Zamkati
- Lankhulani ndi mnzanu za upangiri wa m'banja kuti muwone ngati angathe kutero.
- 1. Kuyankhulana kwawonongeka
- 2. Kukangana sikumabweretsa chilichonse chopindulitsa
- 3. M'banja mwanu muli zinsinsi
- 4. Mukumva kuti sakukhudzidwa
- 5. Simuyenera kusintha mnzanu
- 6. Musamadikire kuti muthandizidwe
Mgwirizano wanu wakale unali wodzaza ndi mavuto. Masiku omwe mumathamangira kunyumba kuchokera kuntchito, wofunitsitsa kuti mukhale ndi nthawi yocheza ndi mnzanu tsopano akuwoneka ngati ndikutali. Tsopano mupeza zifukwa ayi kubwera kunyumba kuti musadzakumanenso ndi nkhondo ina, kapena choyipa, kungokhala chete. Mukuganiza ngati zingakhale zosavuta kupatukana. Koma mumadzifunsanso ngati sikuchedwa kuti mupulumutse banja lanu. Kodi ubale wanu ungakhale bwino ngati mupita kukalandira upangiri mbanja?
Lankhulani ndi mnzanu za upangiri wa m'banja kuti muwone ngati angathe kutero.
- Fotokozani momwe mukumvera komanso zomwe mukufuna kuchita pofunafuna wothandizira. Pogwiritsa ntchito mawu odekha, onaninso limodzi ndi mnzanu zoyesayesa zam'mbuyomu zokuthandizani kuti banja likhale labwino ndikumuuza kuti mwathera malingaliro oti musinthe zinthu. Muuzeni kuti aganizire kuthekera kwakuti kugwira ntchito ndi othandizira kungapulumutse banja lanu.
- Sungani zokambiranazo pansi, osakuwa kapena kulira. Ngati mukuona kuti mikangano ikukula, uzani amuna anu kuti mukuyenera kupuma.
- Pangani zinthu zazifupi komanso zachidule. Chitani kafukufuku wanu ndipo mukhale ndi mayina a othandizira ena akumaloko. Ganizirani zokoka zinthu zawo pa intaneti ndikufunsa amuna anu kuti asankhe chimodzi chomwe akuganiza kuti chingakhale chabwino kwa nonse. Izi zimupatsa lingaliro lakumwini pachisankho ichi chobweretsa thandizo lakunja kuti mupulumutse banja lanu.
Nazi zifukwa zina zoyeserera uphungu musanapite ku khothi lakusudzulana:
1. Kuyankhulana kwawonongeka
Ichi ndiye chifukwa chachikulu chomwe anthu amafunsira kwa othandizira kapena mlangizi. Mavuto ambiri omwe maanja amakumana nawo angathe kuthandizidwa pogwiritsa ntchito zida zoyankhulirana bwino. Mlangizi woyenerera pabanja angakuthandizeni osati kukambirana moyenera komanso kukuphunzitsani momwe mungalumikizirane bwino kunja kwa ofesi ya wothandizira. Kukambirana kulikonse mukamakangana kudzathera pakulimbana, muyenera kubweretsa katswiri kuti akuthandizeni kupita patsogolo ndikuphunzira kuyankhulana wina ndi mnzake pogwiritsa ntchito ulemu.
2. Kukangana sikumabweretsa chilichonse chopindulitsa
Kodi mumangonena chimodzimodzi mobwerezabwereza mukamalimbana ndi mnzanu? Kodi chilichonse chimakhala "Mumachita ZONSE ......" kapena "SIMUKHALA ...." Mlangizi m'banja atha kukuthandizani “Kukangana”, kukuphunzitsani chilankhulo chomwe chingakugwirizanitseni kotero kuti mukulimbana ndi vutoli osamalimbana.
3. M'banja mwanu muli zinsinsi
Mwina m'modzi wa inu ali ndi chibwenzi. Kapena zochitika pa intaneti. Kapena kumangoganizira zokhala ndi zibwenzi komanso kuwerenga masamba azibwenzi. Kodi m'modzi wa inu amabisala ndalama kapena kuwononga ndalama pazinthu zomwe mukubisalira mnzanu, ngati zovala zatsopano? Kuti mubwezeretse kukhulupirirana ndikusunthira kuubwenzi wokonda kwambiri, zinsinsi zomwe mukusunga ziyenera kufotokozedwera ndi mnzanu, potetezedwa ndi ofesi ya othandizira. Izi sizovuta, koma pothandizira mlangizi waukwati kutsogolera zokambirana, mutha kupewa kuwonongeka kosayerekezeka mukaulula zomwe mwakhala mukubisa.
4. Mukumva kuti sakukhudzidwa
Mkwiyo ndi mkwiyo zakula kwambiri kotero kuti mukulephera kukhala ndi chikondi kwa wokondedwa wanu. Simugonananso ndikutembenuzana wina ndi mnzake pabedi. Inu nonse mumakhala moyo wosiyana; mulibe chidwi chocheza limodzi. Mukuwoneka kuti mukukhala limodzi kuposa mwamuna ndi mkazi. Chifukwa simalumikizana mwakuthupi, kulumikizana kwanu ndikofooka. Mlangizi pabanja atha kukuthandizani kuti mufike pachimake cha mkwiyo ndikuwonetsani njira zobwezeretsera kukondana komanso kugonana komwe mudali nako kale.
5. Simuyenera kusintha mnzanu
Mlangizi wazokwatirana adzakuthandizani kuzindikira kuti simungasinthe anthu ena, mutha kungodzisintha nokha komanso momwe mumachitira ndi anthu ena. Phungu amakuthandizani kuti mukhale ndi moyo wabwino komanso kuti musamaganizire za momwe mungasinthire mnzanu. Wokondedwa wanu ndi yemwe ali ndipo zomwe sizingasinthe, ngakhale pa chikondi chonse padziko lapansi. Uphungu umakuthandizani kupanga chisankho: mwina mungakhale ndi mnzanu momwe iye aliri, kapena mukusintha momwe mumamuchitira, kapena mungasankhe kuchoka.
6. Musamadikire kuti muthandizidwe
Maanja omwe amafunafuna upangiri mbanja mavuto awo asanafike poti sangakonzeke amakhala opambana pobweza banja lawo kukhala lachimwemwe ndi lachikondi. Ngakhale maubale onse azikhala okwera komanso otsika, lingalirani zokambirana ndi mlangizi wamaukwati mukayamba kumva kuti zovuta zikuchulukirachulukira. Ndi chitsogozo choyenera, mutha kumanganso mgwirizano wanu kuti ukhale wabwino kuposa kale.