Zamkati
Ino ndi nthawi yachilendo paubwenzi ndi chibwenzi. Ndikulumikizana pamasom'pamaso, amuna ndi akazi ambiri osakwatiwa akukumana ndi zovuta kuti apeze masewera oyenerera.
Vuto la Coronavirus latikakamiza kufunafuna njira zina zopezera chibwenzi.
Popeza malo azisangalalo akuyembekezeka kutsekedwa kwamasabata kapena miyezi yambiri, anthu tsopano akulimbana ndi ukadaulo wokhudzana ndi zibwenzi - Kodi mungatani ngati simungakwanitse kupita kokacheza ku bar kapena malo odyera?
Kodi mumakumana kuti ngati makanema siosankha, ndipo ziwonetsero zonse zathetsedwa?
Ngakhale kuyendera wolosera pa tsiku lanu loyamba kuti muwone ngati pali chifukwa chachiwiri sichingakhale chosankha (inde, anthu amachita).
Dziko latsopano la zibwenzi pa intaneti
Pomwe pali chifuniro, pali njira. M'masabata apitawa, dziko lokondana lasintha mwachangu kuti likwaniritse chowonadi chatsopanochi.
Inde, chikondi panthawi yotseka chapeza njira yotulukira!
Kugwiritsa ntchito pafupifupi mapulogalamu azibwenzi ikukula, anthu akukangalika kwambiri pazanema, ndipo masiku enieni akukhala chinthu.
Inde, anthu ambiri akhala akuchita zibwenzi ngati njira ina kuposa masiku achikale “akale”.
Ngakhale zitha kuwoneka ngati zokondera, kukhala pachibwenzi nthawi yamavuto a Coronavirus kuli ndi maubwino, zomwe zimapangitsa kukhala njira yabwino kwambiri kwa ambiri.
Otsatirawa amapatsidwa zina mwamaubwino abwenzi.
1. Kukondana kwambiri
Chibwenzi chenicheni chitha kubweretsa chibwenzi chambiri. Ngakhale kuti anthu ambiri amaligwirizanitsa ndi kukhudzana ndi thupi, kukondana sikuphatikizapo zochitika zogonana kapena kukhudzana kuti zikule.
Madeti achikale amadzaza ndi zosokoneza - chakudya, malo, nyimbo, mowa, ndi anzanu omwe mungakumane nawo.
Zinthu zoterezi zitha kupangitsa kuti tsiku likhale losangalatsa, koma nthawi zambiri, anthu amawagwiritsa ntchito ngati njira yopewera zovuta zomwe nthawi zina zimachitika anthu awiri osawonana akakumana koyamba.
Mu chibwenzi chenicheni, kulumikizana ndichinthu chachikulu. Cholinga chake ndikudziwana.
Zikatero, kukondana kwamalingaliro kumatha kukula. Zimakupatsani mwayi wodziwana wina ndi mnzake pamlingo wakuya - zokonda, zinthu zomwe mumakonda, mantha, zokumana nazo, ndi zina zambiri.
2. Kupanikizika kocheperako komanso kuyenda kwambiri
Chibwenzi chachilendo sichikhala chowongoka nthawi zonse. Mavuto omwe adakumana nawo, makamaka patsiku loyamba, amatha kukhala ovuta.
Tipita kuti? Kanema ndi wabwino, koma simungathe kulankhulana. Malo odyera ndi achikondi, koma bwanji ngati china chake chikugwera mano anu?
Malo omwera mowa ndi osangalatsa, koma mungapeze kuti bala yamtendere yokwanira, yopanda kanthu, komanso yotanganidwa mokwanira kuti mukhale ndi tsiku loyenera? Amabwera kudzakutenga, kapena mumakumana kumeneko?
Kodi ayenera kukakamira kulipira, kapena kodi muyenera kupereka nawo? Ndipo vuto lalikulu kwambiri la iwo onse - nanga bwanji kupsompsona kumapeto kwa tsikulo?
Pazibwenzi zenizeni, zovuta izi kulibe. Palibe chifukwa chonyamulira aliyense kunyumba kwawo. Palibe chifukwa chodzipereka kuti mugawane biluyi.
Palibe chifukwa choyesera kutsamira ndikupsompsonani kenako kuti mupeze kuti simukuwerenga zizindikirazo moyenera. Simuyenera kuchita kusankha kuti muvale chiyani (osachepera theka la thupi lanu).
Zikafika pokhala pachibwenzi, ndi anthu awiri okha, aliyense amakhala m'malo awo (kunyumba), akuyankhula. Zosavuta komanso zenizeni!
Ndipo, ngakhale mutapeza kuti tsikuli silikuyenda bwino ndipo sizomwe mukuyembekezera, mutha kuthetsa msanga chibwenzi.
Uzani mbali inayo kuti zinali zabwino ndipo sizomwe mukuyang'ana. Ndi zimenezo. Dinani kamodzi!
