Zamkati
- 1. Konzekerani patsogolo
- 2. Musalole kuti kupsinjika kukhale pachibwenzi
- 3. Chibwenzi m'maganizo, m'maganizo, komanso pagulu
- Tengera kwina
Pofuna kulimbitsa ndikukula banja lanu, nkofunika kudziwa kaye ndikuwunika momwe zikuyendera.
Kuyesa kucheza nthawi yabwino ndi mnzanu ndizovuta, ndikhulupirireni ndikudziwa. Pakati pa ntchito, masinthidwe osiyanasiyana, kuyendetsa bizinesi, kugwira ntchito mochedwa, kugula zakudya, kugona, ana, komanso kutopa kwenikweni.
Ndikosavuta kupeza nthawi yolanda akazi anu kapena kusamalira amuna anu.
Koma ndikofunikira ndikofunikira kwambiri kuti musunge zibwenzi ndikusungabe moto wanu. Ndili ndi mwana wamkazi wazaka ziwiri ndipo sangakwanitse kuchita chilichonse nthawi imodzi. Osandimvera chisoni, mwina mukudutsanso kapena tsiku lina, choncho konzekerani gehena padziko lapansi.
Koma sindinasinthanenso ndi dziko lapansi. Iye wakhala dalitso ku moyo wanga. Adandiphunzitsa kuleza mtima, chikondi, komanso kuti ndiyenera kukhalabe wokhazikika ngati ndikufuna kutsatira miyendo yake yaying'ono.
Nawa maupangiri atatu amomwe mungayambire chibwenzi kachiwiri, onjezerani pang'ono kuukwati wanu, ndikusangalala ndi nthawi yanu yokha (wink wink) ndi mnzanu.
1. Konzekerani patsogolo
Ndikukhulupirira kwambiri kuti kukonzekera masiku oti mudzakhalepo msanga ndikofunikira kuti banja lanu liziyenda bwino. Ndipo amuna, inunso mutha kutsogoza, sikuti nthawi zonse mumangowasiyira akazi anu kuti akonzekere kaye usiku. Mutha kukonzekera masiku anu milungu isanakwane kapena miyezi.
Sayenera kukhala yayikulu kwambiri, imangofunika kukhala chete, yamtendere, komanso yapadera. Mbalame ziwiri zokha zachikondi.
Mutha kupita kukawonera makanema, kudya chakudya chamadzulo, kuyenda paki mukamadya ayisikilimu kapena yoghurt yachisanu, kapena kupita ku spa limodzi ndikumasula nkhawa mukamamwa vinyo wabwino kapena champagne. Chilichonse chimagwira ntchito kwa inu nonse.
Monga ndidanenera kale, sikuyenera kukhala KWAKUKULU, zonse zomwe mungafune ndikuwononga nthawi yabwino mosadodometsedwa wina ndi mnzake. Ndipo kuti zitsimikizike kuti izi zikuyenda bwino, onetsetsani kuti mwapeza wolera, wachibale wapafupi, kapena agogo aamuna oti aziwonerera mwana wanu mukamapita kukacheza.
Izi siziyenera kukhala zomwe zimachitika kumapeto kwa sabata iliyonse, koma lankhulanani ndi mnzanuyo ndipo muzituluka kangapo pamwezi, ndikupanga ZOCHITIKA! Mwambiwu umati, “usasiye kukhala pachibwenzi ndi mkazi wako, ndipo usasiye kukopana ndi mwamuna wako.”
2. Musalole kuti kupsinjika kukhale pachibwenzi
Nthawi zina timalola kuti moyo wathu watsiku ndi tsiku usokoneze banja lathu. Timabweretsa ntchito kunyumba, kupsinjika kwathu, nyumba yokhumudwa, nyumba yamkwiyo, komanso kutopa kwathu. Ndipo sitimazisiya pakhomo, timazibweretsa kunyumba kwathu mwamtendere. Ndipo nthawi zina zimakhudza momwe timayankhira ndi momwe timachitira ndi mnzathu. Sizili momwe timafunira, koma nthawi zina timalola kupsyinjika kupitilira zomwe zili zolondola.
