Zamkati
- 1. Makope, Makope, Makope
- 2. Gulani mozungulira Woyimira Milandu Wabwino
- 3. Osathamangira Ku Khoti
- 4. Patsani pang'ono, Pezani pang'ono
- 5. Musayembekezere Kuti Zikuchitika Usiku
- 6. Patulani Maganizo Anu ndi Lamulo
- 7. Sungani Zomwe Mungakwanitse, Patsani Zomwe Simungathe
- 8. Sungani Tsiku
Maria ndi mwamuna wake Alan onse anadziwa kwakanthawi kuti chisudzulo sichingapeweke, ndiye kenako kunadza funso loti zichitike bwanji. Mabwenzi ambiri ndi abale anali ofunitsitsa ndi upangiri wosudzulana; koma kwenikweni, Maria ndi Alan amafuna zomwezo: zomwe zinali zabwino kwa ana. Ngakhale sanagwirizane pazinthu zambiri, adagwirizana pa izi, ndipo zidapambana zina zonse.
Onsewa adalemba ntchito maloya, koma pakati pa Maria ndi Alan, adazichotsa pazokha. Amatha kukhazikika kukhothi, zomwe zimawapulumutsa nthawi ndi ndalama zambiri. Onsewa adazindikira kuti akuyenera kukambirana ndikuti sangapeze chilichonse chomwe angafune, pokhapokha atakonza gawo limodzi lokhala ndi ana onse awiri omwe anali osangalala. Maloya awo adalongosola momwe chisudzulocho chidakhalira chamtendere, chifukwa m'malingaliro awo, adawona zoyipa kwambiri.
Mwina simukudziwa kuti muli ndi zosankha zosiyanasiyana pakusudzulana chifukwa cha nkhani zowopsa zomwe mudamvapo kapena sewero la chisudzulo chomwe mudawona pa TV kapena m'makanema. Chifukwa chake ngati chisudzulo chili mtsogolo mwanu, nayi malangizo othandizira banja omwe mwina loya sanakuuzeni.
1. Makope, Makope, Makope
Pangani zolemba zanu zonse zachuma mukazindikira kuti chisudzulo chili pafupi. Chifukwa simudziwa ngati mudzalandire kapena liti. Kuli bwino kukhala otetezeka kuposa chisoni. Funsani loya wanu kuti ndi zikalata ziti zomwe mudzafunika kwambiri.
2. Gulani mozungulira Woyimira Milandu Wabwino
Zachidziwikire kuti loya akukuwuzani kuti mupeze loya, komanso ndiupangiri wabwino. Zomwe loya sangakuuzeni ndikuti simuyenera kulipira ndalama zonse ngati mukungofunika zofunikira. Koma zedi pezani imodzi. Woyimira milandu amadziwa zonse zotuluka m'malamulo osudzulana ndipo ali kumbali yanu. Tsopano kuposa kale, mukufunika wothandizira kuti akuthandizeni kupeza zomwe zili zabwino kwa inu. Funsani mozungulira kuti mulimbikitse ndipo lankhulani zomwe mungasankhe mukamalimbikitsa. Musawope kugula mozungulira ndikukhala ndi zokambirana zingapo musanasankhe loya yemwe mukufuna kupita naye. Muyenera kudalira omwe mumalemba ntchito.
3. Osathamangira Ku Khoti
Simusowa kukhazikika kukhothi — mutha kusamalira zinthu zakunja, ngati nonse muli ololera. Zingakhale zosavuta komanso zotsika mtengo mwanjira imeneyi. Mutha kusudzulana munjira zosiyanasiyana, kuphatikiza kuyanjana kapena mgwirizano wogwirizana. Izi zingatanthauze nthawi yochepa kugwiritsa ntchito loya, zomwe zingatanthauze ndalama zochepa. Komanso, ganizirani kuti mukakhala kukhothi, woweruza amakhudzidwa. Woweruzayo atha kuweruza kapena ayi.
4. Patsani pang'ono, Pezani pang'ono
Simungope "chisudzulo" chanu. Chowonadi ndi chakuti, palibe amene amapambana. Chifukwa chake, muziyang'ana ngati njira yoti aliyense azipereka zochepa ndikupeza zochepa. Ndi zinthu ziti zofunika kwambiri? Limbani kwa iwo ndikupumula pa zotsalira. Mukamakambirana zambiri ndi omwe mudzakhale nawo posachedwa, nthawi ndi ndalama zochepa zomwe zingatenge, chifukwa mudzazindikira pakati panu musanapereke loya pa ola limodzi kuti achite izi.
5. Musayembekezere Kuti Zikuchitika Usiku
Kusudzulana kumatha kutenga nthawi. Wakale akhoza kukoka mapazi awo, kapena makhothi amatenga nthawi yayitali kukonza kapena kupaka zinthu. Zimangotengera zinthu zambiri. Chifukwa chake khalani oleza mtima ndikupita ndi kutuluka momwe mungathere. Simudzapanikizika ngati simupereka tsiku lomalizira.
6. Patulani Maganizo Anu ndi Lamulo
Ichi chidzakhala chimodzi mwazinthu zovuta kwambiri zomwe mungachite, koma zofunikira kwambiri.Pakasudzulana, mukuyesera kuti mupeze yemwe amalandira, ndipo zinthu zanu zam'manja zimakonda kwambiri. Vomerezani izi, koma musalole kuti aziyendetsa chiwonetserocho.
7. Sungani Zomwe Mungakwanitse, Patsani Zomwe Simungathe
Mutha kudziletsa nokha, choncho siyani kuyesa kuwongolera banja lanu kapena banja lanu. Zachidziwikire, sizitanthauza kuti musiyiretu kumenyera zomwe zili zanu, koma osayika katundu wanu yense. Pamapeto pake, muyenera kuchoka ndi ulemu wanu.
8. Sungani Tsiku
Tsiku lomwe chisudzulo chanu chomaliza chidzakhala chodzaza ndi nkhawa. Zachidziwikire mudzakhala okondwa kuti njirayi yatha ndikuti mutha kupita patsogolo; koma mudzakhalanso odandaula komanso achisoni pazomwe zikadakhala. Musalole kuti tsikulo lisadakonzekereni kanthu kena. Pitani ndi anzanu kuti mukachite kena kake kotentha. Kenako mutha kuyang'ananso tsikulo ngati choyipa choyenera osati tsiku lowopsa lomwe simukufuna kuyankhulapo.