Zamkati
- Chifukwa chiyani azimayi amabera, m'malo mothetsa ukwati
- 1. Amakhala pachiwopsezo pamaganizidwe
- 2. Amakumba golide
- 3. Amatha kubera mayeso chifukwa ali pachibwenzi
- 4. Amakumana ndi bambo yemwe amamupangitsa kumva bwino
- 5. Amamva kuti zosowa zake zakugonana sizikwaniritsidwa
- 6. Amasokonezeka maganizo
- 7. Amalandira chithandizo kuchokera kwa iye
- 8. Sangathe kulimbana ndi mayeserowo
- 9. Pamene wokondedwa wake alibe nthawi yoti akhale naye
"Pafupifupi 45% ya amayi omwe ali pachibwenzi amabera anzawo, motsutsana ndi 60% ya amuna", akutero katswiri wazamisala komanso othandizira mabanja a Dr. Lonnie Barbach.
Chifukwa chake amuna ndi akazi amachita kubera. Koma ndichifukwa chiyani amuna amadziwika kuti ndi achinyengo pomwe mayi wonyenga amatha kuzemba?
Chabwino, kwa amodzi, azimayi ali bwino kubera ndikubisalira amuna awo. Amuna achinyengo amatha kugwidwa, pomwe kusakhulupirika kwazimayi sikupezeka.
Komanso pachikhalidwe chathu chakumadzulo, bambo yemwe amagonana kwambiri amasilira, pomwe mkazi amene amachita zachiwerewere ambiri amanyozedwa ndipo amamunyoza.
Komabe, azimayi amabera. Koma chifukwa chiyani? Kodi zifukwa zawo zazikuluzikulu zosakhulupirika ndi ziti?
Onaninso kanema wanzeru wamitundu yosakhulupirika:
Chifukwa chiyani azimayi amabera, m'malo mothetsa ukwati
Amuna ndi akazi ali ndi zosowa zina. Palibe cholakwika ndi izi. Ndi zachilengedwe.
Nanga ndi chiyani chomwe chimayambitsa kusakhulupirika?
Mzimayi akamawona kuti palibe chomwe akusowa muubwenzi wake - ndipo akudziwa kuti sangathe kuzithetsa muubwenzi - atha kusankha kukaziyang'ana kwina. Izi sizachilendo kwa azimayi ambiri omwe amabera mayeso.
Ndiye bwanji kukhalabe pachibwenzi? Zili choncho chifukwa amayi amafunikira kwambiri chitetezo. Amafuna ndipo amafunikira ubale wotetezeka. Potuluka kunja kwa chibwenzicho - ndikukwaniritsa zosowa zake mmenemo - ndikukhala paubwenzi nthawi imodzi, atha kukwaniritsa zosowa zonse ziwiri.
Nthawi zina azimayi amachita zomwezi chifukwa chomwe amuna amachita:
Kutha ndi kovuta ngakhale atakhala ndi zosowa zakuthupi m'banja.
Amangokonda kubera ndikukhalabe pachibwenzi m'malo mongofalitsa nkhanizo ndikuzichita movutikira.
Chifukwa chiyani azimayi amabera: Zofala zomwe zimachitika chifukwa chobera azimayi
Zifukwa zomwe amai amabera amuna awo ndizosiyana ndi zomwe zimapangitsa amuna kukhala osakhulupirika. Pansipa pali zifukwa zina zofala kuti azimayi azinamiza anzawo.
Mungadabwe ndi zina mwa zifukwa zosakhulupirika zachikazi!
1. Amakhala pachiwopsezo pamaganizidwe
Amayi akawona kuti ali pachiwopsezo amayamba kufunafuna mphamvu ndi chitsimikizo chomwe munthu angapereke. Mnyamata akasamuka panthawiyi, atha kugona naye usiku womwewo. Izi zimayankha chifukwa chomwe akazi amabera amuna awo.
Onetsetsani kuti mkazi wanu akumva kukhala otetezeka ndi inu. Mwanjira imeneyi, samakonda kufunafuna mphamvu ndikulimbikitsidwa kwina.
2. Amakumba golide
Kodi amakukondani, kapena amakukondani chifukwa cha ndalama zanu?
Amayi ena amakumba zenizeni za golide. Amakhudzidwa kwambiri ndi ndalama zomwe muli nazo komanso zosangalatsa zomwe mungapereke kuposa momwe amakusamalirani. Chimodzi mwazifukwa zomwe akazi okwatirana amanyenga atha kukhala chifukwa chakukonda golide.
Palibe tanthauzo kuti mugwiritse mkazi wotereyu chifukwa azimayi awa amabera amuna awo, mosasintha. Nthawi zonse padzakhala amuna omwe ali ndi ndalama zambiri ndipo azingopitilizabe kuchita zomwezo mobwerezabwereza.
3. Amatha kubera mayeso chifukwa ali pachibwenzi
Amaganiza kuti ali ndi vuto laubwenzi. Koma chowonadi ndichakuti si mphindi iliyonse yaubwenzi yomwe idzadzaze ndi zipsinjo zachikondi komanso zovuta zakugonana. Nthawi zambiri ngati mkazi wasungulumwa pachibwenzi, amatha kuchita zachiwerewere.
