Zamkati
- 1. Yambitsani kukambirana
- 2. Chilankhulo chachikondi
- 3. Nthawi yocheza
- 4. Kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi limodzi
- 5. Kuyenda pansi pamsewu wokumbukira
- 6. Sungani foni yanu kapena kugwira ntchito mukakhala limodzi
- 7. molawirira kukagona
- 8. Mndandanda wa zidebe
- 9. Nthawi zonse muzimwetulirana
- 10. Sanjani usiku
Mukakhala banja logwira ntchito, chinthu choyamba chomwe mumafuna tsiku lanu likamatha ndi kugona bwino.
Kufunika kogona mokwanira kumawirikiza ngati ndinu kholo logwira ntchito.
Zikatero, kulumikizana pakati pa wokondedwa wanu nanu kumayamba kuchepa ndipo pang'onopang'ono mumadzipeza mukukwaniritsa ntchito yanu popanda chikondi chotsalira pakati pa inu nonse.
Zachidziwikire, simungafune kuti chikondi chikule pakati pa ntchito ndi ntchito zanu za tsiku ndi tsiku. Tiyeni tiwone mwachangu zosiyanasiyana njira zolumikizirana ndi mnzanu pambuyo pa tsiku logwira ntchito kotero kuti chikondi chimakhala motalika pakati pa inu nonse.
Ndiye, mungalumikizane bwanji ndi mnzanu?
1. Yambitsani kukambirana
Kukambirana ndichinthu chofunikira kwambiri muubwenzi wabwino. Maubwenzi ambiri amafa pakadali pano chifukwa chakuchepa kapena kusacheza. Komabe, ntchito ikakhudza zochitika zaubwenzi ibwera, ndikofunikira kuti muzisunga zokambiranazo.
Izi zitha kuchitika pofunsa mafunso omasuka. Khalani ndi chidwi ndi tsikulo komanso zomwe mnzanuyo adachita. Yesetsani kudziwana zochitika za tsiku ndi tsiku m'malo mofunsana mafunso omaliza.
2. Chilankhulo chachikondi
Kukhudza kwanu ndi chilankhulo champhamvu cha chikondi. M'moyo watsiku ndi tsiku, maanja amaphonya izi. Zikafika ku momwe mungalandire mamuna kubwerera kuchokera nthawi yayitali kapena pambuyo pa tsiku lalitali, kuwapatsa moni ndi kukumbatirana kumatha kuchita zodabwitsa.
Kupatula kupsompsonana, kupsompsonana. Izi zing'onozing'ono zomwe mnzanu amachita zingakulimbikitseni ndipo zingakupangitseni kukhala omasuka pambuyo pa tsiku lotopetsa.
3. Nthawi yocheza
Ndizomveka kuti ndizovuta kupatula nthawi yocheza wina ndi mnzake tsiku lotanganidwa komanso lotopetsa.
Komabe, ngati mukufuna njira zolumikizirana ndi mnzanu pambuyo pa tsiku logwira ntchito, modzipereka khalani ndi nthawi yocheza. Mwina mugone pansi ndikuwonera pulogalamu yomwe mumakonda kapena kanema, kapena werengani china limodzi.
Nthawi yayitali limodzi yopititsa patsogolo kukondana kuli pakati panu nonse kusungitsa zovuta kutali ndi moyo wanu.
4. Kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi limodzi
Zinthu sizingakonzedwe zokha muyenera kuchita gwirani ntchito ndi mnzanu pa izo, palimodzi. Nthawi zambiri maanja amadandaula kuti sapeza nthawi yochitira limodzi zinthu zambiri ndipo zapangitsa kuti pakhale mtunda pakati pawo.
Chabwino, pezani zochitika zofananira zomwe nonse mumakonda kuchita. Ngati sichoncho, muyenera kuyamba kugwira ntchito limodzi. Pogwira ntchito zina, kaya zikhale zosangalatsa, mukucheza ndi wina ndi mnzake ndipo mumamvabe kulumikizana; zomwe ndizofunikira kwambiri.
