Zamkati
- Maubwenzi oopsa nthawi zambiri samayamba choncho
- Kuyambira chabwino mpaka poizoni - izi zimachitika bwanji?
- Ubale woopsa: tanthauzo
- Kodi mungasinthe chibwenzi choopsa?
- Ngati ubale wanu uli ndi poizoni mumamva kuwawa, nthawi zonse
- Simumadzilankhulira nokha chifukwa mumadziwa kuti 'ntchito yake ndi yotani?'
- Wokondedwa wanu sachita khama ndipo amachotsedwa paubwenzi
Timamva mawu oti "poizoni" akuponyedwa mozungulira masiku ano. "Ndinakulira m'banja la poizoni", kapena "Zomwe zimachitika kuntchito ndizowopsa", ndi mitundu ina yamawu omwe timagwiritsa ntchito tikamafuna kunena kuti china chake sichabwino.
Koma tikati chibwenzi ndi choopsa, timatanthauzanji potero? Tiyeni tiwone ngati tingathe kuwononga zomwe zimapangitsa ubale kukhala wowopsa.
Maubwenzi oopsa nthawi zambiri samayamba choncho
Maubwenzi ena ali ndi poizoni kuyambira pachiyambi.
Wagwera mwamuna wokwatira. Kapena mumazindikira nthawi yomweyo kuti mnzanu ali ndi vuto logwiritsa ntchito mankhwala osokoneza bongo. Kapena ndi wankhanza. Mitundu yamtunduwu ndi yowopsa kuyambira pomwepo, ndipo ndikofunikira kupenda zomwe zili mwa inu zomwe zimakukopani kuzinthu zosafunikira ngati izi.
Pakadali pano, tiyeni tiwone momwe chibwenzi chimakhalira bwino ndikukhala moyenera mpaka kukhala chopanda thanzi komanso chopanda malire pakapita nthawi.
Kuyambira chabwino mpaka poizoni - izi zimachitika bwanji?
Ubale ukukula, zinthu zamoyo. Monga chomera. Ndipo monga chomera, ubale umafunika kusamalidwa ndi kusamalidwa. Ndi mbali zonse.
Nthawi zina, pamene ubale umasinthika, zinthu zimasokonekera chifukwa chakusintha kwa m'modzi kapena onse awiri mwawo. Kuyankhulana kumatha, ndipo mkwiyo, mkwiyo, nsanje, ndi kukhumudwa zonse zitha kufotokozedwa, ndikupangitsa kuti pakhale kumverera koopsa pachibwenzi.
Ngati banjali silikulankhulana pazinthu zofunika, zomwe zimakhudza mgwirizano womwe umalumikizana ndi anthu awiriwa, kawopsedwe amapezeka.
Chitsanzo: Mukumva kuti mnzanu sakuganizirani. Amakutengani mopepuka, osanena kuti zikomo chifukwa cha kuchuluka kwa zinthu zabwino zomwe mumamuchitira tsiku ndi tsiku: chimanga chomwe amakonda kwambiri mumamugulira chakudya cham'mawa, kumukonzera chakudya chabwino akamabwera kuchokera kuntchito, kuwonetsetsa kuti malaya ake ndi anatola kuchokera koyeretsa.
Sanakuuzeni zakomwe amakukondani zaka zambiri. Koma m'malo mokhala pansi ndi kuyamba kukambirana mwaulemu za izi, mumayamba kukopana ndi mnyamata wokongola kuntchito yemwe wakhala akubwera kwa inu kwa miyezi ingapo yapitayi.
Mumayamba kulandira mayitanidwe ake a khofi, kapena zakumwa mukamaliza ntchito. Mumasangalala kumva mayamiko ake (china chake mnzanu wasiya kuchita, kapena zikuwoneka choncho). Mumayamba kukwiyitsa wokondedwa wanu ndikuyamba kupanga zopanda pake kwa iye.
