Zamkati
- 1. Kulemekezana
- 2. Lankhulani
- 3. Gwirizanani kuti simukugwirizana
- 4. Yendani kwa Ambuye pamodzi
- 5. Kuthetsa vutolo
- 6. Osamutchula mnzanuyo ndi mayina onyoza
- 7. Limbikitsani mnzanu
- 8. Muyenera kuthandizidwa
- 9. Mnzanuyo si mdani wanu
- 10. Palibe chomwe chingagonjetse kuwona mtima
- 11. Khalani ndi chizolowezi chomamverana
Uphungu suli woipa konse, makamaka pamene akukondana.
Ikubwera nthawi muukwati pomwe nonse mwina simudzadziwa zamtsogolo ndipo simukudziwa komwe mungapite nazo patsogolo. Zitha kukhala zovuta kwambiri ngati ukupembedza.
Pali malo ambiri achikristu operekera mabanja, zomwe munthu ayenera kuchita ndikuyang'ana.
Komabe, lingaliro loti mabanja achikhristu apeze upangiri waukwati ndilovuta. Komabe, pali maupangiri ena omwe muyenera kukumbukira ngati mukufunafuna upangiri wachikhristu wokhudza maukwati.
1. Kulemekezana
Kwa okwatirana, ndikofunikira kuti azilemekeza aliyense.
Ukwati umayenda bwino ngati onse awiri akugwiritsa ntchito nthawi ndi mphamvu zofanana kuti zinthu zitheke.
Kukhala pabanja sikophweka konse. Pali maudindo angapo ndi zinthu zomwe munthu ayenera kuchita m'zochita zawo za tsiku ndi tsiku. Chifukwa chake, mukangoyamba kulemekezana, lingaliro laudindo limabwera ndipo mudzawona kusintha.
2. Lankhulani
Ngakhale mutapita kukafunsira ukwati wachikhristu, angakulimbikitseni yankho lomwelo pamavuto onse omwe mwakumana nawo.
Lankhulani. Nthawi zambiri timangotenga zinthu mopepuka ndikukhulupirira kuti wina ayenera kuti wazimvetsetsa. Kunena zowona, mwina sanatero. Chifukwa chake, kuti timveke bwino, tiyenera kulankhula, za mavuto omwe tikukumana nawo komanso zovuta zomwe tili nazo. Izi ziziwonetsetsa kuti mnzanu amadziwa mavuto anu ndipo alipo kuti akuthandizeni, nthawi iliyonse yomwe mungafune.
3. Gwirizanani kuti simukugwirizana
Sikoyenera kunena zabwino nthawi zonse. Komanso, sikofunikira kuti muziganiza mokweza kapena kukhala ndi malingaliro pazonse.
Nthawi zina, muyenera kuvomereza kuti musagwirizane. Mwachitsanzo, amakhulupirira kuti malaya amtundu wakuda amamupangitsa kuti aziwoneka wanzeru, pomwe simukugwirizana ndi izi. Kulankhula kapena kugawana izi mokweza kumangobweretsa zokangana kapena zovuta kwa mnzanu.
Chifukwa chake, m'malo mowadziwitsa, ingokhala chete ndikulola kuti zinthu zichitike. Pamapeto pake, chisangalalo chawo ndichofunika, sichoncho?
4. Yendani kwa Ambuye pamodzi
Monga upangiri wa maukwati achikhristu, ndikofunikira kuti mupemphere kapena kuchezera tchalitchi limodzi. Kukhala ndi nthawi yamtengo wapatali ndi Ambuye kukupatsani chisangalalo komanso chitonthozo.
Mukamachitira zinthu limodzi, mumakhala osangalala m'banja lanu.
5. Kuthetsa vutolo
Monga upangiri waulere waukwati wachikhristu, njira yabwino kwambiri yochitira ndi chilichonse ndikukumana nawo. Pakhoza kukhala nthawi yomwe mukulimbana ndi zinthu m'moyo wanu wabanja.
M'malo mothawa vutolo, limbana nalo. Lankhulani ndi mnzanuyo ndipo kambiranani za vuto lomwe mwawona ndikuyesera kupeza yankho lake.
6. Osamutchula mnzanuyo ndi mayina onyoza
Lero, sitiganiza zambiri tisananene chilichonse. Timangonena ndikulapa pambuyo pake.
Mwina simukuzindikira koma mawu onyoza amaika mnzanu pamalo omangika ndipo akumva kuwawa. Sizabwino konse kutero.
Chifukwa chake, siyani pomwepo ndikuwona izi ngati chofunikira pakulangiza maukwati achikhristu.
7. Limbikitsani mnzanu
Aliyense amafunikira chilimbikitso kapena kukankha pang'ono nthawi zina m'moyo wake. Amangofuna thandizo kuti athe kugonjetsa dziko lapansi.
Mukapeza mwayi umodzi wotere, ingodumphirani. Muthandizireni mnzanuyo ndikumulimbikitsa momwe angathere.
8. Muyenera kuthandizidwa
Njira yoyamba yopezera upangiri wamaukwati achikhristu ndikuvomereza kuti mukufuna thandizo. Yemwe amafunafuna thandizo amalandira.
Ngati mukuganiza kuti nonse ndinu abwino ndipo simukusowa thandizo ngakhale banja lanu likukumana ndi mavuto ambiri, palibe amene angakuthandizeni. Chifukwa chake, zivomerezani kuti mukufuna thandizo ndipo mudzalipeza nthawi imeneyo.
9. Mnzanuyo si mdani wanu
Ndizowona kuti ukwati ungakhale wovuta. Padzakhala nthawi yomwe mungakhale pansi pamavuto akulu komabe muyenera kuchichita.
Ngakhale zitakhala bwanji, upangiri wa maukwati achikhristu sumapereka lingaliro loti muziyang'ana mnzanu ngati mdani wanu. M'malo mwake, muwawone ngati makina anu othandizira omwe angakuthandizeni munthawi yoyipa.
Tsiku lomwe mudzalandire, zinthu zidzayamba kusintha.
10. Palibe chomwe chingagonjetse kuwona mtima
Kunena zowona, ndi ntchito yovuta kwambiri. Komabe, Baibulo limatiphunzitsa kuti tiyenera kukhala owona mtima kwa wina ndi mnzake, zivute zitani.
Chifukwa chake, muyenera kukhala achilungamo kwa anzanu zakukhosi kwanu komanso malingaliro anu. Simungathe kuwabera, zivute zitani. Ndipo ngati mukuganiza kuti mukukhala ndi malingaliro ena, ndikofunikira kuti mukayendere upangiri wamaukwati achikhristu koyambirira.
11. Khalani ndi chizolowezi chomamverana
Chimodzi mwa zifukwa zomwe banja limayendera bwino ndikuti amverana.
Onetsetsani kuti mumvetsera zomwe mnzanu akunena kapena kugawana nawo. Nthawi zina, theka lavutoli limathetsedwa pomangomverana.
Padzakhala kukayikira komanso nkhawa zambiri popita kukalandira upangiri wa mabanja achikhristu. Ndibwino kukhala ndi mindandanda yanu yamilandu yamaukwati achikhristu ndikufunsani katswiri yemwe amakukayikirani.
Kumbukirani, sikoipa kupita kamodzi ngati muli paukwati wovuta.