Zamkati
- Sayansi ndi kugonana
- Komabe, sizingakhale zophweka chonchi?
- Kutanthauza kugonana kwa amuna
- Chilakolako chamwamuna mwachidule
Chiyambireni nthawi, azimayi amadabwa chomwe chimapangitsa mwamuna kukhumba mkazi pogonana. Ndipo, monga tidzawonetsera, kumvetsetsa wamba kwa chilakolako chamwamuna chogonana sikuli konse kutali ndi zomwe sayansi imavumbula pankhaniyi.
Komabe, pali ma nuances ogonana omwe amalola amuna kuti asatengeredwe omnivores ogonana amtundu wina.
Munkhaniyi, tifufuza zomwe mayesero ndi kafukufuku akuwulula zakufunitsitsa kwamwamuna, kukambirana tanthauzo lenileni la kugonana kwa amuna, ndi zomwe zimapangitsa mwamuna kukhumba mkazi pogonana.
Ndipo pamapeto pake, thetsani mantha amkazi aliyense - choti muchite ngati simukugwirizana ndi miyezo yake.
Sayansi ndi kugonana
Pali kafukufuku wambiri wasayansi pazomwe zimapangitsa kuti amuna azidzuka pogonana. Ichi ndichifukwa chake timadziwa kuti abambo ndi amai amasiyana kwambiri pankhani zakugonana. Ndipo tikudziwanso kuti chikhulupiriro chofala chakuti amuna amasangalala m'maso ndizoyenera ndi zomwe asayansi apeza.
Amuna, poyerekeza ndi akazi, amakhala othandiza kwambiri pankhani yakugonana. Iwo akungofuna kuti afike kwa izo, ndipo ndizo zonse.
Mwanjira ina, amuna amasangalala kwambiri ndi zachiwerewere (makamaka, kumbuyo kwa amayi, mabere, miyendo, kapena chilichonse chomwe anyamata angakhale). Amayi amawona momwe zinthu zogonana zimakhalira zolimbikitsa. Ichi ndichifukwa chake, m'maphunziro ena, azimayi amatha kukhala ndi chidwi ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha.
Amuna omwe adafufuza chimodzimodzi adachita zachiwerewere ndi makanema oterewa omwe amafanana ndi kugonana - kugonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha komanso amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ngati amagonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, komanso kugonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ngati ali ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha.
Zotsatira zofananira zitha kupezeka pakusaka kwa anthu pa intaneti.
Phunziro zomwe zimayang'ana zomwe anthu amachita nazo chidwi pamene akuganiza kuti palibe amene akuwonetsetsa zatsimikizira kuti amuna amafufuza ndikusangalala makamaka zogonana, zithunzi ndi makanema momwe angawonere maliseche komanso ziwalo zogonana.
Amayi amawona mkhalidwe wamavidiyo wosangalatsa kwambiri.
Komabe, sizingakhale zophweka chonchi?
Ngati zotsatirazi zakusiyirani ndikumverera kolowera m'mimba mwanu, muyenera kudziwa kuti sizoyipa kwenikweni. Tiyeni tiwone momwe chilakolako chogonana ndi mkazi chimatengera mbali zina. Kuyamba ndi kutalikirana kwambiri ndi zomwe tidakambirana kale - amuna samakondwera ndi gawo lililonse lachiwerewere. Ali ndi zokonda zawo momwe angawonekere.
Mwanjira ina, simuyenera kuda nkhawa za mayi aliyense yemwe ali ndi mabere, kumbuyo, ndi nyini yomwe imadutsa. Ngakhale amuna ambiri azindikira mkazi wokongola, zomwe amakonda ndizosavuta. Phunziro lomwe talongosola pamwambapa lidawululanso kuti amuna amafufuza zodziwika bwino mu nyenyezi zolaula.
Tsopano mutha kudzifunsa ngati mukukwaniritsa izi. Dziwani kuti mumatero. Kugonana ndichinthu chofunikira kwambiri paubwenzi uliwonse, ndipo popeza amuna anu adakusankhani kuti mukhale akazi awo, simuyenera kukhala onse okhudzidwa ngati amakonda katundu wanu. Adawonetsetsa kuti adatero pomwe akufuna kupanga inu kukhala mnzake wa moyo wake wonse.
Kutanthauza kugonana kwa amuna
Inde, takambirana kwakukulukulu momwe amuna, chilakolako chiri thupi lathupi. Itha kukhala pang'ono kugunda kwa azimayi ena kudziwa izi. Cholemba pambali, azimayi ambiri amapeza kuphatikizika koyambirira uku ndikulimbikitsidwa kukhululukira amuna awo pazinthu zawo. Komabe, tiyeni tiwone china chomwe kugonana kumatanthauza kwa amuna.
Kwa abambo, kugonana kumakhala ngati njala, amakulakalaka.
Izi zati, izi zimakupatsani njira yabwino, yosangalatsa, komanso yosavuta yokwaniritsira zosowa zawo zofunika kwambiri. Kwa abambo, kugonana ndichinthu china chomwe chimawapatsa mphamvu kuti apitirire mtsogolo m'moyo wolimbikitsidwa. Kugonana kumalumikizidwa ndi chidwi chawo, chidwi chawo chofuna kukwaniritsa zolinga zawo.
Kugonana kumapangitsa moyo wamwamuna kukhala wosangalatsa. Nthawi zambiri, kusangalatsa kumakhala kosavuta, komwe kumapangitsa kuyesa kosangalatsa. Moyo wawo ndimtundu wakugonana, wokhala ndi bwenzi loyenera.
Komanso, kugonana ndi momwe amuna amawonetsera chikondi chawo.
Amakondwera kwambiri ndi chisangalalo cha okondedwa awo, ndipo ndi osadzikonda kwambiri akafuna njira zokulitsira chidziwitso cha akazi awo. Pomaliza, kwa abambo, kugonana ndi osankhidwa awo kumapangitsa kudzimva kophatikizika, kulumikizana, ndikukhala kunyumba.
Chilakolako chamwamuna mwachidule
Chifukwa chake, amuna alidi olimbikitsidwa m'maso. Zokopa pakuwona ndizomwe zimapangitsa kuti mwamuna azilakalaka mkazi atagonana. Amakonda ziwalo zogonana zomwe zimaperekedwa mwanjira inayake. Amasangalala ndi njira yachangu komanso yosavuta yogonana. Sakuwona ngati chofunikira kusokoneza chikondi ndi kukondana ndi zogonana. Komabe, ndi bwenzi loyenera, zogonana ndizochulukirapo kuposa izi, ndipo zitha kugwiritsidwa ntchito ngati njira yothetsera mavuto onse am'banja. Imapereka njira yoti amuna asonyeze chikondi chawo kwa inu.