Zamkati
- Ubwenzi wapamtima umachokera pazomwe mwakumana nazo limodzi
- 1. Kumbukirani chifukwa chomwe munakondera poyamba
- 2 Pangani njira yolumikizirana pakati panu
- 3. Pangani mawu achinsinsi a nthawi yomwe wina sakumva mnzake
- 4. Yesetsani kugwira ntchito mwakhama tsiku ndi tsiku kuti muzipeza ndalama zogulira mnzanu
- 5. Konzani zakukhala ndi masana usiku
- 6. Muziuzana pafupipafupi kuti mumayamikirana komanso kuti mumakondana
- 7. Pangani miyambo pakati panu ndikuitsatira
Ubwenzi wapamtima umachokera pazomwe mwakumana nazo limodzi
Kukondana ndichinthu chomwe nthawi zambiri chimafunikira muubwenzi ndikusowa pomwe sichikupezeka. Koma maubwenzi apabanja sichinthu chomwe chimangoyang'aniridwa, kapena kuyankhulidwa moyenera ndi maanja omwe ali pachibwenzi ndikupangitsa zinthu kukhala zovuta, kukondana nthawi zambiri kumamvetsedwa. Nthawi zambiri amakankhidwa munkhani zogonana osaganizira zina zonse, komanso njira zofunika kwambiri zomwe chibwenzi chimachitikira m'banja.
Ubwenzi wapamtima ungayambike kuyambira pachiwonetsero chakugonana koyambirira kwenikweni ndi momwe mumawonetsera anu omwe ali pachiwopsezo chachikulu kwambiri m'magawo amenewo. Koma pakapita nthawi, kukondana kumabwera kuchokera pazomwe mumakumana nazo limodzi, momwe mumakonzera limodzi, ndikumvetsetsa zovuta zazing'onozi, ndi mayankho omwe amachokera kwa wina amene amakudziwani bwino.
Ngati mukufuna kukulitsa chibwenzi chanu, nazi njira zingapo zokulitsira ndi kusungabe bwino ubale wanu.
1. Kumbukirani chifukwa chomwe munakondera poyamba
Pangani mfundo kuti muzikumbukira nthawi zonse chifukwa chomwe mudakondera poyamba, kuti munthawi yamavuto, mtunda, kapena mikangano mudzakhale ndi mwayi wabwino wogwirira ntchito limodzi. Kungosinthitsa malingaliro anu kuti muzikondana ndikuyamikirana, kumachepetsa m'mbali mwaubwenzi ndikuthandizani nonse kukhalabe odzipereka kwa wina ndi mnzake komanso kukhala ogwirizana.
2 Pangani njira yolumikizirana pakati panu
Kulankhulana kumatha kukhala vuto kwa tonsefe, ndipo kumatha kuyambitsa mtunda waubwenzi momwe kungakhalire wopanga ubale wapabanja. Kuphunzira momwe kulumikizana kwathu kumasokonezana, kukhumudwitsana, kapena kulimbikitsana, kungatithandizenso kukonza kulumikizana kwathu.
Nthawi zina imatha kutsegula pansi kuti tikambirane chifukwa chake timalumikizirana monga momwe timachitira, komanso momwe zimakhudzira wina ndi mnzake - zomwe zitha kungoyambitsa mikangano ina. Kuphunzira kulumikizana wina ndi mnzake mwachikondi komanso mwachikondi kumakweza ubale wanu mwamaubwenzi omwe simunawonepo kale.
3. Pangani mawu achinsinsi a nthawi yomwe wina sakumva mnzake
Pali nthawi zina muubwenzi momwe m'modzi angaganize kuti mnzakeyo akukokomeza, kuseka, kapena kungokhalira kukangana pankhani. Zomwe zimawapangitsa kuti achepetse vutoli. Zachidziwikire, ngati mnzakeyo ali wozama izi zitha kukhala zoyambitsa zazikulu ndikuyambitsa mtunda woyandikira kwambiri maanja. Kuvomereza mawu achinsinsi omwe ali achinsinsi pakati panu kumakupatsani mwayi wouza mnzanu kuti mukutsimikiza mtima pankhani inayake. Mawu amtunduwu amathanso kugwiritsidwa ntchito kudziwitsana wina ndi mzake akafunitsitsa kusiya chochitika, kapena kuthandizirana pokambirana.