3. Palibe chifukwa chachiwiri
Lingaliro lonse la "kuwerengera masiku" limakhala lopanda tanthauzo.
Madeti paintaneti amatha kuchitika pafupipafupi kwambiri kuposa masiku achikale, makamaka popeza chibwenzi chenicheni ndichinthu chomwe chimafunikira kuyeserera kochepa poyerekeza ndi chibwenzi chamwambo.
Mutha kuyankhula kwa mphindi zochepa m'mawa ndikuganiza zokhala ndi nkhomaliro "limodzi" m'maola ochepa.
Ndipo ngati pakati pa "deti," mwadzidzidzi muyenera kuchita china (monga kupita kokayenda ndi galu yemwe akukuyang'anirani mwachidwi, ndi maso ake, nkuti - mwina ndi pano, kapena ndimayang'ana mnyumba ), ndiye kuti palibe vuto kutsegula ndi "chibwenzi" pambuyo pake.
4. Chidziwitso chatsopano
Nthawi zambiri ndimakumana ndi amuna ndi akazi osakwatira omwe asiya chibwenzi choyambirira. Amamva ngati sizili zawo.
Mwachitsanzo, izi zitha kuchitika kwa anthu omwe akhumudwitsidwa nthawi zambiri pomwe winayo adalengeza kuti alibe chidwi kapena omwe akuwona kuti sangapambane podziwonetsa okha patsiku.
Zimakhalanso zachizoloŵezi kwa anthu okhwima omwe akufuna kuyamba chibwenzi (chatsopano) ndipo samakhala omasuka (ndipo nthawi zina amanyazi) kuthana ndi zovuta zonse za chibwenzi kachiwiri.
Chibwenzi chenicheni chimapanga chatsopano, chopepuka, komanso chosangalatsa kwa ambiri. Itha kupatsa anthu omwe adasiya chibwenzi mwayi wobwerera.
Malingaliro okhalapo pachibwenzi
Anthu ena amaganiza kuti tsiku loyenera liyenera kuwoneka ngati anthu awiri "akufunsana" kudzera pazokambirana pavidiyo. Koma izi sizowona.
Chibwenzi chenicheni chimabweretsa malo ambiri azinthu zaluso. Nazi zitsanzo za momwe mungasungire zinthu.
1. Tsiku lachikondi
Magulu onsewa amavala zovala zausiku (kuyambira pansi mpaka pansi - inde, kuphatikiza nsapato), amabweretsa kapu ya vinyo, amachepetsa nyali, ndikupanga mawonekedwe osangalatsa.
2. Kuwonera chiwonetsero
Mumasankha chiwonetsero (china pa TV kapena kanema), ndipo mumachiwonera nthawi yomweyo pomwe kucheza pagulu kuli kotseguka.
Izi zikupatsani mwayi wogawana zomwe mwakumana nazo (kuseka limodzi, mantha limodzi - kutengera chilichonse chomwe mukuwonera), ndikukambirana chilichonse chomwe chikubwera m'mutu mwanu.
3. Ulendo wakunyumba
Mukakhala omasuka mokwanira, mutha kupita ndi mnzanuyo kunyumba kwanu. Khalani ndi nthawi m'chipinda chilichonse.
Onetsani mawanga omwe mumawakonda mnyumbamo, lankhulani zinthu zoseketsa zomwe zidachitika m'malo osiyanasiyana, ndikuwonetsani zinthu zomwe mumazikonda mnyumbamo, monga makapu am'mawa omwe mumakonda.
4. Kugawana zokumbukira ndi mphindi
Sankhani zithunzi zosangalatsa kapena zoseketsa (kuchokera pafoni yanu kapena muma media) ndikugawana nawo. Kenako, nenani nkhani kumbuyo kwawo.
5. Kuphika pamodzi!
Yesetsani kukonzekera chakudya chamadzulo pamodzi. Nonse muyenera kupanga mbale yomweyo ndikudutsamo limodzi.
Onerani kanemayu kuti muphunzire ndikusangalala ndi chibwenzi.
Chikondi munthawi ya Corona
Ngakhale ma coronavirus amatikakamiza kuti tikhale patali, sizitanthauza kuti sitingayandikire.
Munthawi izi, pomwe tifunika kusintha kuzinthu zatsopano, sitiyenera kuopa chibwenzi. Tiyenera kulandira mapindu ake.
Mungadabwe kuwona momwe mungayandikire kwa munthu kudzera pachibwenzi, komanso kulumikizana komwe kungakhale kolimba, osakumana nawo maso ndi maso.
Nthawi zina, kuyandikira patali kumatha kuchititsa kuti anthu azipanga ubale wolimba kwambiri.
Osati zokhazo, koma mavuto akatha, inu ndi mnzanu mudzakhala ndi zokumbukira zabwino zomwe mudakumana nazo kuti musunge ubalewo.
"Mavuto amachititsa kuti anthu azigwirizana ngati mungafotokozere zomwezo." - John Wooden.