Zamkati
- 1. Uphungu umathandizira kulumikizana
- 2. Ikhoza kukuthandizani kuthana ndi zokumana nazo zopweteka
- 3. Uphungu wa maukwati ndiwofunikira pakukhazikitsa zolinga
- 4. Mutha kuphunzira momwe mungakhalire okondana kwambiri ndi mnzanu
- 5. Maanja amafunika kuti "kutentha kwa banja" kutengeke
Mukangoyamba kuchita chibwenzi, mwachiyembekezo kuti musanalowe m'banja, mudasainirana nawo upangiri usanalowe m'banja. Mabanja achichepere atha kusangalala ndi maupangiri okhudzana ndi maukwati ndikumvetsetsa za momwe moyo waukwati uyenera kukhalira, kuchokera kwa wophunzitsa maukwati odziwa zambiri.
M'malo mwake, pali zifukwa zambiri zomwe zimapangitsa kuti anthu omwe ali pachibwenzi azichita izi. Ikhoza kukuthandizani kuti mumvetsetse kukula kwa kudzipereka kumene mukufuna kuchita. Komanso kulangizidwa kwa mabanja kungakupatseni zida zina zomwe muyenera kukonzekera mtsogolo.
Kuphatikiza apo, zitha kuthandizanso inu ndi mnzanu kuti muwunikire nkhani monga kusamalira ndalama, kulera ana, komanso momwe mungasinthire ubale wanu ndi apongozi anu.
Mwachidule, upangiri usanalowe m'banja kapena upangiri wa maanja asanakwatirane ndi njira imodzi yopezera "njira zopewera moyo waukwati" kukhala kosavuta.
Komabe, cholakwitsa chimodzi chomwe maanja ambiri amakonda kupanga ndikuti pambuyo paukwati, uphungu sifunikiranso; kuti pokhapokha atakhala pamavuto akulu / kapena akuganiza zothetsa banja, palibe chifukwa chofunira mlangizi wa mabanja.
Koma chowonadi ndichakuti upangiri waukwati umathandizanso ngakhale mutakhala m'banja losangalala. Ndi njira yotsalira zotsogola za ukwati wanu osati zotakasika ku mavuto omwe angabuke mkati mwake.
Ngati muli pabanja pano, koma simunapiteko kumalangizo apabanja, izi ndi zifukwa zisanu (zina) kapena maubwino operekera upangiri waukwati kukuthandizani kumvetsetsa chifukwa chake zitha kukhala imodzi mwazinthu zabwino kwambiri zomwe mungakhalepo pangani mu ubale wanu ndi mnzanu.
Kodi uphungu wa maukwati ndiwothandiza bwanji?
1. Uphungu umathandizira kulumikizana
Ngakhale anthu ambiri angaganize kuti kusakhulupirika kapena mavuto azachuma ndizo zomwe zimayambitsa kusudzulana, pali kafukufuku yemwe akuwonetsa kuti chifukwa chachikulu ndikulankhulana kosavomerezeka pakati pa okwatirana.
Ngati maanja sakhala ndi nthawi yomverana wina ndi mnzake, kufotokoza zakukhosi kwawo momveka bwino, ndikuwonetsa ulemu pamalingaliro a wokondedwa wawo, popita nthawi, izi zitha kubweretsa mkwiyo zomwe zitha kupangitsa makoma amitundu yonse kukwera.
Mlangizi wa maukwati amaphunzitsidwa momwe angaperekere maluso omwe angakuthandizeni inu ndi mnzanu kuti mugwirizane moyenera zomwe zingapangitse kuti nonse mugwirizane.
Koma, upangiri wa maubale umafunikira kuti onse awiriwa azikhala achilungamo panthawi yotere, apo ayi simungapeze madalitso operekera upangiri wa mabanja.
2. Ikhoza kukuthandizani kuthana ndi zokumana nazo zopweteka
Zingakhale bwino ngati anthu apabanja salakwitsa.
Koma chifukwa aliyense ndi munthu, pakhoza kukhala nthawi zina pamene zinthu zopweteka zimachitika. Pakhoza kukhala chibwenzi (chakuthupi kapena chamalingaliro). Pakhoza kukhala mtundu wina wa mankhwala osokoneza bongo kapena uchidakwa. Kapena, pakhoza kukhala mtundu wina wa zosokoneza, monga zolaula, kutchova juga kapena kudya.
