Zamkati
- 1. Pezani munthu yemwe mumamukonda kwambiri
- 2. Kambiranani ndi uchi wanu kapena muvomere
- 3. Khazikitsani tsiku ndikukonzekera ukwati
- 4. Pezani chiphaso chaukwati
- 5. Pezani munthu woyenera kukwatira
- 6. Onetsani ndikunena kuti, "Ndimatero."
Mukakhala wachichepere komanso kulota za omwe mudzakwatirane naye komanso banja lanu, malingaliro anu amadzazidwa ndi mitundu yonse yachisangalalo. Simukuganiza zikhalidwe zilizonse zotopetsa, maudindo, kapena njira zilizonse zolowa m'banja.
Zomwe mukuganiza ndizokhudza kavalidwe, maluwa, keke, mphete. Kodi sizingakhale zodabwitsa kuti aliyense amene mumamukonda azikhala nawo? Zonse zimawoneka zofunika kwambiri komanso zazikulu.
Ndiye ukadzakula ndikukumana ndi mwamunayo kapena mkazi wamaloto ako, sungakhulupirire kuti ndi zenizeni.
Tsopano mukuyenera kukonzekera ukwati womwe mumalakalaka nthawi zonse. Mukusamalira mosamalitsa chilichonse ndikumawononga nthawi ndi ndalama zanu pokonzekera ukwati. Mukufuna kuti ikhale yangwiro mwamtheradi.
Choseketsa ndichakuti, zimatenga zochepa kwambiri kuti iwe ukhale wokwatiwa ndi winawake. Mwakutero, mumangofunika wina woti mukwatirane, chiphaso chaukwati, wogwirizira, ndi mboni zina. Ndichoncho!
Zachidziwikire, mutha kuchita zina zonse, monga keke ndi kuvina ndi mphatso. Ndi mwambo. Ngakhale sikofunikira, ndizosangalatsa.
Kaya muli ndiukwati wa zaka zana lino kapena mukungosunga kwa inu ndi mnzanuyo, ambiri amatsatira njira zomwezo zokwatirana.
Chifukwa chake, ngati mukuganiza kuti ukwati umachitika bwanji, osayang'ananso kwina. Muli pamalo oyenera.
Chimalimbikitsidwa - Njira Yokwatirana Asanachitike
Nazi zinthu zisanu ndi chimodzi zofunika kukwatira.
1. Pezani munthu yemwe mumamukonda kwambiri
Kupeza munthu amene mumamukonda kwambiri ndiye chinthu choyamba kulowa m'banja, chomwe ndichodziwikiratu.
Ngakhale kupeza bwenzi loyenera ndi imodzi mwanjira zoyambirira zokwatirana, iyi ikhoza kukhala gawo lalitali kwambiri komanso lofunika kwambiri pazochitikazo.
Ngati simuli pabanja, muyenera kukumana ndi anthu, kucheza limodzi, kuchita zibwenzi zambiri, kuchepetsani mpaka kamodzi, kenako kukondana ndi wina. Komanso, onetsetsani kuti munthuyo amakukondaninso!
Kenako pakubwera kudzakumana ndi mabanja a wina ndi mnzake, kukambirana zamtsogolo mwanu, ndikuwonetsetsa kuti mudzayenerana kwanthawi yayitali. Ngati mutakhala limodzi kwakanthawi ndipo mukukondanabe, ndinu agolide. Mutha kupita patsogolo 2.
Onani vidiyo iyi:
2. Kambiranani ndi uchi wanu kapena muvomere
Mutakhala pachibwenzi kwakanthawi, bweretsani mutu wa momwe banja liyenera kukhalira. Ngati wokondedwa wanu achita zabwino, ndiye kuti mukuwonekeratu. Pitilizani ndi kufunsira.
Mutha kuchita china chachikulu, ngati kulembera ndege kuti mulembe kumwamba, kapena kungogwada pa bondo limodzi ndikufunsa molunjika. Musaiwale mphete.
Kapena ngati simuli omwe mukuwafunsayo, ingokhalani kusaka mpaka atakufunsani, kenako, landirani pempholo. Mukuchita chibwenzi! Zotomerana zimatha kukhala kwa mphindi zochepa mpaka zaka — zili kwa inu nonse.
Malangizowa ndi gawo lina lofunikira musanalowe m'banja lokwatirana.
3. Khazikitsani tsiku ndikukonzekera ukwati
Izi zikuyenera kukhala gawo lachiwiri kwambiri lazokwatirana. Akwatibwi ambiri amafuna pafupifupi chaka kuti akonzekere, ndipo nonse awiri mumafunikira chaka kuti mudzathe kulipira zonse.
