Zamkati
- Kodi kugonana ndi amuna ndi akazi ndi chiyani?
- Kugonana kwamkati:
- Biromantic Kugonana
- Demisexual vs Pansexual:
- Greysexual vs Demisexual:
- Mayeso a Demisexual: Zizindikiro kuti ndinu amodzi
- 1. Ubwenzi -
- 2. Kuthamanga kwa tsiku loyamba -
- 3. Osakondana -
- 4. Palibe kutuluka -
- 5. Maganizo odutsa a kugonana -
- 6. Osakopana -
- 6. Kugonana sizinthu zonse -
M'masiku ano, pali anthu ambiri omwe nthawi zambiri amalumphira pakati pa maubwenzi. Amatha kutuluka mu imodzi ndikulowa yatsopano nthawi yomweyo.
Pomwe, pali anthu ena omwe amatenga nthawi asanayambe chibwenzi. Kwa iwo, pali magawo ena aubwenzi, omwe amayamba ndikudziwana ndikumaliza chibwenzi.
Zogonana zatsopano zambiri zatuluka mzaka makumi angapo zapitazi, chimodzi mwazogonana. Tiyeni timvetsetse kuti ndi chiyani komanso ndi zosiyana motani ndi zogonana zina.
Kodi kugonana ndi amuna ndi akazi ndi chiyani?
Pali mitundu yonse ya anthu. Ena amachita zachiwerewere pomwe ena samapeza omwe ali okongola. Ena amawoneka okongola thupi pomwe pali ena omwe amapeza luntha logonana.
Kutanthauzira kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha kumati "ndimakhalidwe azakugonana omwe amadziwika ndi kukopeka ndikangolumikizana ndi munthu winawake. Kukhala ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ndi chisonyezero chothandiza kwa munthu yemwe angagwere paziphuphu. ”
Masiku ano, amuna ndi akazi osiyanasiyana ali ndi mbendera yapadera yomwe imawonetsera kukhumba kwawo komanso malingaliro azakugonana. Monga mbendera ya amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ili ndi utawaleza, mbendera ya amuna ndi akazi imapangidwa ndi mitundu ya asexual yomwe imakonzedwa mosiyana.
Mbendera imakhala ndi makona atatu akuda ochokera mbali yakumanzere, mzere wakuda wakuda pansi ndi mzere wakuda woyera kumtunda, ndi mzere wofiirira pakati.
Mitundu mu mbendera iyi ilinso ndi tanthauzo lina. Mtundu wakuda umaimira zakugonana pomwe pofiirira ndi wa anthu ammudzi. Imvi imasonyeza 'Gray-ace' ndi zoyera zikutanthauza kugonana. Mitunduyo ndi yofanana ndi yomwe imagwiritsidwa ntchito mu mbendera ya asexual, makonzedwe okhawo ndi omwe amasiyana.
Tsopano, monga mukumvetsetsa ndi zomwe demisexual amatanthauza, tiyeni tiwone mitundu iwiri yayikulu.
Kugonana kwamkati:
Njira zowonekera zomwe zingayambitse chibwenzi ndi wina mosasamala za amuna kapena akazi.Sasamala ngati wokondedwa wawo ali wowongoka, wogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, amuna kapena akazi okhaokha kapena amadziwika kuti ndi osiyana.
Biromantic Kugonana
Biromantic anthu ndi omwe amakopeka ndi amuna kapena akazi kapena kupitilira apo. Anthu omwe ali mgululi akufuna kuti azichita zibwenzi ndi anthu osiyana siyana pokhapokha atakhazikitsa kulumikizana.
Anthu ena nthawi zambiri amasokoneza chiwerewerechi ndi zogonana zina monga amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Cholinga chake ndikuti zigwere mofanana.
Tiyeni tiwone kusiyana
Demisexual vs Pansexual:
Tiyeni timvetsetse tanthauzo la kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha kuti timvetse kusiyana pakati pa ziwirizi. Anthu ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ndi omwe amawoneka okongola anthu mosatengera kuti ndi amuna kapena akazi anzawo. Amatha kukopeka ndi munthu wamwamuna, wamkazi, intersex, transgender, mkazi wachitatu, mfumukazi, kapena chilichonse chomwe amadzizindikira nacho.