Mulimonse momwe zingakhalire, panthawi yovuta yaukwati, zingakhale zolimbikitsa kukhala ndi mkhalapakati woyenerera. Wina yemwe angakuwonetseni inu ndi mnzanu momwe mungapulumukire nthawi zovuta.
Ichi ndi chifukwa chimodzi chokha chomwe mungaganizire zopita kukalangiza ukwati musanalowe m'banja kuti mukhale okonzeka kapena kugwiritsa ntchito maubwino azithandizo la mabanja mukakhala mavuto m'banja.
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3. Uphungu wa maukwati ndiwofunikira pakukhazikitsa zolinga
Mukudziwa mwambiwu: "Kulephera kukonzekera, kukonzekera kulephera." Anthu awiri akakwatirana, nkofunika kuti azipeza nthawi yoganizira zomwe akufuna kuchita monga gulu.
Kodi mukufuna kugula nyumba? Kodi mukufuna kupitanso kwina? Mwina nonse awiri mukuganiza zoyambitsa bizinesi limodzi.
Poyamba, mwina simungaganize kuti upangiri waukwati ndiye malo abwino oti muzikambirana motere. Koma chifukwa chomwe zitha kupindulira ndikuti alangizi amaphunzitsidwa kufunsa mafunso. Ndipo, amaphunzitsidwa kuti apereke zidziwitso zina zomwe zingakupangitseni inu ndi anu kuthana bwino.
Chifukwa chake, mukudabwa kuti mupita liti kukalandira upangiri waukwati? Mwinanso ino ndi nthawi yoyenera kuyendera wophunzitsa maukwati pafupi nanu kuti mupeze thandizo kuchokera ku maubwino osaneneka a upangiri waukwati.
4. Mutha kuphunzira momwe mungakhalire okondana kwambiri ndi mnzanu
Kodi upangiri wa maukwati umathandizadi? Monga tanenera kale, maubwino opangira upangiri waukwati alibe malire. Koma nthawi zina pamakhala mlangizi wodziwa zambiri yemwe angakutsogolereni kunjira yoyenera.
Tiyeni tiwone momwe!
Tonsefe timadziwa kuti kugonana ndikofunikira m'banja. Koma, banja lililonse lomwe lakhala lokwatirana zaka zopitilira zisanu lingakuuzeni kuti kugonana kumasintha pakapita nthawi.
Thupi lanu limasintha. Ndandanda yanu imakhala yolemetsa kwambiri. Zofunikira zantchito zatsiku ndi tsiku, ana ndi zina zitha kutilepheretsa. M'malo mwake, pali pafupifupi 20% ya mabanja okwatirana ku United States kokha omwe ali mgulu lachiwerewere (amagonana 10 kapena kangapo pachaka).
Simunalembetse kuti mnzanu azikhala naye chipinda chimodzi. Ayeneranso kukhala okondedwa wanu, mnzanu komanso wokondedwa wanu. Ngati mukukumana ndi mavuto pankhani yakukondana, awa ndi malo amodzi okha omwe alangizi othandizira mabanja angathandizire.
Amatha kukupatsani malangizo okuthandizani kuti moyo wanu wachikondi ubwerere m'mbuyo.
5. Maanja amafunika kuti "kutentha kwa banja" kutengeke
Ndiye mungatani ngati palibe cholakwika m'banja lanu? Ngati ndi choncho, choyambirira, zikomo! Ndipo mukudziwa chiyani? Njira imodzi yabwino yowonetsetsa kuti isasunthike ndi kuwona mlangizi wamaukwati kamodzi kapena kawiri pachaka kuti apindule ndi upangiri waukwati.
Atha kuwunika ngati pali malo aliwonse omwe atha kubweretsa zovuta panjira. Kuphatikiza apo, atha kulangiza momwe mungapangire kuti mgwirizano wanu ukhale bwinoko.
Inde, otomerana ayenera kupeza uphungu asanakwatirane. Koma ngati mwakhala kutali ndi uphungu musanalowe m'banja, muyenera kumvetsetsa nthawi yoti mupeze upangiri waukwati.
M'malo modabwa, 'kodi upangiri wa maukwati umathandizadi,' munthu ayenera kuyesa kuyesa kusangalala ndi maupangiri atakwatirana. Kupatula apo, ndinu wokwatiwa; Ndikofunika nthawi yanu, khama lanu, ndi ndalama zanu kuti mupezeke nawo pamaupangiri apabanja angapo!
Singawononge banja lanu; M'malo mwake, mupeza mawonekedwe atsopano pabanja, palimodzi. Chifukwa chake pitani!