Zamkati
- Galu amakonda
- Mumakhala ndi chisangalalo chokhudza munthu amene mumamudziwa
- Kodi mtundu wa Freudian wamtunduwu umakhudzana bwanji ndi munthu amene mumamukonda?
- Ndiye zikutanthauza chiyani kukhala ndi malingaliro kwa winawake?
- Superego wanu amavomereza
- Chifukwa chake maphunziro a psyche atatha, zimatanthauzanji kukhala ndi malingaliro kwa wina?
Timayamba kukhala ndi ziphuphu kumayambiriro kwa sukulu ya pulayimale, tonse timadziwa kumverera. Kupezeka kwawo kumawalitsa tsiku lathu, timafuna kuwawona nthawi zonse, ndipo timachita nsanje ngati atchera khutu kwa wina.
Timadutsa masiku athu achichepere osasokonezedwanso pamalingaliro awa. Timakhala odzikonda ndipo timafuna kupanga ubale wapamtima ndi munthu ameneyo. Timakhalanso otha msinkhu nthawi yomweyo komanso chidwi chofuna kugonana. Anthu ambiri amasokoneza malingaliro amenewo ndi chilakolako.
Mutha kulingalira zomwe zimachitika, tonse tadutsa kusekondale.
Pamene tikukula, enafe timaganizirabe kuti "agulugufe m'mimba mwathu" za munthu winawake, koma zikutanthauza chiyani?
Galu amakonda
Tonsefe timamva kukopeka ndi winawake. Mnyamata wokongola pa TV, msungwana wokongola mu shopu ya khofi, bwana wotentha komanso wodalirika, komanso woyandikana naye. Zimachitika ngakhale atakhala mlendo kwathunthu yemwe tidamuwona m'basi.
Chifukwa chiyani timamva china chake chachilendo tikakumana ndi anthuwa?
Choyamba, ndizachilengedwe.
Kutengeka kumachitika kwa aliyense. Ndi nkhani yokhudza momwe timachitira ndi izi, ndipo tikamakula, timaphunzira zambiri zazikhalidwe za anthu.
Zikhalidwezi zimatitsogolera momwe tiyenera kuchitira. Koma ndi chisankho chathu ngati tikufuna kutsatira. Ambiri aife timapanga mfundo zathu zomwe timatsata kutengera zomwe tidaphunzira ndi zomwe takumana nazo.
Kutengera ndi mfundo zathu, kukopa kotani? Ndi chikondi kapena chilakolako?
Palibe ayi.
Ndinu ubongo mukungonena kuti munthuyu ngati mtundu wanu. Palibe china, osachepera. Tidakambirana pamutu wazitsogozo zowongolera chifukwa ndi zomwe zikuuzeni zomwe muyenera kuchita motsatira. Anthu ena sachita chilichonse, ena amangochita izi, pomwe pali anthu ena omwe amachita zosayenera.
Chifukwa chake kukondana ndi mlendo wosafunikira sikofunika. Pokhapokha mutadzipeza nokha kuti mumudziwe bwino munthuyo.
Mumakhala ndi chisangalalo chokhudza munthu amene mumamudziwa
Izi zimadalira pazifukwa zana. Malinga ndi Freud, psyche yathu imagawidwa id, ego, ndi superego.
Id - Id ndi gawo lopupuluma komanso lachilengedwe la psyche yathu. Ndizoyendetsa zazikulu zomwe tili nazo monga chilengedwe. Ndi chinthu m'malingaliro mwathu chomwe chimatipangitsa kufuna kudya, kuberekana, kuwongolera, ndi zinthu zina zomwe zamoyo zimafunikira kuti zikhale ndi moyo.
Ego - Gulu lopangira zisankho.
Superego - Gawo lamaganizidwe athu omwe amatiuza kuti titsatire miyambo ndi chikhalidwe cha anthu.
Kodi mtundu wa Freudian wamtunduwu umakhudzana bwanji ndi munthu amene mumamukonda?
Zosavuta, munthuyo atha kukhala cholembera (Banja Lanu, mlongo wa Chibwenzi Chanu, Mkazi wokwatiwa wosangalala, Umuna kapena mkazi, ndi zina zotero) kapena ndinu odzipereka kwa wina, ndipo zikhalidwe zamakhalidwe abwino zimati simungakhale ndi zibwenzi zingapo.
