Zamkati
- 1. Amatsegula zitseko za zokumana nazo zatsopano
- 2. Zimapereka mipata yambiri yochitira limodzi
- 1. Simungathe kutsatira zofuna zanu
- 2. Kudziika nokha ndi zosowa zanu patsogolo
- 1. Yesani njira ya 'sangweji'
- 2. Samalani mukamatsutsa
Mumakonda ma comedies achikondi, koma mnzanu amakonda makanema ojambula. Ndiwe wosadya nyama, koma winanso wofunika kwambiri ndi nyama yodya nyama. Mumakonda wokondedwa wanu, koma mwina mungamve kuti simuli kwenikweni. Ngati simukugwirizana pa chakudya kapena kanema, mudzatha bwanji kusankha zosankha zofunika pamoyo, monga nthawi yoyambira banja kapena komwe mungakhale?
Pali zosiyana muubwenzi uliwonse. Chofunikira sikuti tiwone kusiyana kumeneku ngati komwe kumayambitsa mikangano, koma ngati chinthu choyenera.
Ndikofunikira kuti muyesetse kuzindikira ndi kulemekeza momwe okondedwa wanu akusiyana ndi inu.
Koma, kodi kusiyana kumakhudza bwanji ubale wanu?
Momwe kusiyana kumathandizira ubale wanu
1. Amatsegula zitseko za zokumana nazo zatsopano
Monga anthu, tili mikhalidwe yathu kutengera anthu omwe ali ndi zokonda zomwezi. Ngakhale izi zimatumikira ndikutithandiza m'njira zambiri, sizimatilola ife kukumana ndi china chilichonse chomwe moyo ungatipatse.
Ndikusiyana pakati pa ubale wanu, mudzatha kukumana ndi anthu ndikuchita zinthu zomwe zingasinthe malingaliro anu adziko lapansi kuti likhale labwino.
Mwa kudzitsegulira tokha ndikupeza njira yina yakukhalira ndi moyo, timatha kupanga zisankho zabwino komanso zophunzitsidwa bwino pazomwe tikufuna kuchita pamoyo wathu. Zokumana nazo zosiyanasiyana pamoyo izi zimatithandiza kuti tisayang'ane zomwe timazidziwa, kutipangitsa kuti titha kufotokoza bwino lomwe ndikupezeka mdziko lapansi.
Muthanso kumva kuti ubale wanu ukulimba chifukwa cha chidwi cha mnzanuyo kuyesa zina mwa zokonda zanu. Zokumana nazo izi zitha kukupatsirani pafupi, kulimbitsa ubale wapadera womwe mumagawana.
2. Zimapereka mipata yambiri yochitira limodzi
Mudzadabwa ndi zomwe mungakwanitse mukamagwiritsa ntchito kusiyana kwanu limodzi. Mwachitsanzo, ngati simukupeza zabwino koma mumachita masamu, mutha kusamalira bajeti pomwe mnzanu atha kusankha zomwe angachite nayo.
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Kukhala ndi mphamvu zomwe mnzako alibe, kumathandiza kulimbitsa ubale wanu ndi ubale wanu, zomwe zimakupatsani mwayi wodziwa zambiri za mnzanu.
Zowopsa zakusiyana kwambiri
1. Simungathe kutsatira zofuna zanu
Pomwe kugawana zomwe mnzanu amachita komanso zomwe amakonda kuchita kumathandiza kulimbitsa ubale wanu, aliyense ali ndi zomwe anali nazo kale komanso zomwe amakonda. Ngati mukulephera kutsatira zomwe mumakonda, zitha kubweretsa kukhumudwitsa komanso kukhumudwa pochita zomwe mumachita tsiku lililonse.
Kukhumudwitsidwa kumeneku kumatha kusokoneza banja lanu, zomwe zimayambitsa mikangano komanso kusagwirizana.
2. Kudziika nokha ndi zosowa zanu patsogolo
Ndikofunikira kudziwa kuti mgwirizano ndi mgwirizano ndi maziko a ubale wopambana.
Anthu akuyenera kuganizira zosowa ndi zosowa za anzawo ndikuziika patsogolo pa zawo.
Chibwenzi sichingayende bwino ngati anthu ayika zosowa zawo patsogolo, chifukwa choti ena ofunika atopa chifukwa chonyalanyazidwa ndikunyalanyazidwa kwanthawi yayitali.
Ngati mukulephera kulumikizana ndi mnzanu mozama kwambiri chifukwa chakusiyana kwanu, zimakhala zovuta kuti mukhalebe ndi chikondi, kumvetsetsa, komanso kukhala otetezeka muubwenzi.
Momwe mungasamalire kusiyana kwa ubale wanu
Ndikofunika kuzindikira kuti mikangano ndi gawo laubwenzi uliwonse. Kaya kusiyana kwake ndikanthu kakang'ono ngati inu, mumakonda kugona ndi zenera lotseguka, koma mnzanu amakonda kutsekedwa, kapena china chake chovuta kwambiri, monga momwe mungalerere ana; Ndikofunika kukumbukira kuti zomwe zimafunikira kwambiri ndi momwe mumazikonzera, osati momwe zilili.
1. Yesani njira ya 'sangweji'
Tonsefe timayang'ana wina wofunika yemwe angatipangitse kudzimva kuti ndife ofunika, okondedwa, komanso osiririka. Popeza mikangano ndi kutsutsa kumatha kuchepa malingaliro awa, ndikofunikira kupeza njira zowabwezeretsanso. Njira imodzi yochitira izi ndikupanga 'sangweji.’
Chida chofunikira mu bizinesi, sangweji amatanthauza kuyika ndemanga yolakwika pakati pa awiri abwino.
Mwachitsanzo, 'Mukuchita bwino kupeza mayankho amitundu yonse yamavuto. Kungakhale bwino ngati mungapezenso yankho pazosokonekera m'chipinda chathu. Komanso, ndimakonda momwe mumasamalirira bwino mphaka wathu. Akuwoneka wokondwa komanso wathanzi! ' Komabe, onetsetsani kuti kuyamikira komwe mumapereka ndi wowona mtima komanso wowona mtima, kapena sangweji sangagwire ntchito.
2. Samalani mukamatsutsa
Ndikofunika kumvetsetsa kuti muyenera kutsutsa zomwe zachitika kapena machitidwe ena, osati umunthu wa mnzanu. Ndizopanda phindu kwambiri kudandaula za umunthu wanu wofunika, makamaka chifukwa chakuti mnzakeyo amangoyankha podzitchinjiriza. Kudzudzula koteroko kudzasokonezanso malingaliro okondedwa ndi oyamikiridwa omwe ndi ofunikira kuti mukhale ubale wolimba komanso wathanzi.