Zamkati
Banja lililonse liyenera kuyesetsa kukhala omasukirana komanso kukhala owona mtima kwa wina ndi mnzake momwe angathere. Maubale onse abwinobwino amafuna kukhulupirirana, ndipo kutha kulankhulana wina ndi mzake ndi maziko a kudalirana. Anthu okwatirana ayenera kukhala omasuka kukambirana nkhani zingapo kapena zochulukira, ndipo sayenera kuvutika kufotokoza malingaliro awo, ngakhale atakhala kuti akukambirana kapena kukambirana. Ndi nkhani zovuta zomwe zimapewa zomwe zimayambitsa mavuto ambiri.
Pali nkhani zambiri zovuta zomwe maanja sakufuna kukambirana. Kungakhale kulakwitsa kwa m'modzi m'modzi kapena onse awiri. Zochitika m'mbuyomu zitha kulepheretsa wokwatirana m'modzi kuyankhula zazinthu zina. Kungakhale kusowa mwayi, nthawi, kapena malo. Ngakhale ubale ukhoza kuimbidwa mlandu ngati zovuta sizikambidwa. Komabe, cholinga chake sikungodzudzula kapena kudziwa zomwe angayankhe. Payenera kukhala kuyesetsa limodzi kuti zitsimikizire kuti zovuta zimakambidwa. Kupanda kutero, ubalewo ukhoza kutha pang'onopang'ono ndikusamvana.
Nazi zinthu ziwiri zofunika kwambiri zomwe maanja zimawavuta kuzikambirana chifukwa chakumva kwawo:
Ntchito / Ntchito
Pali mabanja omwe amagwira ntchito molimbika kuti banja lawo likhale labwino
Pochita izi, amasokoneza thanzi lawo, nthawi yomwe amakhala limodzi, kuchita zosangalatsa zomwe amakonda kapena zomwe angafune komanso, koposa zonse, kukonza ubale wawo. Ubale si injini yodziyendetsa yokha yomwe ingapitirire muyeso yoyenera. Ntchito ikakhala yofunika kwambiri kapena ngati okwatirana onse akumira mu ntchito, m'modzi kapena onse awiri ayenera kuyimilira kwakanthawi ndikuwona zonse zomwe zikuchitika ndikukambirana zomwe zikuyenera kuchitidwa kuti zisawononge chibale. Timagwira ntchito kuti tikhale ndi moyo wabwino, koma moyowo sungakhale wabwinoko tikataya okondedwa athu panthawiyi.
Khalani ndi zokambirana zovuta izi ndi mnzanu: kodi tikugwira ntchito kuti tikhale ndi moyo, kapena tikukhala kuti tigwire ntchito? Tingapange chiyani limodzi kuti tikwaniritse izi?
Anzanu / Gulu
Ndi maanja ochepa omwe ali ndi mwayi wokwanira kugawana nawo gulu limodzi la abwenzi kapena kukhala ndi malingaliro ofanana pazomwe amakhala. Okwatirana sayenera kukakamizana wina ndi mnzake kuti azikhala kutali ndi anzawo kapena malo ochezera. Mabwenzi ndi gawo lofunikira m'moyo wa aliyense. Komabe, munthu ayenera kujambula mzere wabwino womwe ubale umakhala wofunika kwambiri kuposaukwati kapena ubale. Ndizovuta kwambiri kukambirana nkhani monga kudzipereka pantchito, abwenzi, ndi zochitika zofananira pomwe wina amakhala wofunikira kwambiri kuposa chibwenzi, koma kukambirana nkhani zovuta zotere kumalimbitsa ubale wanu.
Khalani ndi zokambirana izi ndi mnzanu: moyo wathu ndimakhala bwanji? Kodi m'modzi wa ife amafunikira zambiri? Tingapange chiyani limodzi kuti tikwaniritse izi?