Zamkati
- Nkhope ina ya mawu oti, 'Ndikufuna malo'
- Zizindikiro zomwe muyenera kupatsa mnzanu malo
- 1. Mvetsetsani pempho la mnzanu
- 2. Pezani nthawi ndi malo a nthawi yopuma
Wokondedwa wanu akakufunsani malo, mutha kukhala opanda nkhawa pang'ono pazomwe zikutanthauza.
Ubale wachikondi kapena banja nthawi zonse umangokhudza kukankha pang'ono, komanso za kufanana kwa mtunda ndi kuyandikira.
Maubwenzi athanzi amaphunzira kuyendetsa dichotomy kumayambiriro kwa chibwenzi chawo kuti apewe kukwiya kapena kuipidwa. Nthawi yomweyo, tiyeni tikhale achilungamo, 'Ndikufuna malo' atha kukhala phokoso loyamba la chiwonongeko cha ubale wanu popeza pali anthu omwe amafunsira malo ngati njira yotuluka.
Nkhope ina ya mawu oti, 'Ndikufuna malo'
Zikutanthauza chiyani mnzanu akafunsa malo?
Apa, tikuyesera kuti tisayang'ane kwambiri pa 'njira yotuluka'. Komabe, pali anthu ambiri omwe amafunsa zomwe amafunikira ndikutanthauza zomwe akunena, ndipo chifukwa cha izi, kufunsa malo kumatanthawuza zomwezo ndikutanthauza kutsanzikana kuukwati.
Ngakhale zitha kuluma pang'ono, pamapeto pake tiyenera kukonzanso momwe timaganizira za pempholi chifukwa uwu ungakhale mwayi weniweni waubwenzi!
Inde! Munazimva bwino.M'malo mwake, phatikirani kumbuyo kwanu kuno, muli ndi mnzanu kapena wokondedwa wanu yemwe akufuna kuti ubalewu ugwire bwino ntchito popanga kudzipereka potengera kukwaniritsidwa kwa zosowa ndi zokhumba zawo ndipo akulankhulana kuti, iyi ndi jackpot!
Apa simuyenera kuda nkhawa kuti muphunzira zotani mnzanu atapempha malo. M'malo mwake, muone ngati dalitso.
Koma, nthawi zonse pamakhala mbali ina ya ndalama.
Nanga bwanji ngati mumakhala ndi nkhawa zambiri pachibwenzi komanso kulumikizana mosatetezeka? Kumva kuti wokondedwa wanu akufuna malo kungakupangitseni mantha, mantha, ndikuopa kusiyidwa.
Ngati muli kale anzanu otere, mumakhala okhoza kudzaza ena ndi nkhani zanu zachisoni ndikuyesera kuchepetsa nkhawa zomwe mumakhala mukasiyana nawo. Izi pamapeto pake ziwakankhira kutali.
Kuchita china chosiyana ndikofunikira tsopano.
Zizindikiro zomwe muyenera kupatsa mnzanu malo
Tiyeni timvetsetse zomwe mungachite kuti muteteze banja lanu, ngati mnzanu wanena kuti akusowa malo, omwe mwina sangamveke abwino kwa inu.
1. Mvetsetsani pempho la mnzanu
Mutha kuganiza zothokoza chifukwa chakudziwitsani zomwe akusowa kenako muwafunse mayankho anu pazomwe kukhala ndi malo ambiri kumatanthauza kwa iwo.
Ngati muli pachibwenzi chatsopano, nonse muyenera kuti mwapanga ubale wanu kukhala chinthu chofunikira kwambiri pamoyo wanu. Muyenera kuti mudapereka nthawi yanu yokwanira 100% ku gawo latsopanoli lachikondi, ngakhale kulola kudzipereka kofunikira kugwera munjira.
Chifukwa chake pali kuthekera kwakukulu, pamene mnzanu kapena mnzanu wapempha malo, atha kuphonya kucheza ndi anzawo, mobwerezabwereza.
2. Pezani nthawi ndi malo a nthawi yopuma
Chifukwa china chotsatira posonyeza kuyamikira pempholi ndikuwona kuti ndi liti komanso komwe mnzanu akufuna nthawi yochulukirapo.
Monga othandizira awiri, tikudziwa kuti ndikofunikira kuti maanja azidziwikiratu kuti ali pachibwenzi ndipo kukhala ndi gawo ndi gawo limodzi.
Limodzi mwa mafunso omwe timafunsa maanja kuti awone ngati angawongolere kapena kuwayang'anira ndi momwe amalemekezera ubale wawo ndi zomwe amachita kunja kwa chibwenzi choyambirira.
Koma, kukhala ndi danga ndikosiyana ndi kukhala chete masiku kapena milungu yakuchepetsa chibwenzi. Ngati mnzanu afunsira malo kenako izi zimachitika, zimangokhala ngati agwiritsa ntchito pempho lapa ngati njira yotulukamo kapena ali ndi njira yolumikizirana yolumikizirana zosowa zawo zaubwenzi.
Kukhala ndi danga kumatanthauza kuti onse awiriwo amalemba kudzera m'malemba kapena kuyimba foni masana kapena usiku. Amakondabe kulumikizana wina ndi mnzake, kugawana ndi kusamala za zomwe zikuchitika m'miyoyo yawo, kapena akukonzekeranabe.
Amapanga njira yopitilira muubwenzi pomwe akuvomereza kuti akuyenera kusungabe anthu ena ndi maudindo m'miyoyo yawo.