Komabe, izi sizikutanthauza kuti ali okonzeka kuchita nawo aliyense.
Afuna kutengapo mbali ndi wina yemwe amamuwona wokongola komanso wosangalatsa, koma sangasamale za amuna kapena akazi anzawo.
Greysexual vs Demisexual:
Kugonana kotere ndi mawonekedwe pakati pazakugonana komanso kugonana. Anthu ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha nthawi zina amakopeka ndi kugonana. Demisexuality imagwera mgululi ndipo idapangidwa mu 2008.
Mayeso a Demisexual: Zizindikiro kuti ndinu amodzi
Palibe vuto kusokonezedwa. Chifukwa chake, Nazi zina mwazizindikiro zomwe zingakuthandizeni kufotokoza kukayika kwanu. Tiyeni tiwone.
1. Ubwenzi -
Amayamba ubale wawo podziwa munthu. Sakhala omasuka kugona ndi munthu wina osakondana naye.
Chifukwa chake, njira yabwino yodziwira izi ndikuyang'ana ubale wanu wakale kapena momwe mumakondera. Ngati mukuganiza kuti chibwenzi chanu cham'mbuyomu chidayamba ndiubwenzi kapena wina yemwe mudalumikizana naye, kuposa momwe mungagwere m'gululi.
2. Kuthamanga kwa tsiku loyamba -
Anthu ochokera pagulu lina ali bwino ndi tsiku lawo loyamba koma zikafika kwa anthu omwe ali ndi chiwerewerechi amadzipeza ali m'manda mopanikizika kwambiri patsiku lawo loyamba.
Izi ndichifukwa choti cholinga chanu chonse ndi momwe mungapititsire zinthu patsogolo tsiku. Mwinanso mutha kumalandira upangiri wambiri kuchokera kwa anzanu.
3. Osakondana -
Pomwe anthu ambiri angaganize zokhala ndi thupi pa masiku, mumangokambirana zokambirana. Mukufuna kudziwa munthu bwino, kulumikizana nawo kudzera momwe mumakonda komanso chidwi.
Kukhala pachibwenzi sikofunika kwenikweni mukamakhala pachibwenzi ndi munthu wina.
4. Palibe kutuluka -
Ndizofala kufufuza anthu. Pomwe ena atha kupeza winawake wotentha komanso wokongola, simulakalaka kupezeka kwawo konse. M'malo mwake, mumakonda kwambiri umunthu wa munthu wina kuposa kudzikonda kwanu.
5. Maganizo odutsa a kugonana -
Mumamva zachiwerewere ndi munthu wina koma ndi malingaliro odutsa. Mutha kupeza winawake wokongola kwa masekondi ochepa koma mwadzidzidzi mutha kutuluka mumalingaliro amenewo.
Kwa inu, kukondana ndikofunika kwambiri kuposa kukongola.
6. Osakopana -
Kukopana ndi mlendo kwathunthu sichinthu chanu. Simukuwona lingaliro ili kukhala lokhutiritsa. Mutha kulumikizana ndi anthu osawadziwa ndikusinthana mawu ochepa koma simuli okopana.
6. Kugonana sizinthu zonse -
Pomwe anthu ambiri okuzungulirani atha kukhala ndi chilakolako chogonana pafupipafupi, ndinu m'modzi mwa iwo omwe amawona ngati zosafunikira. Kwa inu, kugonana ndi kwachiwiri. Choyambirira ndikulumikizana kwamaganizidwe.
Pakadali pano muyenera kuti mwamvetsetsa tanthauzo la kutha kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha komanso momwe mungadziwire ngati ndinu m'modzi wa iwo. Palibe vuto kukhala amodzi. Osakwiya ngati simukumva ngati anzanu. Ndinu wabwinobwino. Yamikirani izi!