Zamkati
- Seputembara 21, 1996
- 1996-1999
- Novembala 18, 2003
- February 12, 2004-Marichi 11, 2004
- February 20, 2004
- February 24, 2004
- February 27, 2004
- Meyi 17, 2004
- Novembala 2, 2004
Nthawi ikamapita, timangomva pang'ono za maukwati a amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, omwe ndimakondwera nawo.
Sikuti sindikukhulupirira kuti anthu ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ayenera kukwatira; Kukhumudwa kwanga kumachokera chifukwa chake ili vuto ngakhale poyambirira.
Gay kapena molunjika, chikondi ndi chikondi. Ukwati umakhazikitsidwa mchikondi, ndiye bwanji tifunika kusamala ngati anthu awiri omwe amagonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha akufuna kukwatirana?
Ngati banja likadakhala "lopatulika" monga momwe otsutsa anganene, ukwati sukadakhala wokwera momwe uliri. Bwanji osalola kuti wina akuwombere?
Kwakhala zaka zingapo tsopano kuyambira pomwe ukwati wa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha walembetsa ku United States. Anthu ambiri atha kuyiwala nkhondo yakwera yomwe gulu la LBGT lidatenga zaka zikubwerazi.
Basi ndi kumenyera ufulu wachibadwidwe-waku Africa-America, akazi, ndi zina zambiri.pakhala pali mayesero ndi masautso ambiri omwe adatsogolera ku kufanana kwa maukwati kukhala lamulo.
Ndikofunika kuti tisaiwale zovuta izi, ndikupewa kuyang'ana nkhaniyi kudzera mu 2017 lens. Nkhondo yakukwatiwa ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha idayamba kale zisanachitike, ndipo mbiri ndiyomwe iyenera kuyankhulidwanso.
Onaninso:
Seputembara 21, 1996
Ukwati wa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha nthawi zambiri umawoneka ngati demokalase motsutsana ndi vuto la Republican; Nthawi zambiri, ma democrat amakhala nawo pomwe anzawo aku Republican sali okonda. Zomwe tsiku ili limakhala kwa ine ndi chifukwa cha amene anali kumbuyo kwake.
Patsikuli mu 1996, a Bill Clinton adasaina lamulo la Defense of Marriage Act loletsa boma kuvomereza ukwati wa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha komanso kuti ukwati ndi "mgwirizano pakati pa mwamuna m'modzi ndi mkazi mmodzi ngati mwamuna ndi mkazi."
Inde, Bill Clinton yemweyo yemwe wakhala mutu wa chipani cha demokalase ku United States kuyambira pomwe anali purezidenti. Ndikulingalira kuti zambiri zasintha mzaka 20 zapitazi.
1996-1999
Mayiko ngati Hawaii ndi Vermont amayesera kupatsa maanja ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ufulu wofanana ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha.
Kuyesera kwa Hawaii kudapemphedwa atangomaliza kumene, ndipo Vermont idachita bwino. Mulimonsemo sizinalolere amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ukwati, zimangopatsa maanja ogonana maufulu ofanana ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha.
Novembala 18, 2003
Khothi Lalikulu ku Massachusetts lalamula kuti kuletsa ukwati wa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ndizosemphana ndi malamulo. Ndi chigamulo choyamba cha mtundu wake.
February 12, 2004-Marichi 11, 2004
Potsutsana ndi malamulo adzikolo, mzinda wa San Francisco udayamba kuloleza ndikuchita maukwati a amuna kapena akazi okhaokha.
Pa Marichi 11, Khothi Lalikulu ku California lidalamula San Francisco kuti ileke kupereka ziphaso zaukwati kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha.
Mwezi umodzi womwe San Francisco anali kupereka chilolezo chokwatirana ndikuchita maukwati ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, anthu opitilira 4,000 adagwiritsa ntchito mwayiwu pazovala zantchito.
February 20, 2004
Powona kufalikira kuchokera ku gululi ku San Francisco, Sandoval County, New Mexico idapereka ziphaso zokwatirana 26 za amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Tsoka ilo, ziphasozi zidasokonekera kumapeto kwa tsiku ndi loya wamkulu waboma.
February 24, 2004
Purezidenti George W. Bush akuwonetsa kuti akuchirikiza kusintha kwamalamulo oletsa maukwati a amuna kapena akazi okhaokha.
