Zamkati
- 1. Khalani owonekera
- 2. Kuyankhulana ndi kiyi
- 3. Musaphonye usiku wamasana
- 4. Lemekezanani
- 5. Nthabwala imafunika
- 6. Ubwenzi wapamtima
Luso laukwati limaganiziridwa kuti ndi chinthu choyenera kuopedwa.
Ndi kutengeka kwanu konse kukuwonetsedwa kwathunthu, anthu amatha kuchita nazo mantha. Ukwati ndimasewera osakhwima. Ndi mgwirizano wa miyoyo iwiri. Komabe, maukwati ena okha ndi omwe amagwira ntchito. Mwachidziwikire, pali mafungulo oti banja liziyenda bwino.
Ukwati sizovuta konse monga momwe anthu amaganizira. Amamanga anthu awiri pamtima ndi pamtima, mumayamba kukondana ndi munthu amene mudzakwatirane naye, ndipo pamapeto pake mumakula nawo limodzi nthawi zikamapita.
Chifukwa chake, pamapeto pake, mukudziwa kuti zivute zitani mudzakhala ndi malo opatulika komwe mungakhale otetezeka, ndipo mudzamva kukondedwa. Zomwe mukuyenera kuchita ndikutsata njira zopangira banja kuti mukwaniritse maloto anu oti mukhale ndi ubale wabwino, ndipo zonse zidzatheka!
Pali zinthu zosiyanasiyana za banja lopambana zomwe inu ndi mnzanu muyenera kumvetsetsa.
Kuti banja liziyenda bwino, muyenera kuphunzira kulemekezana, kukondana, kukhulupirirana.
Chifukwa chake ngati mukufuna kudziwa momwe mungakhalire ndi ubale wabwino, ndiye kuti muyenera kupitiliza kuwerenga nkhaniyi.
Nazi zinthu zina muukwati wopambana; zomwe ndikufuna mumndandanda wamaubwenzi
1. Khalani owonekera
Nchiyani chimapangitsa ukwati kukhala wopambana = "font-weight: 400;">?
Kuchita Zinthu Mwachilungamo! Nthawi zonse zimakhala zabwino kulola anzanu kudziwa zomwe zikuchitika. Izi zimathandizira pakukhazikitsa lingaliro lachitetezo muubwenzi. Kutumiza nkhani yaying'ono sikupweteka aliyense.
Mukakhala achinsinsi pazinthu ndi mnzanu, zimachepetsa mwayi wakubuka. Popeza amadziwa kale zomwe mumachita, kapena komwe muli chifukwa chake sayenera kungoganizira zinthu.
Osamayembekezera kuti akufunseni mafunso kuti adziwitse pasadakhale.
2. Kuyankhulana ndi kiyi
Chimodzi mwa zinthu zofunika kwambiri muubwenzi ndikulankhulana. Apanso khalani owonetsetsa ndipo lankhulani. Kulankhulana ndichinsinsi chokhazikitsa ubale wabwino.
Maanja omwe amalankhulana ndikudziwitsana wina ndi mnzake zomwe zikuchitika, zomwe akukumana nazo ndi ena amakhala ndi ubale wabwino.
Mukudziwa zomwe zikuchitika. Chifukwa chake, mulibe zifukwa zokayikiranso zinthu kapena kuda nkhawa zamakhalidwe osalongosoka a mnzanuyo.
3. Musaphonye usiku wamasana
Chimodzi mwamaupangiri abwino achikwati ndikudziwa kuti mudzakhalako ndi mnzanu zivute zitani.
Ziribe kanthu zomwe zingachitike, osaphonya usiku uliwonse. Musalole chirichonse; kaya ndi ntchito yanu, ana, nyengo, ndi zina zambiri zimawononga mausiku anu. Masiku ausiku ndiye njira yabwino yolankhulira zakukhosi kwanu.
Mausiku apaderawa amayambitsa kukondana ndipo amalola kuti nonse mukhale omasukirana. Usiku wamadzulo umalola njira yolankhulirana yathanzi.
Mvetsetsani kuti njira yopita kumtima wamwamuna imadutsa m'mimba mwake, koma njira yopita kumtima wamayi ndi kudzera m'makutu ake.
4. Lemekezanani
Anthu okwatirana akamayang'ana patsogolo, ulemu umadza pambuyo pake. Kwambiri successful malangizo banja ndi kuika zofuna za mnzanu patsogolo panu. Mvetsetsani zomwe zili zofunika kwa mnzanu.
Izi sizitanthauza kuti muyenera kupereka zosowa zanu. M'malo mwake, zikutanthauza kuti mumaganizira momwe akumvera, ndipo mukamaganizira, zimawonetsa kuti mumakonda komanso kulemekeza wokondedwa wathu. Izi zimakupatsani mwayi wolumikizana pakati panu.
5. Nthabwala imafunika
Kuti ubale ukhale wopambana ndichinthu chofunikira kwambiri pa ubale?
Nthabwala!
Kuti ubale wanu ukhale wolimba komanso wolimba, muyenera kuyikamo nthabwala.
Sikuti muyenera kungotengera moyo wanu mopepuka, komanso yesetsani kuti musaganizirane kapena nokha.
Khalani okondwa kusangalala pamodzi ndi kuseka; ndi mphindi zamtengo wapatali izi zomwe zimathandizira kulimbitsa ubale wanu.
6. Ubwenzi wapamtima
Kukondana ndizofunikira kwambiri kuti banja liziyenda bwino.
Mphamvu zakugonana ndizofunikira paubwenzi. Komabe, sizokhudza kugonana komanso kugonana, m'malo mochita ndi manja ang'onoang'ono omwe amathandizira kuti chisangalalo chikhalebe chamoyo.
Ngakhale mutakhala limodzi nthawi yayitali bwanji, mukufunikirabe kuti chisangalalocho chikhalebe chamoyo, ndipo ndichimodzi mwazinthu zofunikira kuti mukhale ndiubwenzi wabwino. Chifukwa chake chitani zinthu zazing'ono ndi mnzanu monga kutenga kusamba limodzi, kuperekanso mmbuyo, kugwirana chanza, kupita kutchuthi, ndi zina zambiri.
Chifukwa chake ngati mukudabwa chomwe chimapangitsa ukwati kukhala wokhalitsa, zinthu zofunika kwambiri muukwati, onetsetsani kuti mukutsatira malangizowa.
Ukwati suli wovuta pokhapokha mutapanga. Malingana ngati mutsatira zinthu izi kuti ukwati ukhale wopambana, banja lanu likhala bwino. Ingokumbukirani kukondana ndi kukhulupirirana, samalani za momwe wina akumvera, bola ngati mukukumbukirana mudzakhala ndi banja losangalala.