Zamkati
- 1. Umodzi wokhalapo
- 2. Zimapindulitsa aliyense
- 3. Zimakuphunzitsa kukhala wachifundo
- 4. Muli ndi wina woti mugawane naye zonse
- 5. Ochita nawo zaupandu
- 6. Ubwenzi wapamtima
- 7. Chitetezo cham'mtima
- 8. Chitetezo cha moyo
Funso limodzi lomwe anthu omwe ali pachibwenzi cha bwenzi losavuta amafunsa kuti ndichifukwa chiyani amafunika kukwatira.
Amangokhalira kulingalira za funso ndikufunika kwa ubale wopatulikawu chifukwa m'maso mwawo, kukhala odzipereka ndikukhala limodzi ndikofanana ndi kukwatira.Amakhulupirira kuti mphete, manyazi, malonjezo, kutenga nawo mbali kwa boma komanso malamulo okhwima zimapangitsa ukwati kukhala mgwirizano wabizinesi m'malo mwamalumikizidwe.
Koma sizili choncho.
Ukwati ndi ubale wolimba kwambiri ndipo ndi mgwirizano womwe umapatsa anthu awiri chomangira chomwe amafunikira kwambiri. Ukwati ndikulonjeza komwe kumamaliza moyo wanu, ndipo mwina simudziwa kufunika kwake mpaka mutalowa m'banja.
Komabe, pitirizani kuwerenga nkhaniyi kuti mudziwe chifukwa chake ukwati uli wofunikira.
1. Umodzi wokhalapo
Ukwati ndi chinthu chophatikiza anthu awiri; ndikulumikiza kwa miyoyo iwiri ngati umodzi ndipo ndi mgwirizano womwe ulibe mpikisano mdziko lino lapansi.
Mgwirizano wopatulikawu sikuti umangokudalitsani ndi mnzanu woti mukakhale naye limodzi komanso umakupatsaninso wachibale wina wodalira kwathunthu. Ukwati umasinthitsa kudzipereka kwanu kukhala mgwirizano pomwe onse awiri ndi omwe amasewera kwambiri ndipo amathandizana kukwaniritsa zolinga zawo.
N'chifukwa chiyani ukwati uli wofunika? Chifukwa imakupatsani wosewera wosewera wamkulu, kusewera nthawi zonse kumbali yanu.
2. Zimapindulitsa aliyense
Ukwati uli ndi maubwino ambiri osati kwa inu nokha komanso kwa onse omwe akuzungulirani. Zimathandizira kulumikizana pakati pa anthu komanso zimathandizanso pachuma mderalo.
Ukwati umathandizanso mabanja a onse awiriwo ndikupanga mgwirizano watsopano pakati pawo.
3. Zimakuphunzitsa kukhala wachifundo
N'chifukwa chiyani ukwati uli wofunika? Chifukwa Ukwati umaphunzitsanso anthu awiriwa kukhala achifundo ndipo umakulolani kuti muzichita.
Zimalimbikitsa kudzipereka kwanu pakupanga kuyimilira wina ndi mnzake munthawi yamavuto.
Zimakupatsaninso mwayi wothandizana wina ndi mnzake pachilichonse chomwe chimachitika ndipo ndi gawo limodzi lamalingaliro olumikizidwa pakupanga banja chifukwa cha chifundo ndi chikondi.
4. Muli ndi wina woti mugawane naye zonse
N'chifukwa chiyani ukwati uli wofunika? Zimakumangiriza ndi mzimu wina womwe umakupatsani mwayi wogawana nawo chilichonse.
Mutha kuyankhula za mutu uliwonse womwe mukufuna popanda kuwopa kuweruzidwa kapena kunyozedwa m'malingaliro awo. Mgwirizanowu umakupatsani mnzanu wapamtima yemwe angayime pambali panu pokumana ndi zovuta.
5. Ochita nawo zaupandu
Ukwati umakupatsanso mzimu wina kuti muganizire zanu. Izi zimayankha chifukwa chake ukwati uli wofunikira komanso chifukwa chake mgwirizano wopatulika kwambiri.
Munthuyu ndiye chilichonse chanu; ndinu abwenzi apamtima, okonda, komanso anzanu omwe mumaphwanya malamulo. Mudzakhala ndi wina wokugwirirani mukadzagwa pansi; mudzakhala ndi wina woti muzidya naye komanso ngakhale makanema palimodzi. Ndi mnzako simudzakhala nokha; mutha kukhala ndi picnic limodzi, kumwa tiyi madzulo komanso kuwerenga mabuku wina ndi mnzake.
Mukadzakwatirana, simudzakhala nokha.
Ukwati ndikulumikizana kwa anthu awiri omwe amakulolani kuchita zinthu zosiyanasiyana zokongola ngakhale kwa anthu odabwitsa kwambiri. Mutha kusangalala masiku onse ndi usiku wonse ndi ena anu ofunikira ndipo simumadzimva nokha.
6. Ubwenzi wapamtima
Ukwati umabweranso ndi mwayi wokulolani kukhala pachibwenzi nthawi iliyonse yomwe inu ndi mnzanu mukufuna. Zimakupatsirani usiku wopanda cholakwa wopanda chochita popanda kulingalira ngati mwachita chinthu choyenera kapena ayi.
Ndi banja, kuyanjana kwanu kuyankhidwa popanda kudziimba mlandu kapena kukhumudwitsa Mulungu.
7. Chitetezo cham'mtima
Ukwati ndikulumikizana kwa malingaliro.
Amuna ndi akazi nthawi zonse amafunafuna maubwenzi apamtima komanso chitetezo, ndipo mukakwatirana, izi ndi zomwe mumapeza. Mudzakhala ndi wina nthawi zonse limodzi ndikugawana zakukhosi.
Gawo labwino kwambiri lokwatirana ndikuti chilichonse ndi choyera, ziribe kanthu zomwe mungachite chibwenzichi chimabwera popanda chodetsa kapena kudzimvera chisoni.
8. Chitetezo cha moyo
Ngakhale mutadwala bwanji, nthawi zonse mudzakhala ndi wina wokuyang'anirani. Ukwati ndi mgwirizano womwe mumakhala wotsimikiza kuti wokondedwa wanu akusamalirani mukamadwala kapena mukawafuna, ndipo simusowa kudandaula kapena kukhumudwa.
Kukhala ndi chitetezo ichi m'moyo ndikofunikira chifukwa ukadwala, umazindikira kuti ndiwe wekhawekha, koma kudutsa nthawi yovutayi kumakupangitsa kuzindikira kufunika kwa mgwirizano uno.
Ukwati ndi mgwirizano pakati pa anthu awiri kwamuyaya kudzera mmoyo uno.
N'chifukwa chiyani ukwati uli wofunika? Chifukwa, ndi ubale pomwe anthu awiri amadzipereka kwa wina ndi mnzake ndikuphatikizana ndi mabanja awo kuti akhale amodzi. Ukwati ndi kulumikizana komwe miyoyo iwiri imamva akangonena malonjezo awo.
Zimakupatsirani mtundu waubwenzi womwe palibe ubale wina uliwonse ungathe, ndichifukwa chake ndi chinthu chopatulika kwambiri kwa munthu aliyense.