Zamkati
- Ndalama - Mbali yakuda yaukwati
- Amandikonda, sandikonda ayi
- Zosayembekezereka
- Kukangana kosalekeza ndikusowa kufanana pakati pawo
Masiku ano, chiwerengero cha mabanja osudzulana chakwera kwambiri kuposa kale. Zomwe kale zinali zochititsa manyazi komanso zosazindikirika tsopano ndizofala ngati zochitika zina zatsiku ndi tsiku. Ndipo zomwe zimayambitsa izi zimabwera mosiyanasiyana: kuchokera pazifukwa zodabwitsa kwambiri monga "kukhumudwa ndi mnzako" kapena "kungofuna kukwatiwa usanakwanitse zaka zinazake kenako kuti ungomaliza" kukhala zopweteka komanso zowona zimayambitsa monga kukondana ndi wokondedwa wanu kapena kusangokhala pamodzi.
Pazifukwa zosamveka, pali zifukwa zina zomwe zimapangitsa banja kusudzulana lomwe limafala kwambiri kuposa momwe munthu angaganizire. Ngakhale zina zingawoneke ngati zosadabwitsa, ndi zinthu zosavuta zomwe zimachitika mobwerezabwereza zomwe nthawi zambiri zimawononga banja. Zina zitha kupewedwa pomwe zina sizingatheke, komabe pali chinthu chimodzi chotsimikizika. Pali yankho pamavuto aliwonse mmoyo ndipo izi zimagwiranso ntchito pamavuto ambiri.
Ndalama - Mbali yakuda yaukwati
Kugawanika pazachuma kumawoneka ngati kopanda tanthauzo, koma ndichinthu chachilendo koma chovuta kuthana ndiubwenzi wanthawi yayitali. Kusankha yemwe akuyenera kuyang'anira zomwe kapena ali ndi udindo waukulu pakulipira ngongole wamba nthawi zambiri ndi gawo lomwe aliyense ayenera kuthana nalo. Komabe, ndizosavuta kunena kuposa kuchita. Kunyalanyaza mbali iyi ndikulephera kupanga dongosolo loti inu ndi mnzanu musamalire mavuto azachuma nthawi zambiri kumayambitsa mikangano. Choyipa chachikulu, chimakhala chifukwa chokhazikika chapanikizika kapena kutsutsana ndi mnzanu. Mwinanso mutha kumadzimva kuti akukuzunzani kapena kukuzunzani molakwitsa chifukwa chazachuma. Ndipo, mwadzidzidzi, china chake chomwe sichinadutse m'maganizo mwanu chitha kukhala chifukwa chomwe simukufunanso kugawana ubale ndi munthu amene mumamukonda kwambiri.
Kuchokera pazokambirana momasuka ndi wina wachitatu yemwe akuwongolera kuyanjanaku ndikupereka upangiri waluso pakupanga makina anu, pali njira zambiri zopewera izi kapena kuwongolera. Kulephera kutero kuyambira pachiyambi ndichinthu chomwe chingakonzedwe. Sizochedwa kwambiri kukonza momwe tingachitire ndi zinthu zoterezi.
Amandikonda, sandikonda ayi
Kuchokera pamavuto onse omwe angakhalepo panjira, kuchepa kwa chikondi kapena kusakhulupirika ndichimodzi mwazofala kwambiri. Ndipo ngakhale iliyonse imakhala ndi zotsatirapo zosiyana, zoyambitsa zimasokonekera. Munthu wachitatu yemwe amabwera pakati pa inu ndi mnzanu si chizolowezi chachilendo, komabe momwe munthu amayankhira poyesedwapo nthawi zambiri zimakhudzidwa ndi umunthu kapena zomwe wakwanitsa. Ngakhale anthu ena atha kuyenda njirayi mosasamala kanthu za zoyesayesa za okondedwa awo, pali zifukwa zambiri zomwe anthu amazilandirira izi ngakhale ali okwatirana. Banja lolimba lingapewe mavuto ngati amenewa. Pazomwezi, inu ndi mnzanu muyenera kusamalira ndikumanga ubale wanu nthawi zonse. Mavuto sayenera kusiyidwa osasamaliridwa ndipo mfundo zolimba ziyenera kulimbikitsidwa panjira popeza zinthu zonse zimatha kuwonongeka pakapita nthawi.
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Zosayembekezereka
Monga pazinthu zambiri zomwe munthu amafuna kukwaniritsa m'moyo, zomwe mumagawana ndi okwatirana ziyenera kukambirana momasuka ndikuvomerezana moona mtima. Pakadutsa zaka zambiri, ndizomveka kuti zikhumbo zina zimasintha panjira. Mungafune kukhala ndi mwana muli ndi zaka 30, koma simukuzindikira mukadzakwanitsa zaka 50 kapena 60. Chifukwa chake ndizomveka kuyembekezera kuti zina mwa mndandanda wazomwe mungachite zitha kusiyanasiyana zaka zingapo ndi tsopano. Komabe, kuwonetsetsa kuti mukugawana zomwe mumachita pamoyo ndi mwamuna kapena mkazi wanu kungathandize kuti banja lanu likhale labwino.
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Kukangana kosalekeza ndikusowa kufanana pakati pawo
Mukuganiza kuti masiku ano mabanja sangakhale ovuta kugawana maudindo mofanana. Komabe, zizolowezi zakale zimafa molimbika ndipo nthawi zambiri mzimayi amadzipeza kuti akugwira ntchito zambiri zomwe nthawi zambiri amapatsidwa kuti azigonana. Kulephera kugawa ntchito moyenera ndichimodzi mwazifukwa zazikulu zomwe maanja amatha kumenyera. Zachidziwikire, zifukwa zokambirana mobwerezabwereza ndizochuluka ndipo izi zikakhala "njira ya moyo" palibe chodabwitsa kuti anthu amasankha kusiya njira zawo.