Zamkati
- 1. Kusadzidalira
- 2. Kuwonetsedwa mwachangu pazithunzi zogonana
- 3. Khalidwe / zizolowezi zosokoneza bongo
- 4. Zovuta kukhazikitsa kukondana kwamaganizidwe
Mukamakambirana pamutu wamankhwala osokoneza bongo, anthu ambiri amalingalira zomwe amadziwa pakumwa mankhwala osokoneza bongo kapena mowa. Komabe, kuledzera kumatha kubwera mwa mawonekedwe osiyanasiyana. Kuledzera, monga nthawi, kumatanthauzidwa ngati kukakamizidwa kuchita nawo chinthu, munthu, kapena chochita. Amadziwika kuti mkhalidwe wosokoneza womwe umalepheretsa munthu kuti azichita zinthu ndi dziko lomwe lamuzungulira. Zitha kukhala zowononga maubwenzi komanso maubwenzi chifukwa zimatha kusokoneza kuthekera kwa munthu kupezeka komanso kulumikizana ndi ena.
1. Kusadzidalira
Anthu ambiri omwe ali ndi vuto lokonda zachiwerewere kapena zithunzi samadzidalira. Kuperewera kwa kudzidalira kwanu sikungakhale kokhazikika chifukwa chokana ana, kuzunzidwa, kapena kunyalanyazidwa. Anthu ena amakulira m'mabanja abwinobwino koma sangathe kuwonetsa matupi awo ndi malingaliro awo. Kusadzidalira kumeneku kumatha kupangitsa munthu kukhala pachiwopsezo cha zizolowezi zosokoneza bongo. Makamaka, iwo omwe samadzidalira amakhala ndi mawonekedwe olakwika; izi zitha kuwatsogolera ku njira yakugonana ngati kukhutitsidwa kwakuthupi kukufunidwa kuti ndikwaniritse zosowa zawo. Zina mwaziwopsezo zimaphatikizira, koma sizimangokhala, kudya kosasokonekera, kuwonetseredwa ndi mayanjano osayenera, ndi zizolowezi zina zosokoneza bongo.
2. Kuwonetsedwa mwachangu pazithunzi zogonana
Ngakhale izi zingawoneke kuti ndizoopsa kwambiri kapena zomwe zimayambitsa chizolowezi chogonana, sizofala kwambiri. Komabe, kuwonetsedwa koyambirira, makamaka ali mwana, ku zithunzi zogonana kapena zikhalidwe zakugonana kumawonjezera chiopsezo chamakhalidwe osokoneza bongo kwambiri. Izi zitha kuphatikizira kudziwonetsera motere kwa kholo kapena m'bale, zolaula, nkhanza zakugonana, machitidwe achiwerewere opitilira makolo kapena abale, komanso kuwonetsa zomwe zili ndi achikulire asanakwanitse msinkhu woyenera. Kuwonekera koyambirira sikukutanthauza kuti wina adzayamba chizolowezi chogonana kapena zithunzi atakula; zimangowonjezera chiopsezo. Kuwonetsedwa kotereku, ngakhale sikubweretsa zizolowezi zosokoneza bongo, kumatha kukhala kovulaza ndipo nthawi zina kumavutitsa mwana.
3. Khalidwe / zizolowezi zosokoneza bongo
Ngakhale zizolowezi zosokoneza bongo kapena zovuta zimatha kubwera kuchokera "mwadzidzidzi," anthu ambiri omwe ali ndi vuto logonana amakonda kutengera izi. Izi sizingakhale chifukwa chowonongera zolakwa zilizonse. Komabe, imayesetsa kupereka kufotokozera kwina kwa iwo omwe amadzimva kuti alibe mphamvu chifukwa chakuledzera. Makhalidwe osokoneza bongo amapezeka mwa anthu omwe amabatizidwa kwathunthu ndikuchita chidwi; nthawi zambiri chibwenzi chimenechi chimakhala chosakhalitsa ndipo chimasowa mwachangu momwe chimayambira. Izi sizitanthauza kuti munthu amene ali ndi chizolowezi chongodumphadumpha kusiya chizolowezi china amakhala pachiwopsezo cha kuledzera. Koma machitidwe amtunduwu akuwonetsa umunthu wakuya womwe ungawonjezere chiopsezo chakuledzera. Anthu omwe ali ndi vuto logonana nthawi zambiri amakhala osangalala asanaganizire zowopsa zomwe zingachitike.
4. Zovuta kukhazikitsa kukondana kwamaganizidwe
Ambiri omwe amatenga nawo mbali pazikhalidwe zosokoneza bongo amalephera kukhazikitsa ndikusunga chibwenzi. Ngakhale zinthu zambiri zimatha chifukwa chakulephera kumeneku, monga moyo wabanja, kuwonera zachiwerewere, komanso nkhanza za kugonana, munthu amatha kukhala waluso kwambiri pakukhala ndi chidwi chakuchita izi. Ndikofunikira ngati izi zadziwika msanga kuti munthuyo aphunzitsidwe momwe angalumikizire moyenera ndi ena. Kukhazikitsa njira yakukondana m'maganizo kumatha kukhala ndi zotsatirapo zabwino pazomwe zatchulidwazi pakuwonjezera kudzidalira, kupanga kuthekera kozindikira mikhalidwe yoyipa, ndikumvetsetsa maubwenzi oyenera posatengera kuwonekera koyambirira. Werengani zambiri:-
M'malo mwake, palibe mayankho okwanira pazifukwa zomwe munthu angasankhe kuchita zachiwerewere. Monga momwe zimakhalira ndi zizolowezi zina, nthawi zina munthuyo amakhala wopanda mphamvu. Kukwaniritsa chilakolako chathupi kumakhala ntchito yofunika kwambiri kukwaniritsa ndi kulepheretsa munthu kuti azichita zonse zomwe angathe ndi abwenzi, abale, ogwira nawo ntchito, ndi zina. Pali chiyembekezo, komabe, kwa iwo omwe amapezeka kuti ali ndi vuto losokoneza bongo - monganso kumwerekera ndi mankhwala osokoneza bongo kapena mowa, pali chithandizo chopezeka kwa iwo omwe akufuna kuchipeza. Pakadali pano, zilibe kanthu kuti ndichifukwa chiyani munthu wina wasiya, koma tsopano ndi momwe munthu angakhalire ndi thanzi ndikupita patsogolo.