Chibwenzi chimayamba kuchepa pang'onopang'ono, ndikumakwiya nthawi iliyonse mukakhala ndi mnzanu. Mukuwona kuti nanunso mukukhala ofatsa ndi aliyense wokuzungulirani.
Ubale woopsa: tanthauzo
Ngati ubale wanu ukuwononga kudzidalira kwanu, chisangalalo chanu komanso momwe mumadzionera nokha komanso ubale wanu, osati wanu woyamba, koma omwe ali ndi abale anu komanso anzanu, atha kukhala owopsa.
Kodi mungasinthe chibwenzi choopsa?
Ngati mukuwona kuti mwakhazikitsa ndalama zambiri pachibwenzi ndipo mukufuna kuyesa kukonza, ndikofunikira kulumikizana ndi mnzanu ndikugawana malingaliro anu pazomwe zachitika.
Nthawi zina mpweya wa poizoni umatha kutsukidwa ndikugawana bwino, aliyense wa inu kupereka mawu kuzomwe zikukusowetsani mtendere. Kungakhalenso kothandiza kuchita izi ndi katswiri wa maukwati kapena othandizira maanja, wina yemwe ali ndi luso lotsogolera inu pazokambiranazi.
Kodi ubalewu ndiwofunika kuwukonza?
Ili ndi funso la miliyoni dollars. Zomwe zili pachiwopsezo mukakhala pachibwenzi choopsa?
Ngati ubale wanu uli ndi poizoni mumamva kuwawa, nthawi zonse
Osati kwa mnzanu yekha, komanso kudziko lonse lapansi. Ubale wopanda thanzi umakongoletsa chilichonse m'moyo wanu. Mutha kukhala okhumudwa, kudzuka m'mawa wopanda mphamvu zanu zamphamvu komanso nyonga.
Mukuwona maanja ena atagwirana manja m'sitolo, kapena akuyenda mumsewu, ndikukumbutsidwa kuti inu ndi mnzanu simulakalaka kulumikizidwa mwanjira imeneyi. Musasamale za mbola yomwe mumamva mukamawona maanja akupsompsonana mwapoyera pagulu.
Momwe mumalumikizirana ndi mnzanu zimachepetsa chidaliro chanu, chisangalalo chanu, komanso kudzidalira kwanu. Amakupangitsani kumva kuti mulibe phindu.
Simumadzilankhulira nokha chifukwa mumadziwa kuti 'ntchito yake ndi yotani?'
Mukuwona kuti zinthu sizidzasintha. Mu ubale wabwino, tili ndi ufulu wofotokozera zosowa zathu popanda kuwopa kuweruzidwa, kunyozedwa kapena kunyalanyazidwa.
M'malo mwake, umu ndi momwe ubale wabwino umagwirira ntchito: kusamvana kumachitidwa asanakhale nkhani zazikulu, ndikukhalanso ndiubwenzi wapamtima. Chibwenzi chikakhala choopsa, mulibe mphamvu zoyesera kukambirana za mikangano iliyonse.
Mukudziwa kuchokera pazomwe mwakumana nazo kuti mwina zipitilira kukhala nkhondo yayikulu, kapena mungakumane ndi mayankho a "njira yanga kapena khwalala" kuchokera kwa mnzanu.
Chifukwa chake mumasunga zonse mkatimo ndipo zimawononga moyo wanu.
Wokondedwa wanu sachita khama ndipo amachotsedwa paubwenzi
Chifukwa choti mumadzitanthauzira nokha ngati banja sizitanthauza kuti uwu ndi ubale.
Ngati mukunyamula zolemetsa zonse osazindikira, ndiye kuti ndi "poizoni." Ngati atenga ndalama zokhazokha kuti mukule monga banja, izi zimawonetsanso "poizoni." Ndizosungulumwa kukhala yekhayo amene akugwira ntchito kuti ukwati ukhalebe. Mwina nthawi yonyamuka.
Mukuganizabe ngati chibwenzi chanu ndi choopsa? Yesani izi, kenako chitanipo kanthu.