Zamkati
- Kutseguka
- Chifundo ndi kuona mtima
- Kukhudza thupi
- Kukhululuka
- Kukondana kumadza ndi kumasuka, kuwona mtima, chifundo, ndi kukhululuka
Anthu awiri omwe mumawaganizira ngati banja loyenerera atha kukhala ndi china chake chapadera chomwe chimawapangitsa kukhala banja "lomwelo". Izi ndizapadera kwambiri.
Ubwenzi wapamtima ndi kuyandikana pakati pa okwatirana omwe ali ndi malingaliro.
Chikondi champhamvu cha m'maganizo chitha kuwonekera momwe awiri amalankhulira, kulumikizana komanso momwe amakhalira limodzi.Mabanja omwe ali ndi mgwirizano woterewu amakondana wina ndi mnzake ngati maginito, kuwapangitsa kukhala banja lanu labwino.
Kukula kwakukulu kwa maubwenzi apamtima kumakhala kosangalatsa ukwati wanu ndi ubale wanu.
Ndikunenedwa kuti, anthu ena zimawavuta kuzindikira chomwe chimakhala chikondi cha m'mabanja, ndipo zimawapangitsa kukhala kovuta kutsanzira chibwenzi chawo.
Ngati ndi choncho kwa inu, pitirizani kuwerenga ndikupeza zina mwa zitsanzo za kukondana komwe kungakuthandizeni kulimbitsa ubale wanu.
Kutseguka
Mabanja omwe ali okondana kwambiri amasankha kukhala pachiwopsezo chachikulu komanso otseguka wina ndi mnzake. Alibe zopinga zilizonse zomwe wokondedwa wawo ayenera kuwononga ndipo amabweretsa mtima wawo ndi moyo wawo pagome.
Koma kumbukirani kuti kuswa zopinga zotere kumatenga nthawi chifukwa anthu ambiri omwe ayamba chibwenzi chatsopano amakhala ndi nkhani zodalirana ndipo amawayang'anira chifukwa cha zomwe adakumana nazo m'mbuyomu.
Pakapita nthawi alonda, yambani kutsika, ndipo mutha kufikira kwa mnzanu amene alidi.
Kuti mupange mawonekedwe otseguka mu ubale wanu, muyenera kutsogolera. Kuti mnzanu atsike omulondera, muyenera kuchita kaye.
Chifundo ndi kuona mtima
Kutseguka mu chibwenzi kumatha kuchita bwino ngati mungakhale achilungamo. Mukamalankhula ndi mnzanu, muyenera kukhala ndi mtima wachifundo komanso lilime loona. Pakhoza kukhala zowonadi zowawitsa zomwe muyenera kuwuza anzanu koma mutha kuwadziwitsa osawasautsa mtima.
Njira yokhayo yolumikizirana ndi kukhalira limodzi ndi kukhala owona mtima ndi achifundo kwa wina ndi mnzake.
Kukhudza thupi
Ndikofunikira kuti mumvetsetse gawo lokhala lathupi kuti mumveke zomwe mukumva. Kukhudza kosavuta kumatha kuyankhulana kwambiri ngati kwachitika molondola.
Amayi ena amamva mawu oti "ndimakukonda" amuna awo akamasewera ndi tsitsi lawo pomwe amuna ena amamva mawu atatuwa atakanda khosi.
Okwatirana omwe ali pachibwenzi amamvetsetsa kuti kulumikizana mu maubale sikutanthauza kuti mukuyankhula, nthawi zina kuti mulankhulane muyenera kulola matupi anu kuyankhula ndikudziwitsa wokondedwa wanu momwe akumvera.
Kuti mubweretse kukondana kwambiri m'maganizo mwanu muyenera kuyamba kukhala kunja kwa chipinda chogona; yesani kukumbatirana kwambiri, kugwirana manja, kukondera mnzanu kapena kungoyang'ana maso.
Kukhululuka
Maukwati omwe amakhala kwanthawi yayitali nthawi zambiri amapangidwa ndi anthu omwe amatha kukhululukirana. Kukhala wokwatiwa ndi munthu wina kumatanthauza kuti muyenera kumamatira ngakhale mutakumana ndi mavuto, ukwati ndikudzipereka kwanthawi yayitali ndipo anthu amatha kulakwitsa.
Kuti anthu okwatirana azikondana kwambiri ndikusungabe chibwenzi chawo, kukhululukirana kuyenera kusewera.
Ngati okwatirana sakhululukirana ndiye kuti pang onopangapo akhoza kupanga mtunda ndipo mkwiyo umabwera. Ndipo musanadziwe, maanjawa pamapeto pake amaponyera chopukutira paukwati wawo.
Ndikofunika kuti onse awiri aphunzire kukhululukirana mmalo mokhala ndi mkwiyo.
Kukondana kumadza ndi kumasuka, kuwona mtima, chifundo, ndi kukhululuka
Aliyense akufuna kukhala banja labwino, nkhani yaphwando ndi tawuni yonse; komabe, kukondana kwakuya kumadza ndi kutseguka kwapamwamba, kuwona mtima, chifundo, ndi kukhululuka.
Zimaphatikizira kuwopsa komwe kumatha kukhala kosasangalatsa kwa ambiri komanso kupangitsa nkhawa. Koma malingaliro oterewa amatha kuchepa pakapita nthawi chifukwa chochita, ndipo izi zimapereka njira ya kukondana ndi kukhulupirirana.
Anthu okwatirana omwe angathe kukhala pachibwenzi chotere amatha kukhala mwamtendere ndi iwo okha ndi wina ndi mnzake. Amatha kugawana zolephera ndi zolakwa zawo popanda kuchita manyazi; amatha kuyankhula za nthawi zawo zamanyazi, kumva kusakwanira, mbali yawo yamdima, masomphenya, ziyembekezo, ndi maloto awo.
Mabanja oterewa akuyenera kuwonetserana kuyamikirana ndikuyamikira wina ndi mnzake ndikukhala okhutira ndi moyo wawo.
Zonsezi zimapangitsa kukhala ndi moyo wabwino, kukhala ndi thanzi labwino komanso kukhala ndi chiyembekezo chamoyo. Pali zopindika zomwe nthawi zina zimawonekera panjira yanu, komabe, osanyalanyaza zotumphukira izi ndikuwona moyo pamodzi zomwe ndizomwe zimakupangitsani kukhala banja labwino.
Gwiritsani ntchito zitsanzo tatchulazi pamene mukuyenda mumsewu wautali waukwati ndikukhumba kukhala anthu abwinoko komanso othandizana nawo bwino.