Ubale uliwonse umakhala ndi zotsika, ndi gawo lamasewera. Chovuta ndikumamatira pamodzi ndikuwongolera zinthu.
Koma kwa iye, akhoza kungotenga njira yosavuta ndikudziuza kuti akuyenera. Ichi ndi chimodzi mwazifukwa zomwe azimayi amakhala ndi zochitika pomwe ubale wawo umagunda madzi osasangalatsa.
4. Amakumana ndi bambo yemwe amamupangitsa kumva bwino
Ndikukhulupirira kuti mumawadziwa. Amuna owoneka olimba mtima omwe ali ndi chithumwa komanso malankhulidwe osalala. Si zachilendo kuti mkazi wokwatiwa wosasangalala agwere amuna awa.
Amagwera pakuyamikira komanso machitidwe azisangalalo za amuna awa.
Chimene chimayamba monga ‘kusangalala chabe’ chingasanduke mofulumira osati kungosangalala chabe. Izi ndichifukwa chake azimayi amakhala ndi zochitika m'malo mokhala m'mipanda yazitali.
Pali gawo la anthu omwe amafuna kudziwa kuti ndichifukwa chiyani akazi okwatirana amakopana ndipo ali ndi zolinga zotani pochita izi.
Pali azimayi ena okwatiwa omwe sakufuna kulowa nawo pachibwenzi chenicheni.
Kwa iwo, kuchita chibwenzi pang'ono, chowoneka ngati chopanda vuto ndichinthu chodetsako. Ndi chisangalalo chosakhalitsa chomwe mphindi yakukopana imapereka, awa si amayi omwe akufuna chibwenzi.
5. Amamva kuti zosowa zake zakugonana sizikwaniritsidwa
Mwamwayi yemwe ayenera kuthana ndi kusowa mphamvu, kuwonongeka kwa erectile kapena kanyumba kakang'ono alibe mwayi.
Amayi ena amawona kuti izi zimawapatsa mwayi woti azinamiza anzawo. Amafuna kuti zilakolako zawo zogonana zikwaniritsidwe, ngakhale wokondedwa wawo.
6. Amasokonezeka maganizo
Monga mukudziwa malingaliro amkazi ali ngati nyanja.
Iwo amatsatira kuchepa ndi kutuluka.
Nthawi zina samatha kusiya kunena za momwe mulili, nthawi zina samatha kungodandaula za inu. Mwamuna wina akamadzilowetsa munthawi yoyenera amatha kutembenuzira mkazi wanu kuti akutsutseni ndikupambananso iye.
7. Amalandira chithandizo kuchokera kwa iye
Akazi amafuna kumvedwa. Amafuna kuwalimbikitsa. Ndipo ngati simungampatse, apita kukapeza kwina.
Nthawi zina phewa lodalira limakhala kamagona.
Mwakutero ndikofunikira kuti muzipezeka m'maganizo mwake komanso momwe mungathere. Kuti nonse mulimbikitsane. Kupatula kulumikizana, ichi ndi chimodzi mwazoyala zaubwenzi wabwino.
8. Sangathe kulimbana ndi mayeserowo
Kodi mungatani ngati atsikana okongola angakumenyeni kulikonse komwe mungapite?
Amayi amakhala akumenyedwa pafupipafupi. Sizodabwitsa kuti atha kugonja nthawi ina, ndiye chifukwa chake azimayi amabera chifukwa chakuchuluka kwawo kuti agonjere mayeserowo.
9. Pamene wokondedwa wake alibe nthawi yoti akhale naye
Amayi amafunikira kukondana komanso kugonana. Ngati mwakhala otanganidwa kwambiri amayamba kumva kuti anyalanyazidwa.
Zotsatira zake, atha kupita kukakumana kukakumana kwina.
Nthawi zonse khalani ndi nthawi yocheza.
Ndi chizoloŵezi chabwino kukhala ndi madzulo amodzi pa sabata kwa wina ndi mnzake, ndikukhalanso ndi wina ndi mnzake. Ziwone ngati mtundu wamasana usiku, monga momwe mumachitira mukamayesayesa kuti apambane mtima wake.
Kungakhale kovuta kuti amuna amvetsetse chifukwa chomwe amayi amabera, mosasamala kanthu za kudziwa zomwe zimachitika chifukwa cha kusakhulupirika kapena kulowa m'madzi azimayi okwatiwa.
Koma pamapeto pake, aliyense ali ndi zifukwa zake pazomwe amachita.
Chifukwa chake, kwa amuna omwe amawerenga chifukwa chomwe akazi amabera, ndikofunikira kuti muzimusamalira bwino mkazi wanu, kupereka nthawi yanu ndi mphamvu zake kwa iye ndikuwonetsetsa kuti mukudziwa zosowa zake.
Izi ndizomwe zimamupangitsa kuti akhalebe wosangalala komanso kukhala limodzi pomwe akuyembekeza kuthana ndi kusakhulupirika kwa amayi.