February 27, 2004
A Jason West, meya wa New Paltz, New York, adachita zikondwerero za mabanja pafupifupi khumi ndi awiri.
Pofika Juni chaka chomwecho, West idalamulidwa kukhothi ndi Ulster County Supreme Court kuti isakwatirane amuna kapena akazi okhaokha.
Pakadali pano koyambirira kwa 2004, kukakamiza ufulu waukwati wa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha kumawoneka kovuta. Ndikupita patsogolo kulikonse, panali zocheperako pang'ono.
Ndi Purezidenti wa United States akuwonetsa kuthandizira kuletsa ukwati wa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, sizikuwoneka kuti zipambana.
Meyi 17, 2004
Massachusetts idaloleza ukwati wa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Anali boma loyamba kutuluka mu chipinda chokwatirana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ndikulola aliyense, ngakhale atakhala kuti amakonda zogonana, kuti akwatire.
Uku kunali kupambana kwakukulu pagulu la LGBT popeza amakumana ndi kukana kotereku kuchokera kwa opanga malamulo koyambirira kwa chaka.
Novembala 2, 2004
Mwinanso poyankha kupambana kwa gulu la LGBT ku Massachusetts, zigawo 11 zidapereka zosintha pamalamulo zomwe zimatanthauza ukwati pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi.
Izi zikuphatikiza: Arkansas, Georgia, Kentucky, Michigan, Mississippi, Montana, North Dakota, Ohio, Oklahoma, Oregon, ndi Utah.
Pazaka 10 zikubwerazi, akuti mdziko lonseli adamenyera nkhondo yolamula kuti amuna kapena akazi okhaokha aziletsa kapena lamulo lololeza kuti amuna kapena akazi okhaokha akwatire.
Mayiko ngati Vermont, New York, ndi California adavota kuti avomereze malamulo omwe amalola ukwati wa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha.
Mayiko monga Alabama ndi Texas adasankha kusaina malamulo oletsa ukwati wa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Ndi gawo lirilonse lakuyanjanitsa mabanja, zimawoneka kuti pamakhala makhoti m'mabwalo amilandu, zikalata, kapena pempho lina.
Mu 2014 kenako 2015, mafunde adayamba kusintha.
Mayiko omwe sanatenge nawo mbali pankhani yaukwati wa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha adayamba kuthana ndi maukwati a amuna kapena akazi okhaokha komanso maukwati awo, zomwe zidapangitsa kuti pakhale mphamvu zoyendetsera kufanana kwaukwati.
Pa June 26, 2015, Khoti Lalikulu Kwambiri ku United States linagamula kuti 5-4 kuti ukwati wa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ukhale wovomerezeka m'maiko onse 50.
Momwe Maganizo ndi Maganizo Anasinthira Pakapita Nthawi
Kumapeto kwa zaka za m'ma 1990, Bill Clinton atangosaina lamulo la Defense of Marriage Act, ambiri aku America sanavomereze ukwati wa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha; 57% adatsutsa, ndipo 35% anali kuchirikiza.
Malinga ndi kafukufuku yemwe watchulidwa pa pewforum.org, 2016 idawonetsa kusiyana kwakukulu ndi manambala akale.
Chithandizo chaukwati wa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha chimawoneka kuti chasintha m'zaka 20 kuchokera pomwe Clinton adalemba cholembera patsamba 55: 55% tsopano anali okonda ukwati wa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha pomwe 37% okha ndi omwe ankatsutsa.
Zinthu zinasintha, anthu anasintha, ndipo pamapeto pake, kufanana pakati pa mabanja kunakula.
Chikhalidwe chathu chayamba kuchepa ndi gulu lachiwerewere makamaka chifukwa chawonekera. Amuna ndi akazi ambiri achiwerewere atuluka mumithunzi ndikuwonetsa kunyada kwawo.
Chimene ambiri a ife tazindikira kuti anthuwa sali osiyana konse. Amakondabe, kugwira ntchito, kusamalira, ndikukhala monga tonsefe.
Pamene anthu ambiri apeza zomwe amakonda kuchita ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha owazungulira, ndikosavuta kuzindikira kuti nawonso akuyenera kuwomberedwa paukwati.
Sichiyenera kukhala kalabu yokhayo; titha kukhala ndi anthu ochepa omwe akufuna kukondana kwa moyo wonse.