Zamkati
- Ukwati umafuna mauthenga ndi upangiri wothandiza
- Zabwino zonse za makoti achikwati
- Limbikitsani kukambirana mozama
- Dziwani zazing'onozing'ono
- Khalani achikondi
- Zochita mwachisawawa
- Dziperekeni limodzi
- Cuddle
- Thukuta limodzi
- Sungani malonjezo anu
- Pitani kutchuthi
- Ganizirani pazinthu zabwino
- Lemekezani mnzanuyo komanso banja lawo
- Nthawi zonse muyankhe foni mnzanu akakuimbirani foni
- Khalani okhulupirika
- Sangalalani ndi ulendowu komanso zovuta zake
- Khalani okongola
Anthu m'miyoyo yathu amadzakwatirana.
Mosasamala kanthu za malingaliro athu omwe pa banja ndi dzina lomwe timatcha Mulungu, padzakhala maanja ndi maukwati omwe tikuyembekeza kuti apambana. Zokhumba zaukwati sizofunika chilichonse ngati sizichokera pansi pamtima. Mabanja angadziwe ngati mlendo ali pomwepo kuti akadye chakudya chaulere.
Maukwati ndi gawo lofunikira kwambiri pamoyo wawo.
Kwa anthu ambiri, ndichosintha moyo. Tsoka ilo, sikuti maukwati onse amathera mosangalala mpaka kalekale. Ichi ndichifukwa chake timawapatsa zokhumba zaukwati kuwathandiza kuthana nawo.
Ukwati umafuna mauthenga ndi upangiri wothandiza
Ndi ochepa okha mwa omwe adzalimbikitsidwe omwe angayankhule pa phwando laukwati. Sizitanthauza kuti ndi okhawo omwe angatumize zofuna zaukwatiwo pa moyo wawo watsopano limodzi. Kulemba kalata limodzi ndi mphatso yanu kudzakhala ndi zotsatira zake.
Kungoganiza kuti zomwe mwawauza ndizomveka.
Zokhumba zaukwati zili ngati upangiri wina uliwonse. Ziyenera kukhala zothandiza. Palibe chifukwa chokhala chozama ngati Confucius, yemwe mwangozi amakhala ndi dzina lokhala ndi nyimbo zosokoneza.
Kulikonse kumene mupite, pitani ndi mtima wanu wonse.
Awa ndi mawu enieni a Confucius. Zimagwira pazinthu zambiri, kuphatikiza maukwati. Komabe, sizomveka bwino kuti aliyense amvetsetse. Avereji ya anthu amatha kumvetsetsa, mwatsoka ngakhale anthu ocheperako akhoza kukwatira.
Mau osangalatsa a maukwati ndi osavuta komanso omveka, monga "Osasiya chibwenzi ndi mkazi wako." Ndizomveka, zachidule, ndipo zithandizira kwambiri mabanja omwe ali paulendowu.
Zabwino zonse za makoti achikwati
Malangizo othandizira ndi abwino.
Komabe, anthu ambiri sangadziwe zomwe akufuna kuchita ukwati wabwino pokhapokha atakhala okwatirana kwa nthawi yayitali. Mwamwayi, Google ndi bwenzi lathu. Nawa malingaliro abwino kwambiri okonzekera ukwati pa intaneti.
Zalangizidwa - Njira Yokwatirana Yoyambira Pa intaneti
Limbikitsani kukambirana mozama
Mnzanuyo si mlendo. Mayankho amtundu umodzi amatha kuthetsa kulumikizana. Inu muli muukwati umodzi pamodzi. Pitirizani kugawana malingaliro anu kuti mupite patsogolo.
Dziwani zazing'onozing'ono
Kodi mnzanuyo amakonda khofi wawo motani? Kodi amadana pamene wina amaiwala kukweza mpando wa chimbudzi? Kodi amakonda mazira awo atakhwinyata, othyoka, kapena owala dzuwa? Zinthu zazing'ono ndi zosintha zimawunjikana ndikupanga banja losangalala.
Khalani achikondi
Kugonana ndikwabwino, kukondana ndikwabwino.
Popeza mwakwatirana ndi munthu ameneyo, zimaganiziridwa kuti simukufuna kuti thupi lawo likuthandizeni zosowa zanu. Pitirizani kuchita zinthu zomwe zinawapangitsa kuti azikukondani.