Kumva kwachisangalalo ndikungonena kwa Id yanu, mukufuna munthuyo, wamkulu wanu angakuuzeni zamakhalidwe onse omwe mungatsatire, ndipo malingaliro anu ndiye chisankho chomwe mudzapange.
Id sikuganiza, ikungofuna. Zina zonse ndi nkhani yosiyana. Mosasamala kanthu momwe mumakondera, izi ndizokhudza zomwe mumachita zomwe zimawonetsera zomwe muli.
Ndiye zikutanthauza chiyani kukhala ndi malingaliro kwa winawake?
Zimatanthauza kuti mukufuna kukhala ndiubwenzi wapamtima ndi munthuyo, kaya mukuyenera, ndi nkhani ina.
Zingatanthauze kuti mwina mungakhale munthu wolemekezeka, wam'kalasi, kapena wina wokhala ndi mwana wosabadwa. Zimatengera zomwe mumasankha pambuyo pake.
Superego wanu amavomereza
Kodi zikutanthauzanji kukhala ndi malingaliro kwa winawake ndipo wamkulu wanu akugwirizana nanu?
Tiyerekeze kuti mulibe feteleza zachilendo zomwe zimapondereza superego yanu. Ndiye zikutanthauza kuti mwapeza wokwatirana naye. Sitinganene kuti ndi chikondi pakadali pano, koma mwakumana ndi munthu amene mungakonde.
Simukonda chilichonse pokhapokha ngati muli okonzeka kukupatsani moyo chifukwa cha icho. Amatha kukhala munthu, mwana, kapena lingaliro.
Kukulitsa ndi kulimbitsa maubwenzi anu ndikofunikira kuti mugwirizane. Pali maanja ambiri padziko lapansi omwe adayamba popanda agulugufe oseketsa, koma adakhala limodzi kwakanthawi.
Chifukwa chake muzilimbitsa ubale wanu ndi munthuyo, atha kukhala mtundu wanu tsopano, koma zinthu zimasintha mukamudziwa winawake. Amatha kukhala bwino kapena amapita patsogolo.
Chifukwa chake maphunziro a psyche atatha, zimatanthauzanji kukhala ndi malingaliro kwa wina?
Sizikutanthauza chilichonse. Mpaka mutachitapo kanthu. Wolemba woyambayo adagwiritsa ntchito agulugufe mwa fanizo chifukwa monga agulugufe, malingaliro amenewo amabwera ndikupita, ndi nthawi yochepa.
Chikondi ndi champhamvu kwambiri, chimatha kulowa mumunthu ndikudziwika kuyendetsa anthu kuchita zopenga.
Ngati mupitiliza kukumana ndi munthuyo ndikumanga maubwenzi anu, ndiye kuti tsiku lina mutha kukondana. Sitinganene kuti munthuyo adzakukondaninso, chifukwa ma psyche anu onse akugwirira ntchito limodzi kuti muchite zomwe mungathe, sizitanthauza kuti gulu linalo lidzakubwezerani zoyesayesa zanu.
Malingana ngati sakunyozani ndikupewa, muli ndi mwayi.
Ndiye zikutanthauza chiyani kukhala ndi malingaliro kwa wina? Kodi zikutanthauza kuti ndiyopanda phindu mpaka nditachitapo kanthu? Inde.
Zomwe mukuganiza ndikumva, ndi zanu zokha.
Zomwe mumanena kapena kuchita ndikuti dziko liziweruza. Pokhapokha mukalankhula kapena kuchita zinthu zomwe zimafotokoza malingaliro anu ndi momwe mumamvera, ndipamene zimadzakhala ndi tanthauzo.
Zilibe kanthu kuti mukumva kukwiya, kupsa mtima, mkwiyo, chidani, chikondi, chikondi, kukhumba, kukonda, kupembedza, kapena chilakolako.
Mpaka zitayikidwa muzochita zanu. Zonse ndi malingaliro anu achinsinsi. Samalani, chifukwa zolinga zanu ndi zabwino (kwa inu). Izi sizitanthauza kuti anthu ena adzayankha.
Koma osachita chilichonse kungatsimikizire kuti malingaliro anu sadzabweretsa chilichonse. Chifukwa chake lankhulani ndi id yanu ndi superego. Kenako sankhani bwino.