Zamkati
- 1. Musamagone mokwiya
- 2. Musayese kusintha mnzanu
- 3. Banja limapangidwa ndi anthu awiri. Osatinso, osachepera
- 4. Sungani moto
- 5. Pitirizani kukhala pachibwenzi
- 6. Phunzirani zina zatsopano
Kukwatirana ndi mwamuna kapena mkazi wamaloto anu kumamveka ngati chisankho chabwino kwambiri chomwe mudapanga, mpaka ndalama zitayamba kupenga ndipo zowona kuti kulera ana sikophweka monga mumaganizira kuti imayamba kulowa. Zinthu zikafika povuta pang'ono kwa ena masiku, mutha kuganiza kuti ichi ndiye chisankho choyipitsitsa chomwe mudapanga. Koma osalakwitsa kulongedza matumba anu ndikusiya zonse kumbuyo. Khazikani mtima pansi. Banja lirilonse limakumana ndi mavuto omwe mungaganize kuti inu ndi mnzanu ndi omwe mukukumana nawo.
Chifukwa cha chikondi, tili ndi mndandanda wamalangizo okwatirana okuthandizani kuti mukhale osangalala muukwati.
1. Musamagone mokwiya
Mwinamwake mudamvapo izi kale ndipo ndichifukwa chakuti awa ndi malangizo abanja abwino, makamaka kwa iwo omwe akuyamba kumene ndi mabanja awo. Mukakhala ndi chizolowezi cholankhula momasuka za nkhani zanu ndikuwathana nazo m'malo mosiya izi, ubale wabwino umatsatira. Osagona, dzuka tsiku lotsatira ndikuyamba kunamizira kuti mwamuna kapena mkazi wako kulibe. Ndi mnzanu wa moyo wanu wonse, osati wokhala naye ku koleji.
2. Musayese kusintha mnzanu
Musanaganize zodzakwatirana ndi kukwatiwa, ndili ndi chitsimikizo kuti mukudziwa zambiri za makhalidwe a mnzanuyo, kapena si onse. Chifukwa chake satseka chitseko cha chipinda chachitonthozo akamasaka. Samatsuka tsitsi lake ndikutuluka thukuta kwamasiku angapo akakhala PMS-ing. Mumadziwa izi zonse, mwavomera ndikukonda mnzanu momwe alili. Ndiye bwanji osintha? Pokhapokha atakhala chidakwa komanso mnzake womuzunza, palibe chifukwa chotsatirira zizolowezi zake zina zokhumudwitsa.
3. Banja limapangidwa ndi anthu awiri. Osatinso, osachepera
Sindikulankhula za munthu wina. Izi sizokhudza kusakhulupirika. Yakwana nthawi yoti mukambirane za anthu monga apongozi, abwenzi ake apamtima, ndi abale anu. Kalelo muli pachibwenzi, anthu awa anali gawo la ubale wanu. Amakonda kukupatsani upangiri kwa inu kapena wokondedwa wanu momwe mungachitirane wina ndi mnzake. Koma zinthu zasintha tsopano. Pali zovuta zina zomwe ziyenera kutsalira pakati pa inu nonse. Kupangitsa anthu ena kutenga nawo mbali m'zochitika zanu ndizowopsa. Ali ndi chizolowezi chosankhana, kupereka ziganizo zowakondera, ndipo m'malo mothetsa vutolo, atha kukulitsa.
4. Sungani moto
Miyezi kapena zaka muukwati, makamaka nthawi yokondwerera ukwati itatha, mutha kuyamba kuda nkhawa. Masiku ena mumadzimva kuti ndinu okhumudwa ndikuyamba kuganiza kuti sakukuganiziraninso. Mwina adasiya kuyesayesa kukuwonerani bwino kapena kukupangitsani kumva kuti mukunyalanyazidwa, ngati kuti alibe chidwi ndi moyo wanu. Masiku enanso, mudzakhala achisoni chifukwa cha zosinthazi ndipo mumatha kulira chifukwa sakakupatsaninso maluwa kapena kusiya kukulemberani zolemba zazing'ono mwezi uliwonse pa 12 pamwezi. Mukudziwa zomwe ndikadachita? Kuthana naye! Muuzeni kuti mukufuna kupita kokacheza. Muuzeni kuti mukufuna kuwona mlangizi. Ingomufunsani vuto. Osangolola kuti moto uziyakabe. Ngati mukumva ngati zinthu zikulowera kumwera, chitani zomwezo musanachedwe kuyesa.
5. Pitirizani kukhala pachibwenzi
Osati anthu ena, chabwino? Imeneyo ndi no-no yayikulu. Zomwe ndikutanthauza ndikuti, pitirizani kukhala pachibwenzi ndi mnzanu. Ukwati uyenera kukhala kupitiriza kwa chibwenzi. Mutulutseni. Yesani malo odyera atsopano. Pitani kumalo atsopano. Pezani zosangalatsa zatsopano limodzi. Wokondedwa wanu tsopano ndi mnzanu wapamtima. Chifukwa chake pitani mukasangalale nthawi ndi nthawi.
6. Phunzirani zina zatsopano
Inde. Kugonana kumatha kukhala bwino. Yambitsani masewera anu! Dziwani zamatsenga a kamasutra. Heck, onerani zolaula ndikuphunzira zina! Osamangokhala pamalo amodzi amishonale usiku uliwonse. Simukufuna kugwedeza mwana wanu kuti agone pakati pa ma coitus! Kugonana ndikofunikira m'banja ndipo sindikanatha kutsimikiza izi. Pezani nthawi yoti mukhale ndi "nthawi yosangalatsa" ndipo mukatero, mupatseni magwiridwe antchito abwino pamoyo wanu.
Ukwati si wa aliyense. Lucky ndi omwe adapeza chikondi ndipo sanatayikenso. Chifukwa chake khalani oleza mtima, omvetsetsa komanso okondana wina ndi mnzake chifukwa kuli anthu omwe amakhala moyo wawo wokha, kumamwa mowa m'mabala, ndikumangobwera kunyumba yodzaza ndi ziweto kuti zithandizire pamoyo wawo. Koma inu awiri mumakondana. Yamikirani izi. Ukwati ndi chisankho chabwino kwambiri chomwe mudapangapo. Osakayikira konse.