Zamkati
- Muyenera kudikira nthawi yayitali musanagonane?
- Kodi kugonana tsiku loyamba ndi njira yabwino?
- Nthawi yabwino yogonana nditagonana?
Mabanja ambiri atsopano akhoza kudzifunsa funso ili: nthawi yoyenera kuyamba kugonana ndi chibwenzi?
Mwamuna ndi mkazi pamodzi ali paubwenzi wosagonana ndi lingaliro losamvetsetseka, koma nthawi yayitali bwanji kuti nthawi yoyamba kukumana ichitike?
Ngakhale lingakhale funso lovuta, yankho lake ndi losavuta, ndipo kudzera pazomwe tikugawana nanu munkhaniyi, mudzaperekedwa kumapeto kwa dzanja lanu lotsogolera kuthetsa vutoli.
Muyenera kudikira nthawi yayitali musanagonane?
Vutoli likabuka, amuna ambiri sasamala za ilo. Zilibe, komabe, zimakhala ndi tanthauzo lina kwa iwo zikafika munthawi; Mwachitsanzo, ngati kugonana kukuchitika posachedwa (patsiku loyamba), amuna ena amatha kuwawona anzawo ngati opanda pake.
Kwa akazi ena, kugonana posachedwa Zingaoneke ngati lingaliro loyenera, koma ena amakonda kudikirira kwa nthawi yayitali mpaka atapeza nthawi yabwino.
Amayi ambiri amawona kuti "zogonana" ndizofanana ndi "chikondi", ndipo samachepetsa zopinga zawo zachikondi mosavuta.
Ngati ndife osalakwitsa, zowona, palibe mphindi yabwino, chifukwa zonsezi ndi kusankha kwa munthuyo komanso momwe akumvera. Ena atha kukopeka ndi kukhutitsidwa ndi kugonana pomwe ena atha kufunafuna chikondi.
Mulimonse momwe zingakhalire, tiyeni tikambirane zambiri zogonana tsiku loyamba.
Kodi kugonana tsiku loyamba ndi njira yabwino?
Monga tanena kale, muyenera kudikira mpaka liti kuti mugonane ndi nkhani ya kusankha kwa munthu payekha komanso nkhani yake.
Kugonana posachedwa sikulakwa kwenikweni, chifukwa mutha kukumana ndi munthu yemwe mumazindikira naye kuyambira nthawi zoyambilira kuti muli ndi nyese yakuthupi yochitika pakati pa inu nonse.
Ndi liti pamene mukuyenera kugonana kapena ndi liti pamene kuli koyenera kugonana ndi mafunso achiwiri omwe amayankhidwa pambuyo pafunso loyamba: mukuyang'ana chiyani?
Ngati mukufuna zosangalatsa, pitani ndi kutuluka; koma, ngati mukuyang'ana china chake chozama kwambiri ndikumacheza ndi wina, tengani nthawi yanu ndikusewera makadi anu.
Nthawi yabwino yogonana nditagonana?
Muyenera kugonana liti? Anthu ambiri amapita ndi "lamasiku atatu". Kodi izi zikutanthauza chiyani? Chabwino, lamuloli likuti tsiku lachitatu ndi chithumwa chachisangalalo ngati nthawi yabwino nthawi yoyenera kugonana.
Kugonana ndi chibwenzi chako msanga sizitanthauza kuti ndiwe wosavuta kapena wosimidwa. Mutha kumaliza kuchita izi, bwanji osayipeza msanga?
Ngati kukondana kwachedwa kwakanthawi, wokondedwa wanu atha kusiya kukukhudzani, kapena kuyamba kumva kuti mukuganiza kuti ndichifukwa chiyani izi zikuchitika. Kotero, Kudikirira nthawi yayitali musanagonane?
Ndikosavuta kubweretsa zogonana pomanga chibwenzi ndi wina, koma amayi ena amakonda kuzunza anzawo powayesa mayeso ngakhale miyezi itatu kapena inayi!
Izi ndizomveka, mwanjira ina, zokhudzana ndi nthawi yayitali yoti munthu akhale pachibwenzi ndi mkazi, chifukwa ngati mwamuna atha kupirira mayesowo kwakanthawi, amakhala wokondweretsedwa naye, ndipo amamuyamikira pazinthu zina osati kungogonana chikhumbo.
Kugonana ndi munthu amene mumam'konda ndi imodzi mwa mphatso zamtengo wapatali kwambiri zomwe munthu angalandire m'moyo wake, ndipo kugona ndi bwenzi lanu kapena bwenzi lanu mutakhala pachibwenzi kwa nthawi yayitali kungadzionetsere kukhala chinthu chovuta kwambiri.
Ndi nthawi yanji yabwino yogonana komanso kuyembekezera nthawi yayitali musanagonane ndipo, kenako, kuyankha mayankho omwe mungapeze yankho pa nthawi yoyenera?
Miyezi itatu kapena inayi ndiyotenga nthawi yayitali musanagonane ngati mukufunitsitsadi za munthu wina ndipo mukufuna kumuyesa, ndipo kugonana ndi munthu amene mumamukonda, monga kugonana ndi bwenzi lanu kapena bwenzi lanu, ndichinthu chapadera.
Kugonana ndi chida, ndipo aliyense wa ife amatha kugwiritsa ntchito molingana ndi cholinga chake. Izi zimatengera zomwe mukufuna komanso zomwe mukufuna.