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Mavesi a m'Baibulo onena za chikondi ndi njira yabwino yolumikizirana ndi Ambuye wina akagwa pansi.
Anthu ambiri zimawavuta kuwona chikondi cha Mlengi wawo. Njira yabwino yolumikizirana ndi ambuye ndi kudzera mu Bukhu Lake. Mukawerenga mavesi a m'Baibulo onena za chikondi, mumalumikizana m'njira yomwe imakusiyani ndikumverera koyera komanso kopanda tanthauzo, kuti mumayiwala zowawa zanu zonse.
Nawa mavesi abwino kwambiri okhudza chikondi komanso mavesi a m'Baibulo onena za chikondi ndi banja omwe angakuthandizeni kuthana ndi zovuta zammoyo wanu ndi chilichonse chomwe chikuchitika mozungulira.
1. Kukhululuka
Ngati mukuvutika kukhululuka mnzanu kapena kungomukonda kuposa inu nokha, pitirizani kulingalira za "Ndine wokondedwa wanga, ndipo wokondedwa wanga ndi wanga." ~ Nyimbo ya Solomo 8: 3. Izi zimathandizira kuzindikira kuti mwamuna alibe kanthu popanda mkazi wake, ndipo mkazi palibe chilichonse popanda mwamuna wake.
Ili ndi limodzi mwa mavesi abwino kwambiri okhudza chikondi.
Ukwati ndi dzina lokhala ndi gulu lalikulu, pomwe onse awiri amadzipereka kwambiri kuti zinthu zikuyendere bwino ndikuyenda bwino.
Onse awiri ayenera kukhala ofanana pamalingaliro aliwonse omwe ali nawo, monga chikondi, ulemu, ndi kukondana. “Akazi, mverani amuna anu, monga kuyenera mwa Ambuye. Amuna inu, kondani akazi anu, ndipo musawawire mtima iwo. ” ~ Akolose 3: 18-19, ndi amodzi mwa mavesi abwino kwambiri okhudza chikondi ndi banja.
2. Chifukwa cha chikondi
Zikafika pamavesi a m'Baibulo onena za chikondi, palibe chomwe chingagonjetse "Ikani ine ngati chidindo pamtima mwanu, ngati chidindo padzanja lanu; pakuti chikondi chiri champhamvu ngati imfa, nsanje yake yosasunthika ngati manda. Amayaka ngati moto woyaka, ngati lawi lamphamvu. Madzi ambiri sangathe kuzimitsa chikondi; mitsinje singayikokoloke nayo. Ngati wina atapereka chuma chonse cha mnyumba mwake mwachikondi, akhoza kunyozedwa. ” ~ Nyimbo ya Solomo 8: 6, pomwe chikondi chimapambana onse.
Mulungu adalenga amuna kuti azikondedwa ndi mkazi, ndipo akazi azikondedwa ndi kutetezedwa ndi mwamuna.
Ayenera kuthandizana pawiri nthawi zonse amakhala abwino kuposa m'modzi. Chifukwa chake chabwino kwambiri m'mavesi onse okhudza ukwati wachikondi ndi chakuti, “Awiri aposa mmodzi; Akagwa, wina akhoza kuthandiza mnzakeyo. Koma, chisoni aliyense amene wagwa ndipo alibe womuthandiza. Komanso awiri akagona pamodzi, azimva kutentha.
Koma, munthu angadziwe bwanji yekha? Ngakhale m'modzi atha kugonjetsedwa, awiri akhoza kudziteteza. Chingwe cha nkhosi zitatu sichiduka msanga. ” ~ Mlaliki 4: 9-12
Palibe chinthu china champhamvu kuposa chikondi chopanda malire, ichi ndi chomwe chimasowetsa machimo athu ndikutipulumutsira. Sichisirira; sichidzitama; sichinyada. Sichititsa manyazi ena; sichikufuna chokha; sichipsa mtima msanga; sichisunga mbiri ya zolakwika. Chikondi sichikondwera ndi zoipa koma chimakondwera ndi choonadi. Zimateteza nthawi zonse, zimakhulupirira nthawi zonse, zimayembekeza nthawi zonse, zimapilira nthawi zonse- Akorinto 13: 4-7. ”
3. Kuyanjana mwamphamvu
Palibe mantha mchikondi.
Komabe, chikondi changwiro chimathamangitsa mantha chifukwa chimakhudzana ndi chilango. "Womwe amawopa sakhala wangwiro m'chikondi" - 1 Yohane 4:18.
Kuwerenga ndikumvetsetsa izi kukuthandizani kuzindikira kuti mavesi abwino kwambiri okhudza chikondi amatiuza kuti chikondi ndi chisamaliro osati mantha kapena chilango.
Kuwerenga mavesi a m'Baibulo okhudza chikondi ndi maubwenzi kumalimbikitsa anthu omwe akuvutikira tsiku ndi tsiku chifukwa cha chikondi ndi ubale wawo. Zimawathandiza kuzindikira kuti kulimbana kwawo sikopanda phindu. Monga vesi ili, "Khalani odzichepetsa kwathunthu ndi odekha; mukhale oleza mtima, ndi opirirana wina ndi mnzake, mwa cikondi. Yesetsani kusunga umodzi wa Mzimu mwamtendere. ”- Aefeso 4: 2-3
4. Kwa bwenzi labwino kwambiri
Ngati mukuvutika kupeza bwenzi labwino, pezani chitonthozo m'mawu a Mbuye wanu powerenga mavesi a m'Baibulo onena za kupeza chikondi.
"Kondwerani mwa Ambuye, ndipo Iye adzakupatsani zokhumba mtima wanu." Masalmo 37: 4. Izi zikutiuza kuti sitiyenera kuda nkhawa.
Ngati mukuganiza kuti zinthu zikuyenderani bwino musanakwatirane, Ambuye akukuuzani mosiyana, "Iye amene wapeza mkazi apeza chinthu chabwino ndipo amapeza chisomo ndi Ambuye." Miyambo 18:22. Palibe vesi lomwe limafotokoza zaukwati ndi chikondi monga vesi ili limanenera kuti, “Mukhalirane okoma wina ndi mnzake, a mtima wachifundo, akukhululukirana nokha, monganso Mulungu mwa Kristu anakhululukira inu.” - Aefeso 4:32.
Mavesi onse a m'Baibulo onena za chikondi amatiphunzitsa kukhala okoma mtima, oleza mtima, ndi okhululuka kwa okondedwa athu.