Zamkati
- Inu ndi mnzanu mwatopa
- Mukumana ndi nthawi ina yokasangalala
- Mumakhala ndi nthawi yochuluka yocheza ndi mnzanu komanso banja
- Muyenera kugwiritsa ntchito masamba anu onse olipidwa
- Mukuyenera kusunga ndalama kokasangalala kokasangalala
Kokasangalala ndi tchuthi chomwe maanja amatenga atapulumuka zovuta zomwe zikadakhala zikondwerero zaukwati wawo.
Zili ngati kuwala kumodzi kumapeto kwa ngalande yakuda kwambiri yomwe maanja akuyembekezera atakhala masiku ochepa.
M'malo mwake, anthu ambiri amayembekezera tsiku lomwe adzachokere kuukwati wawo makamaka kuposa tsiku lawo lenileni laukwati ndipo ali olondola kutero chifukwa tivomerezane ndi omwe sangakonde kukhala ndi anzawo ena mdziko lachilendo kuposa awo achibale akutali omwe amangowona kamodzi kapena kawiri pachaka ndipo amawawonanso m'maphwando apabanja.
Koma ngakhale zonsezi, ngati banjali lingalembe zabwino ndi zoyipa zakusapitilira tchuthi nthawi yomweyo zabwinozo zikadapitilira zovutazo.
Ngakhale pagulu lanu, muwona kuti abwenzi anu ambiri ndi abale anu akusankha nthawi yachisangalalo yochedwa ndipo kuthekera koti mupite kumalo atsopano pambuyo paukwati wawo sikupezeka.
Nazi zifukwa zochepa zomwe mwina zidapangitsa anthuwa kuti asankhe nthawi yachisangalalo yochedwa kwakanthawi.
Inu ndi mnzanu mwatopa
Ndizodziwika kuti aliyense amavomereza kuti maukwati amafunika kukonzekera bwino zomwe zimapangitsa kukonzekera kukhala ngati imodzi ya chiwonetsero chaching'ono.
Kuyambira pakudya, kuyendera malo ogulitsira tsiku lililonse, kutumiza maitanidwe kuti atsimikizire kuchuluka kwa anthu omwe adzakhalepo pamwambowu, wina sangachitire mwina koma kuda nkhawa ndi makonzedwe onsewa ndi khama lomwe munthu ayenera kuyikapo.
Chifukwa chake chomaliza chomwe chingakhale pamndandanda wa mkwatibwi kapena mkwatibwi watsopano ndikukonzekera ulendo wina.
Chifukwa chake, mabanja ambiri masiku ano amasankha kusankha nthawi yokonzekera kuchedwa, kukhala kunyumba ndikupumula pambuyo pa zikondwerero zaukwati m'malo mopita kokasangalala.
Mukumana ndi nthawi ina yokasangalala
Pambuyo paukwati, onse okwatirana amamva izi kamodzi kapena kangapo kuti ali "nthawi yachisangalalo".
Izi zikutanthauza kuti "sangalalani ndi gawo ili lamtendere pomwe likupitilira chifukwa zinthu zibwerera kumalo awo wamba posachedwa.”
Palibe munthu, wosakwatira kapena wokwatiwa yemwe samatha kudziwa kuti chibwenzi chilichonse chimakhala ngati maloto pachiyambi koma kumverera kwakanthawi kumatha.
Sizitanthauza kuti inu ndi mnzanuyo muleka kulankhulana ndipo banja lanu limakhala ngati cholemetsa koma zomwe zimachitika ndikuti mumakhala omasuka muzochita zanu ndi wokondedwa wanu kapena mwina kukhala omasuka pang'ono zomwe zimapangitsa kuti zikhale zosasangalatsa komanso mwachidule.
Koma chomwe chingatsimikizire kuyatsa moto womwe watayika kachiwiri muubwenzi wanu lingakhale lingaliro lakuchedwa kokasangalala. Umenewu ndi umodzi mwamaubwino akuchedwa kukondwerera ukwati.
