Zamkati
- 1. Akufunabe kusewera mozungulira - zambiri
- 2. Zochitika zakale - zabwino ndi zoyipa
- 3. Amaganiza kuti sindinu angwiro
- 4. Khola lozungulira liwu loti "ukwati"
- Momwe mungachitire ndi bambo yemwe ali ndi nkhani zodzipereka
Tiyerekeze kuti mwakhala mukukhala pachibwenzi kapena mukuyenda ndi mnyamata posachedwa koma nthawi iliyonse mukamayamba kukambirana zatengera chibwenzicho, sakufuna kutchula. Maubale ndi zinthu zosalimba zomwe zimafunikira kuyesetsa kwambiri kuti tibwere pamodzi ndikupitilira munjira yosalala komanso yangwiro. Mutha kukhala mukungopereka zonse zomwe muli nazo pachibwenzi kuphatikiza chikondi, kudalirana, komanso kuthandizana koma ndichinthu chomwe mumapereka kuyambira kumapeto koma nanga bwanji munthu wanu?
Kodi amakukhulupirirani kwambiri chifukwa cha inu?
Kodi amapereka chithandizo pomwe pakufunika komabe samangogawana nanu chilichonse?
Amuna amatenga nthawi kuti akhale pachibwenzi - ngati LOTI la nthawi chifukwa ali ndi gawo lawo lazomwe akumana nazo. Ichi ndi chiyambi chabe chifukwa pali zifukwa zambiri zomwe sananene kuti - "Ndimatero" !!
Nazi zifukwa zomwe amuna amakumanirana ndi nthawi yovuta kudzipereka ku chibwenzi.
1. Akufunabe kusewera mozungulira - zambiri
Ichi ndiye chifukwa chofala kwambiri chomwe chingagwere mutu wa mkazi - mnyamatayo ayenera kukhala akupusitsika ndi kumamatira mozungulira kusangalala. Ndicho chimene chingakhale chifukwa china nthawi zina chotsimikizika kuti mnyamatayo akungopanga nanu mwayi kuti mumupindulitsire.
Nthawi zambiri anyamata amafuna chisangalalo m'miyoyo yawo ndichifukwa chake amangokhala osachita chilichonse. Sindiwo amuna omwe ali ndi vuto lodzipereka, sikuti ali okhwima mokwanira.
2. Zochitika zakale - zabwino ndi zoyipa
Aliyense ali ndi gawo lawo zokumana nazo - zabwino ndi zoyipa.
Amuna odzipereka omwe ndi odzipereka ndi omwe adakumana ndi vuto lalikulu angachite chilichonse kuti apewe kubwereza zomwezo.
Ndikukumbukira mnzanga anali wokonda kwambiri, wamisala, wokonda kwambiri mkaziyu ndipo anali kukonzekera kukwatira. Atapita ndikumufunsira - adakana pamaso pake. Anasokonezeka kwambiri kwa milungu ingapo kenako anasamukira kwina.
Koma sanali wokonzeka kukhala pachibwenzi koma kenako kunabwera mayi wina yemwe amamukonda kwambiri. Atabwera kudzamuuza mawu osangalatsawo - adachita mantha ndipo samatha kunena chilichonse.
Ichi ndi chifukwa chimodzi chomwe amuna samadziperekera pachibwenzi chifukwa amaopa kukumana ndi zolephera zina m'moyo, motero amapewa zomwezo.
Amuna odzipereka amaopa kuti ubale wawo udzakumana chimodzimodzi ndi maubwenzi am'mbuyomu.
3. Amaganiza kuti sindinu angwiro
Simungathe kusankha zolondola nthawi zonse - nthawi yoyamba. Pankhani yosankha wangwiro waukwati, muyenera kudutsa masiku omwe ndi maloto owopsa, zokambirana zabwino, kumapeto kwa sabata komanso zina zambiri kuposa izi. Pakapita nthawi, mumakumana ndi anthu ambiri omwe sioyenera kutchedwa - angwiro. Kuchita molawirira kwambiri kungakhale chisankho choyipa kwa inu (pamenepa - kwa amuna). Chifukwa chake, amapewa kuzichita molawirira kwambiri.
Amuna omwe ali ndi vuto lodzipereka ndi omwe safuna kukhazikika ndi wina aliyense.
4. Khola lozungulira liwu loti "ukwati"
Zifukwa zomwe anyamata amawopa kuchita ndichifukwa chakuti lingaliro laukwati nthawi zina limafalikira ngati chinthu chomwe chimangirira mapiko anu ndikumachotsera ufulu wanu. Sizili choncho, banja limakupatsani mwayi wokhala limodzi ndikupanga moyo limodzi ndi munthu amene mumamukonda komanso amene mukufuna kukhala naye, mofunitsitsa.
Mnyamata akamaopa kudzipereka zizindikiro zomwe amawonetsa zimaphatikizapo, kukonza mukamayankhula zamtsogolo, kugawana nanu mapulani aumwini omwe samakuphatikizani, kusafuna kukudziwitsani kwa abwenzi komanso abale ndi zina zotero.
Momwe mungachitire ndi bambo yemwe ali ndi nkhani zodzipereka
Ngati akutenga nthawi yochulukirapo osachita, amakukondani ndipo amatenga nthawi kuti mukhale wolimba mtima, akusewera ndikuyesera kuti mumvetsetseni bwino.
Koma, ngati mukumva kuti ali ndi nkhani zakudzipereka zomwe sangakwanitse kuchokapo ndiye kuti mumachoka. Simuyenera kuchita nazo, ngati mukufuna kukhala ndi tsogolo ndi munthu ndipo munthuyo safuna kuchita zomwezo, ndiye kuti mupanga mapulani ena.