Kapena, ngati nonse muli bwino pochita kanthu kakang'ono, ndiye pitani njirayo popeza palibe njira zenizeni zakukwatirana. Mulimonsemo, khazikitsani tsiku lomwe nonse mudzagwirizane.
Kenako tengani diresi ndi tux, itanani anzanu ndi abale anu, ndipo ngati zili pamndandanda, konzekerani phwando laukwati ndi keke, chakudya, nyimbo, ndi zokongoletsa zomwe zikuwonetsa nonse awiri. Pamapeto pake, chofunikira ndichakuti nonse muyenera kukhala osangalala ndi momwe ukwati wanu wapangidwira.
Zalangizidwa - Asanakwatirane
4. Pezani chiphaso chaukwati
Ngati mukuganiza kuti mungakwatirane bwanji mwalamulo, ndiye kuti mupeze chiphaso chokwatirana!
Kulembetsa maukwati ndi imodzi mwanjira zofunika komanso zosapeweka zakukwatira. Ngati simukudziwa bwino momwe mungachitire izi, mutha kukhumudwa pamapeto pake, mukuganiza za 'momwe mungapezere chilolezo chokwatirana' komanso 'komwe angapeze chiphaso chokwatirana.'
Zambiri za sitepe iyi zimasiyanasiyana malinga ndi mayiko. Koma, itanani khothi lanu ndikufunseni nthawi ndi malo omwe mungalembetsere chiphaso chokwatirana.
Onetsetsani kuti mufunse ngati nonse muyenera kukhala ndi zaka zingati, ndi ndalama zingati, ndi mitundu iti ya ID yomwe muyenera kubwera mukamadzatenga, komanso kuti mwakhala ndi nthawi yayitali bwanji kuchokera pomwe mukugwiritsa ntchito mpaka kutha ntchito (ena amakhalanso ndi nthawi yoyembekezera ya tsiku limodzi kapena angapo kuchokera pomwe mudzalembetse mpaka pomwe mutha kugwiritsa ntchito).
Komanso pali mayiko ena omwe amafunika kuyesa magazi. Chifukwa chake, funsani za zomwe mukufuna chiphaso chokwatirana ndikuwonetsetsa kuti mukudziwa zofunikira pazokwatirana zokhudzana ndi dziko lanu.
Nthawi zambiri ndiye kuti amene akukwatireni amakhala ndi satifiketi yaukwati, yomwe amasaina, mumasainira, ndipo mboni ziwiri zimasaina, kenako wolakwayo amaiyika kukhothi. Kenako mudzalandira makalata m'masabata angapo.
5. Pezani munthu woyenera kukwatira
Ngati mukukwatira kukhothi, ndiye kuti mukadali pa gawo 4, ingofunsani yemwe angakwatire ndipo nthawi zambiri amakhala woweruza, chilungamo chamtendere kapena kalaliki.
Ngati mukukwatira kwinakwake, pezani oyang'anira omwe ali ndi udindo wokonza ukwati wanu m'boma lanu. Pa mwambo wachipembedzo, membala wa atsogoleri azigwira ntchito.
Anthu osiyanasiyana amalipiritsa mosiyanasiyana mautumikiwa, chifukwa chake funsani mitengo ndi kupezeka. Nthawi zonse ikani chikumbutso sabata latha.
6. Onetsani ndikunena kuti, "Ndimatero."
Mukuganizabe za momwe mungakwatirane, kapena ndi njira ziti zolowera m'banja?
Pangotsala sitepe imodzi yokha.
Tsopano muyenera kungowonekera ndikumenyedwa!
Valani zovala zanu zabwino kwambiri, pita kumene mukupita, ndipo yendani pamsewu. Mutha kunena zowinda (kapena ayi), koma kwenikweni, zomwe muyenera kunena ndikuti "Ndimachita." Mukangotchulidwa kuti ndinu okwatirana, lolani kuti chisangalalo chiyambe!
Tikukhulupirira masitepe asanu ndi limodzi awa okwatirana ndiosavuta kumvetsetsa ndikutsatira. Ngati mukuganiza zodumpha chilichonse chokwatirana, pepani, simungathe!
Chifukwa chake, pitirizani kukonzekera kukonzekera ukwati wanu ndikukonzekera bwino munthawi yake kuti musadzapupulume mphindi zomaliza. Tsiku laukwati ndi nthawi yomwe muyenera kusangalala kwathunthu ndikusiyapo gawo lazowonjezera zilizonse!