Zamkati
- Kutanthauzira kwa ubongo wa narcissist
- 1. Luntha
- 2. Pitani
- 3. Kukonda kukhala ndi ulamuliro kapena mphamvu
- 4. Chidwi chochepa pa kugonana
- Momwe mungachitire ndi mwamuna waubongo wa narcissist?
- 1. Musagwere m'mawu awo
- 2. Pewani kukangana
- 3. Osamanyengerera
Wolemba zamatsenga amatha kukhala ovuta kuthana naye.
Amachitira nkhanza anzawo ndipo nthawi zonse amadziona kuti ndi apamwamba kuposa ena onse. Amakondwera kunyazitsa ena mwina pokhala amwano kapena kusewera ndi malingaliro awo. Makamaka, ma narcissist amagwiritsa ntchito thupi lawo kufuna mphamvu kapena malingaliro awo.
Yemwe amasewera ndi malingaliro amatchedwa cerebral narcissist.
Kutanthauzira kwa ubongo wa narcissist
Cerebral Narcissists amasewera ndi malingaliro awo. Amakhulupirira kuti atha kukhala aluso. Kwa iwo, kukhala anzeru komanso anzeru ndiyo njira yabwino yolamulira ena.
Kunyada kwawo ndiko komwe kumachokera.
Amadziwika kuti amasonyeza nzeru zawo nthawi iliyonse yomwe akukambirana. Amatha kugwiritsa ntchito mawu ovuta, kuti adziwe zambiri kuti adzawagwiritse ntchito mtsogolo, ndipo apereka malingaliro ena othandiza.
Amayang'ana kwambiri kukopa ena kudzera pakulamulira kwawo chilankhulo ndi luntha lawo, zomwe zimayika ena pansi pawo. Amaletsa mayanjano awo pokhulupirira kuti anthu ambiri owazungulira ndiopanda nzeru komanso opusa.
Amakonda kucheza ndi gulu la anthu anzeru kapena anthu apamwamba.
Makhalidwe a Cerebral Narcissist
1. Luntha
Cerebral narcissists amadya nzeru.
Amakhulupirira kuti ndi anzeru kuposa anzawo ndipo amadziwa zonse. Amaphunzira zambiri ndipo amagwiritsa ntchito izi pakafunika kutero. Amakonda kunyalanyaza ena pokambirana kapena kuwapangitsa kudzimva opusa.
Amaonetsetsa kuti apambana mkangano uliwonse kapena zokambirana.
2. Pitani
Chimodzi mwazikhalidwe za narcissist zaubongo ndikuti amakhala ndi chidwi chachikulu.
Izi ndi zotsatira za luntha lawo. Sangatenge ayi ndipo sangakhale ndi wina aliyense pamwamba pawo. Kwa iwo, pafupifupi munthu aliyense wowazungulira ndiopusa kapena wopanda nzeru. Amakonda kulamulira anzawo.
Kuwakana kapena kuwatsimikizira kuti ali olakwa kungatanthauze kuti mukuvulaza malingaliro awo.
3. Kukonda kukhala ndi ulamuliro kapena mphamvu
Ndi luntha lawo, amafuna kuti akhale ndiudindo pomwe kuwongolera kapena kuwongolera anthu kumakhala kosavuta. Amaonetsetsa kuti anthu omwe ali pansi pawo ndi anzeru zochepa ndipo amachita monga akunenera.
Sangatenge 'ayi' kuti ayankhe.
4. Chidwi chochepa pa kugonana
Chifukwa chanzeru zambiri, aletsa kucheza nawo.
Sakonda kucheza ndi anthu omwe ali ndi IQ yocheperako. Kwa iwo, kutero kungatanthauze kunyozeka. Kuphatikiza apo, sangakhale pachibwenzi ndi anthu omwe amawona kuti ndi anzeru.
Amakonda kukonda maliseche kuposa kugona nawo.
Momwe mungachitire ndi mwamuna waubongo wa narcissist?
Sizovuta kwenikweni kukhala pachibwenzi ndi munthu wamankhwala osokoneza bongo.
Amadziona kuti ndi apamwamba ndipo salemekeza ena. Amakhulupirira kuti ali pamwamba pa zonse chifukwa ndi anzeru ndipo amanyadira kudziwa kwawo komanso ungwiro. Mukakhala pachibwenzi ndi munthu wotere, zimakhala zovuta kukhala ndi moyo wosangalala.
Padzakhala zochitika zingapo zomwe mumalemekezedwa kapena mumadziona ngati opusa.
Koposa zonse, narcissist wamaubongo amapewa ubale wakuthupi. Safuna kuchita nawo zachiwerewere, ndipo zimachitika kawirikawiri ngakhale atatero.Amapeza chisangalalo chawo pokhala anzeru, anzeru, komanso kuyamikiridwa komwe amapeza pantchito yawo ndi ungwiro wawo.
Zinthu ngati izi zimatha kubweretsa kusiyana pakati panu ndi ubongo wanu wa narcissist wabwino.
Nayi zidule zomwe zingakuthandizeni kupitiliza ubale wanu ndi mnzanu.
1. Musagwere m'mawu awo
Mosakayikira adzakuchitira zoyipa ndipo amayesa kutsimikizira kuti ndiwe wopusa ndipo sudziwa kanthu.
Kumbukirani kuti ndi umodzi mwamakhalidwe awo.
Ndiwanzeru ndipo amakhulupirira kuti ena owazungulira ndiopusa. Kudyetsa mavuto ena ndi chikondi kutsimikizira kuti ena ndi olakwika. Ndiwankhanza ndipo sasamala za momwe aliyense akumvera.
Chifukwa chake, akamakupusitsani, musawakhumudwitse. Awa ndiomwe ali, ndipo palibe chomwe chingasinthe izi.
Ingokhulupirirani nokha ndikukhala ndi moyo wosangalala.
2. Pewani kukangana
Zikudziwika kuti simungathe kupambana nawo mkangano. Mwa mwayi, ngati mungatero, mutha kukhumudwitsa chidwi chawo chachikulu, chomwe pamapeto pake chitha kukulitsa vuto.
Chifukwa chake, musakangane nawo.
Iwo amawerengedwa bwino ndipo amayesera kupititsa patsogolo luntha lawo. Sangaganizire kawiri asanakutsutseni mumkangano uliwonse. Kupambana mkangano si yankho labwino kwambiri pamavuto anu. Chifukwa chake, ikani mkanganowo pambali ndikungopewa, momwe mungathere.
Izi zitha kukhala zovuta, koma ndiye yankho labwino kwambiri.
3. Osamanyengerera
Wogwiritsa ntchito ubongo amakonda kuwongolera anthu.
Amakonda kukhala ndiudindo ndipo samaphonya mwayi wolamulira ena. Chifukwa chake, atha kuyamba kukuyesani posonyeza kuti simuli abwino komanso opusa. Angathenso kuwonetsa kuti muli ndi mwayi wokhala ndi mwamuna wanzeru ngati iye.
Zinthu izi zikachitika, ingonyalanyazani. Musalole kuti akupusitseni kudzera mu luntha lawo. Kumbukirani, munthu aliyense ndi wabwino m'njira zawo. Simunthu oyipa kapena opusa.