyimira.
Kulola ana anu kukuwonani mukukangana kungawasokoneze. Musalole kuti iwo aganize kuti ndi chifukwa chake mukukhumudwa. Adzatengera mphamvu zoyipa ndikuchita nawo kapena kumva kuti ndi zolemetsa.
3. Khalani omasuka kukonzekera zosintha
Mapangano ambiri osunga ana amabwera ndi nthawi yoyendera. Komabe, moyo nthawi zambiri umakhala wosayembekezereka ndipo ungapangitse kuti inu kapena kholo lanu limodzi musapezeke patsiku lanu. M'malo mokwiyira mnzanu wakale kapena kuwapatsa zovuta kuti sangakwanitse kusamalira mwana wanu wamwamuna kapena wamkazi, yesetsani kumvetsetsa ndikulola kuti ndalamazo zisinthe.
Izi zikachitika pafupipafupi, lankhulani nawo pakusintha ndandanda wosintha masiku. Osakangana kapena kukambirana nawo motentha. Fikirani modekha ndikugwirira ntchito limodzi kuti mupeze ndandanda yatsopano yoyendera yomwe imagwira ntchito.
Kumbukirani, ndizotheka kuti muyenera kusintha masiku nthawi ina mtsogolo. Ngati mungafune kuti mnzanu wakale agwirizane nanu tsikuli litafika, inunso muyenera kunyengerera.
4. Kumbukirani mikhalidwe yabwino yakulera
Chibwenzi chanu chisanathe, panali zikhalidwe zabwino zaubereki zomwe mudasilira za wakale. Kumbukirani iwo pakakhala kusamvana. Chifukwa choti wina salinso mnzake wamkulu, sizitanthauza kuti si makolo abwino. Kulera bwino ana kumafuna kuti muzidzikumbutsa za izi polankhula ndi mwana wanu za ntchito yabwino yomwe abambo kapena amayi awo angakhale akuchita. Kuchita izi kumalimbikitsa lingaliro m'mutu mwanu ndikuwonetsa mwana wanu kuti nonse mumayamikiranabe komanso kulemekezana ngakhale mutasudzulana.
Kuphunzira momwe mungagwirire bwino kholo ndi njira yayitali. Khalani oleza mtima wina ndi mnzake ndipo pang'onopang'ono mupita patsogolo. Kumbukirani kulumikizana komanso kunyengerera.