Zamkati
- Kwezani miyezo yanu
- 1. Ngati anazichita kamodzi, adzazibwerezanso
- 2. Simumakhala ndi malingaliro ofanana pa moyo
- 3. Mukumubweza chifukwa chakuti muli nokha
- 4. Iyenso ndi chidutswa chomwecho
- 5. Zakale nthawi zonse zimakusowetsani mtendere
Mukayamba chibwenzi, simuganiza za zoyipa zonse zomwe zingachitike kwinakwake panjira. Muli pamtambo naini ndipo mukuganiza kuti mwapeza chikondi cha moyo wanu. Koma nthawi zambiri, mumalakwitsa chifukwa chilichonse chomwe chimawoneka bwino poyamba sichikhala chabwino. Pali anyamata omwe amakulonjezani mwezi ndi nyenyezi koma amakunyengani ndi mtsikana woyamba kukumana naye.
Kwezani miyezo yanu
Ndipo chifukwa cha anyamatawo, muyenera kukweza miyezo yanu osakhazikika pazomwe mukuyenera. Chifukwa chake, ngati mukuganiza kuti pali chifukwa chabwino chomulola kuti abwerere kwa inu pambuyo pa kutha kwa banja, kapena chifukwa cha kusakhulupirika m'banja, ndiyenera kunena kuti palibe. Ngati munthu wakuberekani kamodzi, adzachitanso. Akangopeza mwayiwo amalumpha pabedi la wina ndikuyiwaliratu za inu.
Ngati sindinakutsimikizireni, nayi mndandanda wazifukwa zomwe simuyenera kuperekanso mwayi kwa wonyenga
1. Ngati anazichita kamodzi, adzazibwerezanso
Chomwe chimakhala cha ma exes ndikuti amadziwa zolakwa zanu zonse ndipo azazigwiritsa ntchito kukutsutsani. Chifukwa chake, ngati awona kuti mwamukhululukira komaliza adzakunamizaninso kapena angakupwetekeni mwanjira iliyonse, poganiza kuti mudzamukhululukira. Ichi ndichifukwa chake simuyenera kumupatsanso mwayi wina. Sangasinthe mwachangu ndipo zimatenga nthawi kuti azindikire zomwe akufuna pamoyo wake komanso ubalewo.
2. Simumakhala ndi malingaliro ofanana pa moyo
Kubwererana ndi wokondedwa wanu pambuyo pa kusakhulupirika muukwati kapena ubale nthawi zina kumatha kukhala kwabwino chifukwa mungamve kuti ndinu otetezedwa komanso omasuka m'manja mwake koma mudzagwa pachiwopsezo choyamba.
Simumukhulupiliranso ndipo ngakhale atachita kanthu kakang'ono kwambiri mumayimilira, ndikumuimba mlandu kuti wakupweteketsani. Ndicho chifukwa chake kuli bwino kukhala kutali ndi iye. Sikwabwino kumangirira chovala chakale ndipo mutha kulingalira kuti chingakhale chikondi chotani ngati chingasokedwe.
3. Mukumubweza chifukwa chakuti muli nokha
Nthawi zina anthu safuna kukhala okha kotero amapanga zisankho zolakwika. Ndikudziwa atsikana ambiri omwe adalandiranso anzawo akale chifukwa anali achisoni ali okha. Iwo anali opsinjika ndipo ankaganiza kuti kunali bwino kukhala ndi munthu wina kusiyana ndi kukhala wekha. Koma sizowona chifukwa munthu woopsa akhoza kuwononga moyo wanu pomwe inu osazindikira.
Ngati muli ndi mavuto kukhala nokha, yesetsani kupeza china chomwe chingakubwezeretsaninso koma chilichonse chomwe mungachite, musamupatse mwayi wokondedwa wanu wachiwiri, chifukwa sipadzakhalanso ubale wabwino.
4. Iyenso ndi chidutswa chomwecho
Kuthekera kwakuti mnzanu wakale azisintha munthawi yochepa chabe ndi nkhani yongopeka kwa ana ndipo ngati mumakhulupirira, simudziteteza kuti musavulale. Ngati wina wakukhumudwitsani ndipo adadziwa kuti musweka mtima, nthawi yakwana yoti musankhe nokha ndikumulola apite.
Kupanga chidaliro muubwenzi ndikosavuta, koma kulisunga ndiye vuto lenileni. Ngati atakwiya ndikuyesa kukubwezerani, muwonetseni kuti ndinu m'modzi mwa akazi olimba mtima ndipo simulora kuti amuna azikulamulirani. Atazindikira kuti mukuvuta kuthana nawo, adzakusiyani nokha.
5. Zakale nthawi zonse zimakusowetsani mtendere
Ngakhale mutamupatsa mwayi wokondedwa wanu wakale, zakale zidzakusowetsani mtendere. Nthawi iliyonse akatuluka ndi abwenzi ake mumaluma misomali yanu, ndikudabwa ngati akumenya mtsikana wina komanso ngati angakunyengeni. Kodi uwu ndiye mtundu wa moyo womwe mukufuna kukhala nawo? Ndikhulupirireni, mukuyenera wina amene adzakusankhirani tsiku lililonse kapena kungochoka.
Kukulunga
Chikondi chanu chophika theka sichomwe mwakhala mukuchiyembekezera ngati ndicho chokhacho chomwe angakupatseni, ingopitilizani. Zokwanira anati.