Zochita mwachisawawa
Kukondana ndi mnzanu ndikwabwino, koma kuchitira zinthu zabwino limodzi kuthandiza abwenzi ndi abale kumalimbikitsa ubale wapamtima wa anthu omwe ndiofunika. Komanso, amakhala tsiku losakira tsiku laukwati kwa abwenzi powapangitsa kuti azindikire kufunikira kwantchitoyo komanso chisangalalo chomwe chimabweretsa.
Dziperekeni limodzi
Anzathu ndi mabanja si okhawo anthu padziko lapansi. Kukhala ndi nthawi yothandizira anthu osawadziwa ngati banja kumathandizanso banja lanu.
Cuddle
Kudzifotokozera
Thukuta limodzi
Kugonana pambali, pali zina zolimbitsa thupi zomwe maanja angasangalale limodzi. Kuvina maphunziro, masewera a karati, yoga, kapena kungothamanga kumawongolera thanzi lanu ndikukhala bwino. Kuchita izi ndi mnzanu kumathandizanso kuti banja lanu likhale labwino. Ndi mbalame ziwiri zenizeni ndi mwala umodzi.
Sungani malonjezo anu
Malonjezo amayenera kusungidwa, popanda zifukwa.
Pitani kutchuthi
Tengani masiku osachepera kamodzi pachaka limodzi komanso nokha. Tchuthi chamaanja kuti muchepetse nkhawa zatsiku ndi tsiku komanso wina ndi mnzake kuti banja lisasokoneze moyo wanu wonse.
Ganizirani pazinthu zabwino
Palibe amene ali wangwiro, ndizowona.
Anthu amayesa kusintha ndikudzikonza okha, koma nthawi zonse pamakhala china chake chomwe chimatikhudza m'njira yolakwika. Phunzirani kukhala nawo, ndipo kondani munthuyo monga zonse, zolakwa ndi zonse.
Lemekezani mnzanuyo komanso banja lawo
Anthu pawokha siopanda ungwiro, mwachidziwikire, magulu a anthu monga mabanja nawonso alibe. Kaya zifukwa zanu ndi zomveka bwanji, musanyoze anzanu am'banja mwanu.
Nthawi zonse muyankhe foni mnzanu akakuimbirani foni
Pali zinthu zochepa padziko lapansi zomwe zingakulepheretseni kuyankha foni yochokera kwa mnzanu. Kaya zifukwazo zinali zotani, ziyenera kukhala zotheka kuwaimbiranso pasanathe maola ochepa.
Khalani okhulupirika
Njira yachangu kwambiri yowonongera banja lanu ndiyo kuchita chigololo m'maganizo ndi mwakuthupi ndi munthu wina. Musati muchite izo.
Sangalalani ndi ulendowu komanso zovuta zake
Maukwati onse adzakhala ndi zabwino zake. Monga kukwera phiri kapena kulera ana, vuto lililonse lili ndi zachilendo. Ndi gawo la chisangalalo m'moyo.
Khalani okongola
Anthu ambiri okwatirana amasiya kudzisamalira ndi kusamalira mawonekedwe awo ndi thanzi lawo atakwatirana. Kudzivomereza kuti muzipita mwanjira imeneyi sikungakhale koyenera kwenikweni komanso chifukwa cha ubale wanu. Pezani nthawi yosamalira nokha ndi mnzanu.
Zokhumba zenizeni zaukwati kuchokera kwa abwenzi ndi abale zitha kumveka zazing'ono pamalingaliro akulu akuluwo. Komabe, ngati zalembedwa kuchokera pansi pamtima, zitha kufikira maanjawo ndikutenga mawu anu ngati chitsogozo cha banja losangalala.
Pali maupangiri ena kunja uko omwe athandizapo pamaukwati ena. Monga nthawi zonse kumulola mkazi kuti apambane mkangano ndiye chinsinsi cha ukwati wopambana. Ndizothandiza, zothandiza, ndipo mwina zowona mtima. Komabe, amuna ambiri sangakhale osangalala muukwati wotere.
Kwa mabanja ndi maukwati, zabwino zonse sizimachokera nzeru za olemba monga Confucius kapena Shakespeare.
Chomwe chimapangitsa kuti ukwati woyambirira ukhale wabwino kwambiri ndi pomwe ndichowona mtima komanso chothandiza. Sichiyenera kukhala buku wamba kapena sikuyenera kukhala chinthu chachidule monga "Zabwino zonse m'banja lanu." Mabanja okhwima sangakhumudwe ngakhale zitakhala zazifupi komanso zosaganizira ena, komabe mwaphonya mwayi wanu wokhawo wolangiza banjali. Ndani akudziwa, ngati zomwe mudalemba ndizokwanira kukhala Desiderata wotsatira.