Kuti musunge mphamvu yamawu amawu, akuyenera kugwiritsidwa ntchito pamavuto okhaokha, osagwiritsidwapo ntchito ngati nthabwala, kapena kukakamiza zofuna zanu kupita kuphwando linalo. Mukazigwiritsa ntchito moyenera, zimalimbitsa ubale wanu chifukwa nonse mukudziwa kuti muli ndi mawu omwe mungagwiritse ntchito zovuta kwambiri, kapena zokhumudwitsa kwa inu. Zimangokhala ngati bulangeti yachitetezo kuti mukhale omasuka kukhala osatetezeka komanso kukhulupirirana.
4. Yesetsani kugwira ntchito mwakhama tsiku ndi tsiku kuti muzipeza ndalama zogulira mnzanu
Ngati nonse mumagwira ntchito molimbika tsiku lililonse kuti musunge zofuna za mnzanu. Kuti muwathandize mwakuthupi, mwamalingaliro komanso m'maganizo, ndipo nonse ndinu odzipereka kuchita izi, mupeza kuti kudalirana ndi kukondana muubwenzi wanu kumakulirakulira chifukwa choti mutha kudalira munthu winayo kuti akukondereni.
5. Konzani zakukhala ndi masana usiku
Ndikosavuta kutengeka ndi moyo, zosangalatsa, ntchito komanso banja. Nonse ndinu anthu omwe mumakhala moyo wamodzi koma mumabweranso limodzi kumapeto kwa tsiku. Ndikosavuta kuiwala kuti muyenera kulumikizananso. Makamaka pankhani yosunga chibwenzi chanu komanso kukhala pafupi pakati panu.
Kupanga nthawi yocheza ndi mausiku ngati makolo, kapena kuyesetsa kuvala ndi kutuluka ngati ndinu okwatirana, omwe angokhala omasuka ndi sofa! Izi sizidzangokupangitsani kuti mukhale ogwirizana komanso ogwirizana, komanso zisungabe kuyaka pakati panu ndikupangitsani kuti musangalale mukamasangalala usiku.
6. Muziuzana pafupipafupi kuti mumayamikirana komanso kuti mumakondana
Kukondana kumafuna kukhulupirirana, osati kungokhulupirira kuti mutha kukhala ndi mnzanu kumbuyo kwanu, kukutetezani kapena kukhala achilungamo kwa inu, komanso muyenera kudziwa kuti amakugwirani, amakukondani komanso amakukondani. Momwemonso, wokondedwa wanu amafunikira chimodzimodzi kuchokera kwa inu ndipo potero, banja lanu likhala lamoyo ndipo chibwenzi chanu ndichinthu chodabwitsa.
7. Pangani miyambo pakati panu ndikuitsatira
Kupanga miyambo, monga kukondwerera usiku womwe mudakumana nawo, chikumbutso chanu, kukhala ndi banja bbq chaka chilichonse. Kubwerezanso malo okongola kumapeto kwa sabata, kapena kupatula sabata limodzi pachaka (kapena kupitilira apo ngati mungakwanitse) kuti mufufuze padziko lapansi. Ngakhale miyambo yaying'ono monga mnzake yemwe samaphika pafupipafupi amayesetsa kuphika kadzutsa Lamlungu.
Mwina kumapeto kwa sabata iliyonse mumayenda limodzi. Miyambo imapanga kukumbukira kopatulika, ndipo imayimitsa masabata atha kukhala zaka. Chifukwa chake ngati simukukondwerera zikondwerero zachikhalidwe, pangani zikondwerero zanu, zofunikira kwambiri ndikuwona momwe zokumana nazo ndi zokukumbutsirani zikukuyandikirani ndikulimbikitsa ubale wanu.