Zamkati
- Kodi chikondi chopanda chiyembekezo ndi chiyani?
- Amakhala ndi chiyembekezo
- Kanema wawo wosankha? Kukondana kwachisangalalo
- Maluwa si a tsiku la Valentine lokha
- Iwo ndi mpira wamaganizidwe a bowa
- Amawona kukongola muzonse
- Zomwe amakonda kwambiri ndi wokondedwa wawo
- Tsiku loyamba? Iwo ali okondwa pamwamba
- Ngakhale chikondi sichitha, amakhalabe ndi chiyembekezo
- Amagwiritsa ntchito mphamvu kuti ubale wawo ukhale wathanzi
Kodi mudamvapo mawu oti "kukondana kopanda chiyembekezo?"
Mwina wina wanena kuti ndinu amodzi. Mwinamwake mwaganiza kuti mnzanuyo atha kulowa m'gululi. Mwina simukudziwa kwenikweni tanthauzo lachikondi chopanda chiyembekezo.
Kodi chikondi chopanda chiyembekezo ndi chiyani?
Nayi njira yoyesera kutanthauzira kwachikondi kopanda chiyembekezo ndipo tanthauzo lachikondi chopanda chiyembekezo limatanthauzanji.
Wina yemwe amadziwika kuti ndi "wachikondi wopanda chiyembekezo" nthawi zambiri amakhala munthu wamtima wamtima. Chodabwitsa ndichakuti, pafupifupi 13% ya anthu m'dziko lalikulu atha kugawidwa ngati okonda chiyembekezo opanda chiyembekezo.
Nthawi zonse amawona zabwino pakati pa anthu, makamaka okondedwa awo, kapena omwe akuyembekeza kukondana nawo.
Kufotokozera zachikondi chopanda chiyembekezo mochulukira,
- Amakonda kukweza anzawo omwe akuyembekezera kukwera nawo pamwamba
- Iwo sawona zolakwa zawo zilizonse
- Amadzaza mipata kapena nkhani yawo, ndikulingalira zikhalidwe ndi zochita zabwino
Chifukwa cha izi, okonda zachikondi opanda chiyembekezo amapwetekedwa kuposa anthu wamba, osamala kwambiri omwe samangolowa m'mabanja.
Zina mwazinthu zina zopanda chiyembekezo zomwe zimawatanthauzira:
Amakhala ndi chiyembekezo
Mwambiri, kodi kumatanthauza chiyani kukhala wachikondi wopanda chiyembekezo? Okonda zachikondi opanda chiyembekezo ali ndi chiyembekezo m'mbali zonse za miyoyo yawo, osati zokhudzana ndi chikondi chokha.
Uwu ndi mkhalidwe wokondeka komanso wosangalatsa kukhala nawo.
Amawona chilichonse kuli dzuwa ndipo nthawi zambiri samayang'ana pafupi nawo.
Nkhani ina yantchito / nyumba / chikondi "ili pafupi" kotero nthawi zambiri amakhala osangalala, chiyembekezo.
Kanema wawo wosankha? Kukondana kwachisangalalo
Okonda zachikondi opanda chiyembekezo amakonda nkhani yachikondi yabwino pazenera ndipo amavomereza zachikondi chopanda chiyembekezo kwa aliyense ndi aliyense wowazungulira.
Ndiwogwiritsa ntchito makanema odziwika bwino a Hallmark. Amakonda kwambiri? Chilichonse cholembedwa ndi Nicholas Sparks, kapena makanema onga "Chikondi, Kwenikweni", "Tchuthi", kapena "Tsiku la Valentine."
Ali ndi wapadera, malo ofewa okondana opanda chiyembekezo, omwe amakhulupirira malingaliro a "The One", "Soulmate", ndi "Chikondi Chamuyaya"
Pokhala achikondi opanda chiyembekezo, amawayang'ana mobwerezabwereza ndipo amatha kubwereza zokambiranazo pamtima. Ndizosangalatsa mpaka zimakhala zokhumudwitsa kwa okonda anzawo opanda chiyembekezo omwe awazungulira!
Komanso, onerani kanemayu pazinthu 5 zomwe achikondi opanda chiyembekezo amafunika kumva:
Maluwa si a tsiku la Valentine lokha
Achikondi osowa chiyembekezo awona munthu wobweretsa maluwa akubwera muofesi ndi maluwa akulu ofiira ndipo mtima wawo umathamanga.
Chimodzi mwazizindikiro kuti ndinu wachikondi wopanda chiyembekezo ndi pe wanuchosangalatsa maluwa. Ngati mumalakalaka maluwa, ndipo zinthu zonse zamaluwa, ndiye kuti muli ndi zina mwazomwe zimakhala zachikondi chopanda chiyembekezo.
Si tsiku lawo lobadwa kapena nthawi ina iliyonse yapadera, komabe amakhala ndi chiyembekezo kuti makonzedwe ochititsa chidwi a maluwa ataliatali ndi awo.
Kulekeranji?