Mabanja onse omwe anali ndi tchuthi kumayambiliro awo sangakwanitse kupeza tchuthi posachedwa koma ngati mungaganize zokhala ndi tchuthi pambuyo pake mupezanso mwayi wokondwerera ukwati wanu.
Mumakhala ndi nthawi yochuluka yocheza ndi mnzanu komanso banja
Chimodzi mwazifukwa zomwe zikuchedwetsani nthawi yokondwerera kukhala ndi nthawi yochuluka kwa okondedwa anu.
Pambuyo pa zikondwerero zaukwati, anthu omwe adachokera kutali kuti adzakhale nawo paukwati wanu monga anzanu aku koleji kapena abale akutali omwe simukuwawona kawirikawiri chifukwa cha kusiyanasiyana, mutha kutenga mwayi uwu ndikuwapempha kuti atalikitse khalani ndi kucheza nawo.
Mnzanu amathanso kuthera nthawi yochulukirapo ndi anzanu komanso abale anu ndikudziwana nawo bwino ndipo abale anu komanso anzanu amathanso kudziwona okha ngati mnzanuyo wakwanitsa kutsatira zomwe mumalongosola kapena kuyika keke, mutha kukonzekera kupita kukamanga msasa kapena paulendo wina wautali kuti mukacheze ndi okondedwa anu onse pamalo amodzi.
Idzakhalanso ngati mwezi wochepa kwa inu ndi mnzanu womwe ungakupulumutseni kuti musadandaule chifukwa chosagwirizana ndi zenizeni.
Muyenera kugwiritsa ntchito masamba anu onse olipidwa
Mukapita kuntchito kukakwatirana muyenera kukhala nawo paphwando laukwati komanso kokasangalala masiku anu opumira koma ngati mutakhala ndi tchuthi pambuyo pake mupeza mwayi wokhala ndi tchuthi china cholipirira tchuthi chanu chochedwa pambuyo pake ndizopambana-kupambana kwa inu kuti mutsimikizire kugwiritsa ntchito mwayi wanu.
Mukuyenera kusunga ndalama kokasangalala kokasangalala
Maukwati si nthabwala. Kuchedwetsa tchuthi chanu kumakupatsani nthawi yokwanira yosungira ndalama zambiri mukapita kokasangalala. Ikuthandizaninso kuti muzungulire pazinthu zapamwamba zogula kokasangalala.
Ngakhale mutakhala yosavuta kumatha kukuwonongerani ndalama zambiri.
Kuyambira zokongoletsera mpaka galasi lavinyo lomwe mlendo aliyense azikamwa, zidzakhala pa inu kapena inu ndi mnzanu onse kutengera njira yomwe aganiza kuti nonse mugawane ndalama, zidzakhalabe mutha kukulolani kuti mulandire ndalama zochepa zomwe munali nazo ngati inu, pambuyo pake, mutenga chisankho chopita kokasangalala muyenera kukhala ndi bajeti yolimba kwambiri.
Ngati mukadakonzekera kale tchuthi chapamwamba muyenera kusiya chifukwa musayiwale kuti mudzakhalabe ndi ngongole mukadzabwerako.
Chifukwa chake mwasiyidwa kuti musankhe pakati kokhalira ndi tchuthi kokonzekera bajeti kapena kusungira wokonda kuchedwa kokasangalala kuti mukhoze kupita pambuyo pake ndipo popeza tonse tikudziwa kuti njira yabwino ingakhale kubwerera kunyumba ndikusunga khobiri lanu lomaliza .
Tchuthi chokwatirana chomwe chikuchedwa chidzakupatsani mwayi wokhala ndi nthawi yosangalatsa yomwe mwalota, pambuyo pake, mudzangokhala nayo kamodzi (mwachiyembekezo).