Zamkati
- Amayi amakumana ndi zovuta zina nthawi zina
- Kwa amayi ena, zizolowezi zakale zimafa movutikira
- Kuchita ndi moyo wosakwatiwa kumawoneka kovuta kwa amuna
Chikhalidwe, zaka masauzande m'mbiri komanso zachuma komanso chuma zimalimbikitsabe munthu kukhala ndi moyo masiku ano. Ndipo mwachibadwa kuti zinthuzi zikhale ndi mphamvu pa akazi ndi abambo chimodzimodzi. Kupatula apo, sizovuta kuthawa ubale wamakolo anu ngakhale pano.
Asanakhale ndi ufulu woti akazi azivota, ufulu wawo wophunzirira kumayunivesite chimodzimodzi ndi amuna kapena akazi anzawo, udindo wawo pagulu unali wosiyana kwambiri. Osangodalira amuna okha, mwayi wochepa womwe amakhala nawo nthawi zambiri umatanthauza ubale ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Ma Queens komanso osintha pambali, azimayi ambiri anali omangika kwambiri.
Chifukwa chake, kukambirana ngati azimayi amafunikira amuna mochuluka kapena njira ina kumakhala kovuta kufikira mutu ngakhale titi tiganizire zosintha zambiri zomwe zachitika. Zaka 100 zapitazi, zabweretsa kusintha kwakukulu kwa "amuna osagonana", popeza amuna amakonda kunyoza akazi m'mbuyomu. Ndipo, pakadali pano, zikuwoneka kuti akazi si ofooka monga amuna amafunira kuti akhulupirire ndipo akuchita bwino kudzipangira okha malo m'dziko lino.
Amayi amakumana ndi zovuta zina nthawi zina
Tsoka ilo, pali zochuluka zomwe akazi amayikidwa movutikira mokomera amuna. Ngati mungaganizire izi, ufulu wa anthu, demokalase ndi zopinga pambali, pali malo mabiliyoni pomwe azimayi amalipirabe ndalama zochepa pantchito yofanana ndi yamuna, ndiye kuti zikuwonekeratu kuti zinthu sizinafike momwe ziyenera kukhalira. Komabe, azimayi ambiri amapirira ndipo tsopano ali odziyimira pawokha pazachuma, zomwe zimawapatsa mwayi wambiri womwe kale anali osaganizirika.
Kwa amayi ena, zizolowezi zakale zimafa movutikira
Palibe vuto tsopano kuti mkazi akhale ndi ntchito yolipidwa kwambiri komanso kuti azitha kupumula komanso kusamalira ena. Komabe, zizolowezi zakale zimafa molimba ndipo alipo akazi ambiri omwe amasankha kusamaliridwa ndi anzawo achimuna. Ponseponse, pali azimayi ambiri omwe akusamalidwa ndi amuna kuposa amuna omwe amadalira azimayi kuti apeze zofunika pamoyo. Izi zimatipangitsa kukhulupirira kuti, poyankhula zachuma, azimayi sanazolowere lingaliro losafunikira amuna kuti azidalira ndalama. Koma, izi sizikugwira ntchito kwa azimayi ambiri, ndipo chodabwitsa ndikuti zikuwoneka kuti amuna amakhala osokonezeka pagulu komanso mwamisala popanda kukhala ndi akazi anzawo kuposa momwemo.
Kuchita ndi moyo wosakwatiwa kumawoneka kovuta kwa amuna
Ngakhale ndichowonadi chovomerezeka kuti amuna ndi akazi amamaliza wina ndi mnzake ndikusangalala kukhala pachibwenzi kuposa kukhala okha, zikuwoneka kuti ndizovuta kwa amuna kuthana ndi moyo wosakwatiwa kuposa akazi.
Anthu osudzulana omwe ali ndi ana akuwoneka kuti akutsimikizira izi chifukwa abambo zimawavuta kuyang'anira ntchito zomwe zimaperekedwa kwa azimayi okha, makamaka amayi. Kawirikawiri mumawona bambo wosakwatira akuchita zinthu zapakhomo ndi kulera yekha pakadali amayi ambiri opanda amuna kunja uko omwe amachita bwino kwambiri kukumana ndi zovuta za kholo limodzi kulera ana awo.
Ingoyang'anani ndi agogo anu ndipo mudzawona zofananazo zikafika poti amuna amasiye amatha kudzisamalira. Ndi amuna angati amuna amasiye okalamba omwe amatha kukhalabe ndi moyo wabwino komanso wokhutira atataya amuna awo poyerekeza ndi akazi amasiye? Ndipo ndi angati a iwo amadalira kwambiri thandizo lakunja?
Panali maphunziro omwe anapangidwa ndipo amuna osakwatira ali oipitsitsa kuposa akazi osakwatiwa. M'malo mwake, amuna omwe sanakwatirane amakhala pachiwopsezo chokhala zidakwa, kugwiritsa ntchito mankhwala osokoneza bongo wamba, kuyendetsa mwachangu komanso kukhala ndi ngozi zambiri komanso miyoyo yosasamala komanso yopanda phindu kuposa azimayi omwe amakhala m'malo omwewo. Chifukwa chake, zikuwoneka kuti, kuchokera pamalingaliro, amuna amafunikira akazi kwambiri kuti akwaniritse moyo wokhazikika kuposa njira ina. Pomwe akazi zimawavuta kukhala okha kapena opanda bwenzi lokondana nawo, amuna amawoneka ovuta kwambiri atakula msinkhu. Ndipo, poyerekeza ndikusintha komwe abambo amabweretsa m'moyo wa mkazi, zomwe mkazi amabweretsa m'moyo wamwamuna nthawi zambiri zimakhala zabwino kwambiri.
Ndizovuta kunena izi kwa munthu wina, komabe zikuwonekeratu kuti malamulo ambiri akutsindika kuti amuna amafunikira akazi kuposa momwemonso, momwe zinthu zimasinthira, pali mwayi wokhulupirira kuti izi zidzachitika. makamaka m'tsogolomu. Chowonadi chokha chomwe chatsalira ndikuti abambo ndi amai amafunana wina ndi mnzake, ngakhale pamadongosolo osiyanasiyana.