Izi ndichifukwa chake chibwenzi ndi mnyamata wachikondi wopanda chiyembekezo chimatanthauza kuti simudzatha nthawi pomwe amawonetsa manja pang'ono ngati kukupatsani maluwa okongola, okongola kuti angomwetulira pankhope panu.
Iwo ndi mpira wamaganizidwe a bowa
Amakumana ndi ngozi yaying'ono panjinga ndikupepesa njinga yawo, ndikuyipukuta ndikuwasamalira kwambiri akamayendetsa pagalimoto kupita kokakonzako.
Amadzipangira kukhala agalu otopetsa, nthawi zonse amakhala ndi nkhawa ngati galu akupeza chikondi chokwanira ndipo amakhala osungulumwa akapita kuntchito? (Amatha kuyika kamera yama pet kuti angowona za Fido wawo.)
Mnzake wapamtima akamadandaula za zoyipa zonse zomwe chibwenzi chake chimamuchitira (kumuyimirira, kumunyenga, kubwereka ndalama zomwe sabweza), m'malo momuuza kuti amutaye, zachikondi chopanda chiyembekezo nthawi zonse zimawona zokongoletsa zasiliva ndikukhalabe wotsimikiza kuti tsiku lina, chibwenzi chidzasintha ndipo zinthu zidzawayendera.
- Amakonda kuyang'ana pazithunzi zaukwati, ngakhale ma Albamu a anthu omwe samadziwa.
- Amang'ambanso pa vidiyo.
- Kubereka kumeneku kumawonetsedwa pa TV, sangathe kuwayang'ana osalira.
Pamene okwatirana ena omwe sawadziwa amayamba kucheza pagulu, ngati malo odyera, amakhala osangalala ndi mwezi ndipo amawapeza osachita izi.
- Amakana kuwerenga zolemba zakomwe kukhala ndi mkazi mmodzi kwatha
- Onerani makanema apa TV omwe amalemekeza zabwino za polyamory
- Pewani kukhulupirira kuti ndi chikhalidwe "chachilengedwe" cha anthu kukonda anthu angapo nthawi imodzi.
Kwa okonda zachikondi opanda chiyembekezo, kukhala ndi mkazi m'modzi ndiye chitsanzo chokhacho chachikondi choyenera kutsatira.
Iwo analira pamene Channing Tatum adalengeza kuti ukwati wake watha.
Pofika tsiku lachiwiri, amakhala akuganizira kale ma trousseau awo achikwati ndi mitundu iti ya mapilo omwe ayenera kuyitanitsa.
Amawona kukongola muzonse
Chifukwa zonse zimalumikizidwa ndi iwo.
Mutha kuganiza kuti ndi udzu womera chifukwa cha mseu wapanjira; kwa achikondi opanda chiyembekezo ndi maluwa osakhalitsa.
Kukondana kopanda chiyembekezo kumakhalabe ndi chiyembekezo kuti, ngakhale munthuyo atakhala ndi mayanjano oyipa asanu ndi limodzi kumbuyo kwawo, wachisanu ndi chiwiri ndiye "ameneyo."
Zomwe amakonda kwambiri ndi wokondedwa wawo
Kuponyera pakati paulendo wautali, kapena kusamba kofanana.
Nthawi yonseyi pomwe amalankhula zakukhosi kwawo. Iwo amaganiza kuti chikondi ndi gawo lamtsogolo ndi tsogolo, osati mochokera pakufunafuna kapena cholinga. "Zimangochitika," amatha kunena.
Amakhulupirira mwamphamvu chikondi nthawi yoyamba.
Amakhulupirira kuti pali wokondedwa ndi aliyense kunja uko, munthu yemwe ndi tsogolo lawo kuyambira atabadwa.
Ali pachibwenzi, samangokondwerera tsiku lawo lokumbukira chaka ndi chaka komanso mwezi wawo uliwonse. Ndipo ali ndi nyimbo yapadera.
Tsiku loyamba? Iwo ali okondwa pamwamba
Adzawononga nthawi yayitali kuganizira za zovala zawo, kapangidwe kake, mafuta onunkhira awo ndikumayeserera zomwe anganene ndikukambirana.
Ali ndi chidwi chosangalatsa chomwe chimapangitsa anzawo kumwetulira.
Ngakhale chikondi sichitha, amakhalabe ndi chiyembekezo
Chosangalatsa ndichakuti amakondana opanda chiyembekezo ndikuti ali sanasokonezedwe ndi kulephera kwa ubale. "Ndili pafupi kuti ndipeze theka langa labwino" adzatero atatha.
Amagwiritsa ntchito mphamvu kuti ubale wawo ukhale wathanzi
Chifukwa chakuti chiyembekezo chopanda chiyembekezo chimakhala ndi ziyembekezo zenizeni pazomwe amafunikira muubwenzi, samakhala pachiyanjano choyipa.
Ndipo akapeza machesi oyenera, amaonetsetsa kuti zinthu ndizosangalatsa komanso zotentha.
Iwo ali okonzeka kuyesetsa kuti apange ubale wabwino womwe ungakhalebe wabwino pakapita nthawi.