Ichi ndichifukwa chake nthawi zina kukhala pachibwenzi kumawoneka ngati kosatheka chifukwa kumapeto kwa sabata zomwe timafuna kuchita ndi kugona, kupumula, kupumula!
Koma sitingalole zomwe zimachitika Lolemba mpaka Lachisanu zisokoneze mapulani athu kumapeto kwa sabata ndi mnzanu.
Ndazindikira kuti kupanikizika kumatha kukulepheretsani kukhala pachibwenzi ndi akazi anu komanso kukonda mnzanu.
Ichi ndichifukwa chake chibwenzi ndi chofunikira kwambiri, chimakupatsani nthawi yaulere yoyamikira mnzanu, kukonda mnzanu, ndi kuvomereza mnzanu, ndipo nthawi zina kumawononga mnzanu.
Sangalalani ndi tsiku lausiku! Akazi, tengani chovala chatsopano, konzani tsitsi lanu ndi misomali yanu. Amuna, tuluka mnyumba, gogodani pakhomo ndikuchita ngati mulipo kuti mumutenge. Pezani luso! Zonunkhira tsiku lanu moyo. Zidzasintha ukwati wanu.
3. Chibwenzi m'maganizo, m'maganizo, komanso pagulu
Mukamva mawu oti, "tsiku lokhala ndi mkazi kapena mwamuna wanu" timangoganiza kuti zikutanthawuza kutenga mnzanuyo kupita kumalo odyera abwino, kuwononga ndalama, kenako kukondana ndi mnzanuyo kuti timalize usiku. Ndikunena zoona? INDE NDILI! - Koma tifunikanso kukhala pachibwenzi.
Kodi mumakhala pachibwenzi m'malingaliro mumafunsa?
Mumalankhulana ndi mnzanu, mumakambirana mozama, mumafunsa mafunso ozama, komanso mumaseka nawo. Ndi liti pamene ukwati unayamba kukhala wotopetsa?
Kambiranani zokumbukira zabwino komanso nthawi zabwino mukudya limodzi, kumwa tiyi kapena kumwa chotupitsa. Menya zofunkha zake ali kukhitchini kuphika chakudya cham'mawa (sizoyenera, ndi mkazi wako), mbama mbutu uku akuvala kapena kuzembera mopsompsona.
Pangani moyo wanu wachikondi kuti ukhale wosangalatsa komanso wapadera. Amuna, mutha kuphikiranso akazi anu kunyumba, mverani nyimbo zabwino za R&B Jazz Instrumental (zomwe ndimakonda), ndikugawana malingaliro, malingaliro, ndi malingaliro wina ndi mnzake.
Nthawi yabwinoyo imamveka ngati kumwamba padziko lapansi. Mfundo ndiyakuti, simuyenera kupita nthawi zonse kukasangalala ndi mnzanu. Zomwe mukusowa ndi nthawi yaulere, nyumba yaulere, komanso malingaliro anzeru.
Palibe vuto kufunsa god god kapena mulungu kuti aziwonera Timmy pang'ono kumapeto kwa sabata kuti Stella abwezeretse poyambira. Ndicho chimene a godparents analembetsa. Ndikunena zoona? N'ZOONA kuti ine ndalondola!
Tengera kwina
Chezani mnzanu ndi cholinga, mwachikondi, komanso ndi cholinga chenicheni. Musalole kupanikizika, mikangano, kapena maudindo a tsiku ndi tsiku zisokoneze chikondi chanu ndi kudzipereka kwanu. Kondani mnzanu, khalani pachibwenzi ndi mnzanu, ndipo muziyamikira kukhalapo kwawo komanso khama lawo.