5. Kuyenda pansi pamsewu wokumbukira
Mukumangika kwa moyo, sizachilendo kuiwala za masiku akale abwino.
Tsoka ilo, nthawi ikakhala kuti siili bwino, malingaliro olakwika amatenga moyo. Timayamba kutchera khutu kuzinthu zonse zoyipa ndipo zokumbukira zabwino zimayamba kuchepa m'moyo wathu. Musalole kuti izi zichitike. Kuyenda pamsewu wokumbukira ndi imodzi mwabwino kwambiri njira zolumikizirana ndi mnzanu pambuyo pa tsiku logwira ntchito. Zimayatsa kumverera kwa umodzi ndikupangitsa kuti moto ukhalebe wamoyo, zivute zitani.
6. Sungani foni yanu kapena kugwira ntchito mukakhala limodzi
Kupeza nthawi yocheza ndi mnzanu ndikofunikira. Lero, tonse ndife olumikizidwa ndi zida zathu ndipo nthawi zina timabweretsa ntchito kunyumba. Izi ndizolakwika kwathunthu. Ngati mukufuna momwe mungapezere chidwi kuchokera kwa amuna anu kapena mkazi, ndikofunikira kuti musunge zida zanu ndikucheza nawo, kungocheza nawo.
Mukakhudza chida chanu ndikusanthula imelo yantchito yanu ngakhale mutakhala kunyumba ndi mnzanu, zimapereka chizindikiro cholakwika. Osagwiritsa ntchito chida chanu mukakhala kunyumba.
7. molawirira kukagona
Zaumoyo, ndikofunikira kutsatira 'koyambirira kukagona ndi kuwuka molawirira'.
Komabe, zochita zathu zotopetsa za tsiku ndi tsiku zasintha izi. Ngati mwatopa ndi mavuto amubwenzi, ndiye yambani kutsatira izi.
Izi zili ndi maubwino awiri; Choyamba mukapita molawirira pambuyo pa tsiku lotopetsa, mumapumitsa thupi lanu mokwanira. Chachiwiri, mumadzuka mutakhazikika tsiku lotsatira ndipo mudzakhala ndi mphamvu komanso nthawi yocheza ndi mnzanu.
8. Mndandanda wa zidebe
Ichi ndi chimodzi mwabwino kwambiri njira zolumikizirana ndi mnzanu pambuyo pa tsiku logwira ntchito. Padzakhala zochitika kapena malo omwe mukufuna kukayendera.
Chifukwa chake, yambani kupanga mndandanda wazidebe limodzi. Mutha kuperekanso mndandanda wazomwe mukufuna. Izi zidzakusangalatsani ndipo mutha kudzipezanso masiku akale achisangalalo ndi chisangalalo.
9. Nthawi zonse muzimwetulirana
Ichi ndi chimodzi mwazofunikira njira zolumikizirana ndi mnzanu pambuyo pa tsiku logwira ntchito. Mwamuna wanu kapena mkazi akukonzekera ntchito kapena akubwerera kuchokera kuntchito, nkhope yanu yomwetulira ikhoza kuwalimbikitsa. Ichi ndi chimodzi mwazina za njira zokondweretsera amuna anu kapena mkazi.
Nkhope yomwetulira imatumiza uthenga wabwino kwa mnzanu yemwe mwina anali ndi tsiku loyipa, ndipo zomwe amafunikira ndikuwona kumwetulira pankhope panu.
10. Sanjani usiku
Ndikudabwa momwe mungakhalire nokha ndi mnzanu? Konzekerani usiku wamasana.
Lero, kupeza nthawi yocheza ndikovuta. Muyenera kuti muzizemba nthawi ina kuti mukakhale ndi nthawi yabwino. Ngati muli ndi mwamuna wolimbikira ntchito kapena mkazi ndi kuzembera kutuluka ndizovuta, konzekerani tsiku limodzi usiku. Amatha kukhala tsiku lakanema kapena kusangalala ndi chakudya chamadzulo pamalo odyera abwino. Nthawi zabwinozi zomwe timathera limodzi ndizofunikira.