Zamkati
Kodi ndinu olakwa potaya dzina lanu muubwenzi ndikusiya kwathunthu kudziyimira pawokha?
Mukayamba chibwenzi chatsopano, kaya ndi bwenzi latsopano kapena kukhala wokwatirana naye muukwati, zomwezo zimatha kukusangalatsani. Mukuyesera kulumikizana, chomangira chomwe chimabweretsa inu ndi wokondedwa wanu pafupi.
Ngakhale ili ndi lingaliro labwino, muyenera kusamala kuti musataye dzina lanu. Ndikofunika kukumbukira kuti kukhala payekha ndi komwe kumakopa mnzakeyo poyambirira.
Sizachilendo m'maubwenzi atsopano kuyamba kutenga zizolowezi za anthu ena ndikutaya zomwe mukuchita. Zosintha mwa inu ndizobisika, simumazizindikira mpaka chibwenzi chitasintha kapena kusungunuka. Ndiye mumasiyidwa ndikudabwa kuti munthu ameneyo ali kuti inu musanatenge nawo gawo. Mumadzifunsa kuti, “Kodi chachitika ndi chiyani ndi ine?”
Kunja kwa kukhala mkazi, mayi, mwamuna, bambo, wogwira ntchito, muyenera kukhala ndi chizindikiritso chomwe chili chanu chonse. Ndi zochuluka zomwe zikuchitika m'moyo wanu watsiku ndi tsiku, zitha kukhala zovuta kulimbana ndi umunthu wanu. M'munsimu muli malingaliro angapo okuthandizani kuti musataye zomwe muli.
Ndichiteni
Gwiritsani ntchito nthawi (tsiku lililonse, sabata iliyonse, ndi zina) kuti muchite zomwe mumakonda. Kaya ndi nokha kapena ndi munthu wina, chofunikira kwambiri ndikuti mukhale ndi nthawi yoti "muchite". Izi zimathandiza kutsimikizira kuti simumatha kutaya dzina lanu pachibwenzi.
Khalani pafupi kwambiri
Onetsetsani kuti mumalumikizana ndi anzanu komanso abale anu mukakhala pachibwenzi chatsopano. Kungakhale kovuta, koma ngakhale itakhala mameseji kapena malo ochezera a pa Intaneti, onani kuti moni.
Ngati ndi kotheka, khalani ndi chakudya chamasana kapena khofi. Izi zimakupatsani mwayi wofotokozera, kusinthana nkhani, kapena kukhala ndi malingaliro atsopano pankhani / nkhawa ndikuthandizani kuti musataye dzina lanu muubwenzi.
Malo otetezeka
Simuyenera kukhumudwa mukakana, makamaka ngati ndichinthu chomwe chimakupangitsani kukhala omasuka. Kukhazikitsa malire kumalola kuti winayo adziwe kuchuluka kwanu, komwe muyenera kukhala nako.
Ngati munthu winayo amakusamalirani, angafune kuti muzimva bwino nthawi zonse ndipo sangakonde kuti mudzataye dzina lanu kapena mudzataye banja.
Malangizo amomwe mungadziyimire nokha pachibwenzi
Kudziwononga nokha muubwenzi kapena kumva kusakhala bwino kophatikizana komwe simukufuna kucheza nanu ndizowopsa.
Ngati mulidi muubwenzi kotero kuti simukhalanso nokha, ndipo mukulephera kudziwika kuti ndinu munthu wosiyana, ndipamene mukutaya mtima woti muli pachibwenzi.
Kukhala ndi mnzake muubwenzi wanthawi yayitali sikuyenera kutanthauza kuti kudzipeza muli pachibwenzi ndikukhala nokha kumakhala kovuta. Umu si momwe anthu omwe ali pachibwenzi choyenera azigwirira ntchito.
Ndikofunikira kukumbukira munthawi ngati izi kuti cholinga chokhala ndiubwenzi wosangalala ndikukhala pafupi ndipo nthawi yomweyo mupeze malangizo othandiza amomwe mungadzipezere nokha muubwenzi.
Chifukwa chake, momwe mungakhalire odziyimira pawokha muubwenzi mukalumikizana limodzi mosavomerezeka muubwenzi?
Malangizo awa oti mungakhalire osadalira paubwenzi angakuthandizeni kusiya njira yoipa iyi, kulumikizananso ndi inu nokha ndikukhala owona kwa inu ndikusangalala kwanthawi yayitali mu ubale wanu ndi mnzanu.
- Momwe mungakhalire paubwenzi, phunzirani kuvomereza kutsutsa. Kuti mupeze ufulu ndikofunika kumvetsetsa ndikuvomereza malingaliro amnzanu, ngakhale sizikugwirizana ndi malingaliro anu pankhaniyi.
- Kudziyimira pawokha pachibwenzi ndizotheka pokhapokha lekani kudalira mnzanu kuti akwaniritse zofuna zanu zonse. Kudalira kosagwirizana paubwenzi ndiye vuto lalikulu kwa mabanja. Yesetsani kukhazikitsa malire pakati podziyimira pawokha komanso kudalira ena, ndikukhala ndi mwayi wodalirana ndi anzanu pomwe muli pachibwenzi.
- Mukadzitayika mu chibwenzi, ndikofunikira kutero Dzikumbutseni nokha za dongosolo lanu lamtengo wapatali. Osatengera zomwe mnzanuyo akufuna kuti mukhale pachibwenzi, pitilizani kuyimirira mfundo zanu ndi mfundo zanu, kuti mukulitse mgwirizano wogwirizana ndi anzanu.
- Kudzipezanso mu chibwenzi kumafunikira kutero dziwani zinthu zina zomwe mumafuna pamoyo wanu. Ngakhale muyenera kuyika ubale wanu patsogolo, musapangitse kuti ukhale chinthu chokhacho chofunikira pamoyo wanu. Onaninso zomwe zili zofunika kupatula ubale wanu ndikupeza njira zopezera ufulu wanu.
Pamodzi ndi malangizo amomwe mungakhalire anzanu pachibwenzi, muyenera kutero phunzirani kukhala osangalala ndi wokondedwa wanu kapena wopanda iye.
Ngakhale kukhala wokhulupirika komanso wodzipereka ndikofunikira, kufunikira kofanana ndikutuluka, kukumana ndi anthu atsopano, kukhala ndi zokonda zanu komanso kuwunika zochitika zomwe zimakusangalatsani.
Kuti ubale ukule, nkofunika kusamalira zosowa zanu, yesetsani zokumana nazo nokha ndikukonda nokha.